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04 Dec 2015, 9:12 pm

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This happens the other way round as well.

Multiple Girls Competing For One Guy


This happens a lot in my school and grade, all the girls are always talking to this guy. I don't think he likes me thought, because he sometimes death stares me when he sees me.


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04 Dec 2015, 9:19 pm

Aspie202 wrote:
ZD wrote:
This happens the other way round as well.

Multiple Girls Competing For One Guy


This happens a lot in my school and grade, all the girls are always talking to this guy. I don't think he likes me thought, because he sometimes death stares me when he sees me.

Mhm. I get what you're saying, theres that one assman at my school who's always sitting at the same bench with 4-5 girls art his feet. He talks sweet to them and they fall for it. You shouldn't fall for him even if he starts giving you attention. People like this are sex addicts and narcissists who will abuse you.


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04 Dec 2015, 9:20 pm

Aspie202 wrote:
ZD wrote:
This happens the other way round as well.

Multiple Girls Competing For One Guy


This happens a lot in my school and grade, all the girls are always talking to this guy. I don't think he likes me thought, because he sometimes death stares me when he sees me.


probably means he likes you not them ;)


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04 Dec 2015, 9:23 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Aspie202 wrote:
ZD wrote:
This happens the other way round as well.

Multiple Girls Competing For One Guy


This happens a lot in my school and grade, all the girls are always talking to this guy. I don't think he likes me thought, because he sometimes death stares me when he sees me.

Mhm. I get what you're saying, theres that one assman at my school who's always sitting at the same bench with 4-5 girls art his feet. He talks sweet to them and they fall for it. You shouldn't fall for him even if he starts giving you attention. People like this are sex addicts and narcissists who will abuse you.


True, true. I have been getting some attention from the girls he usually talks to, and he might think I might be trying to rival him.


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04 Dec 2015, 9:26 pm

Aspie202 wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Aspie202 wrote:
ZD wrote:
This happens the other way round as well.

Multiple Girls Competing For One Guy


This happens a lot in my school and grade, all the girls are always talking to this guy. I don't think he likes me thought, because he sometimes death stares me when he sees me.

Mhm. I get what you're saying, theres that one assman at my school who's always sitting at the same bench with 4-5 girls art his feet. He talks sweet to them and they fall for it. You shouldn't fall for him even if he starts giving you attention. People like this are sex addicts and narcissists who will abuse you.


True, true. I have been getting some attention from the girls he usually talks to, and he might think I might be trying to rival him.
Wait what gender/orientation are you? I read your last post as if you were a girl but now I'm not sure of the sense.


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04 Dec 2015, 9:30 pm

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DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Aspie202 wrote:
ZD wrote:
This happens the other way round as well.

Multiple Girls Competing For One Guy


This happens a lot in my school and grade, all the girls are always talking to this guy. I don't think he likes me thought, because he sometimes death stares me when he sees me.

Mhm. I get what you're saying, theres that one assman at my school who's always sitting at the same bench with 4-5 girls art his feet. He talks sweet to them and they fall for it. You shouldn't fall for him even if he starts giving you attention. People like this are sex addicts and narcissists who will abuse you.


True, true. I have been getting some attention from the girls he usually talks to, and he might think I might be trying to rival him.
Wait what gender/orientation are you? I read your last post as if you were a girl but now I'm not sure of the sense.


male


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04 Dec 2015, 9:44 pm

to save the nested quotes I read as female as well.


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04 Dec 2015, 9:45 pm

are you talking about yourself in the third person?


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05 Dec 2015, 12:29 am

Ok let me set one thing straight.

I actually do care about the relationship part of girls. I'm one of those hopeless romantic types, I want someone whom I can talk to and be friends with and we really connect and get along.

Yes I know i'm a very horny guy who likes sex (who doesn't at my age? lol) But believe it or not, I care more about finding a relationship with a girl then simply just f*****g.

I want someone I can bond with and a girlfriend. If it means I have to wait before we do it, that's okay too. As long as i'm not dating one of those wait for marriage type of chicks. Then once she ready, she can ride all night lonnnnnnggggg. Nothing more beautiful then two lovers making love in my opinion.



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05 Dec 2015, 12:56 am

Love is never a competition, as even if two people want the same person, the person they want might love neither or only one of them. It's pretty set in stone and most people don't 'choose' who they love.

So if you think love is a competition, it's a lose-lose situation.

But, dating has the potential to be competitive, certainly.

There really are some women out there who actually choose to make it one. Usually the women who recieve an extremely high amount of attention from males. They potentially can choose whichever 1 of the 5 males they are currently dating in a time-frame of a month based on whatever criteria they want.

This is also just as true for some men.

Dating is only a competition for a tiny minority of people - those that get so much attention and dates that they can choose a 'winner' like that. The 'winner' isn't someone they love, but either someone they want sex from (one night stand/fwb) or someone they would like to get to know better/try for a relationship with.

But, for the other 95 to 99% of people, it's not a competition.

Either way, in modern dating culture especially the U.S, yes, some competition may potentially exist, I believe. How could it not?

This isn't to say any of us should develop the attitude that women are 'prizes to be won' or any of that rubbish - I'm just arguing that there are some people who might actually see the opposite sex as a prize, and some attractive people may actually consider themselves a 'prize to be won' themselves.



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05 Dec 2015, 1:15 am

Well said man.

Gives a statement and gives his reason why he believes the statement, that's how you do it.

I obviously don't know everything. But if Outrider the aspie dating prodigy says something's true when it comes to dating, i'm going to believe it.



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05 Dec 2015, 2:38 am

darkphantomx1 wrote:
Ok let me set one thing straight.

I actually do care about the relationship part of girls. I'm one of those hopeless romantic types, I want someone whom I can talk to and be friends with and we really connect and get along.

Yes I know i'm a very horny guy who likes sex (who doesn't at my age? lol) But believe it or not, I care more about finding a relationship with a girl then simply just f*****g.

I want someone I can bond with and a girlfriend. If it means I have to wait before we do it, that's okay too. As long as i'm not dating one of those wait for marriage type of chicks. Then once she ready, she can ride all night lonnnnnnggggg. Nothing more beautiful then two lovers making love in my opinion.

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You also want to know how to pickup girls, don't be an as*hole like me. You see, the reason i'm undateable is because i'm unrelatable. You never see me trying to talk or connect with women. You know why? Because I suck at talking and I have no interest in forming connections. I just wanna f**k. Don't be like me. If you want a girlfriend, be a nice genuine guy who takes the time to talk to women and EVENTUALLY you will find a girl. I GUARANTEE YOU. If all you do is want to get inside a girls pants (like me) it's not going to workout.


Don't be like me. Be the nice genuine guy.

I'm probably gonna regret writing this a day from now. This is what sucks monkey nuts about Wrong Planet. You can't erase embarrassing posts after 30 minutes. Screw that stupid ass rule!

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05 Dec 2015, 2:40 am

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Most men will "take any decent-looking woman" because most men are not looking for a long-term relationship - they're just looking for c*m-catchers who can cook, clean, do laundry and bring them cold beer. As long as that is all they want, then "any decent-looking woman" will do.


I wouldn't trust "any decent-looking woman" to cook for me or bring me any kind of drink, especially not one pissed off for having to do the cleaning and the laundry for me. Neither would I trust her not to bite my tongue and tear it off when I kissed her, or not to have one of those nasty contraptions with hooks and blades installed in her vagina.


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05 Dec 2015, 7:44 am

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Either way, in modern dating culture especially the U.S, yes, some competition may potentially exist, I believe. How could it not?


That's another reason to avoid the modern dating culture.



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05 Dec 2015, 7:47 am

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Of course we all want to f**k, we're animals. If we didn't want to f**k, we'd be extinct. Simple as that.


Not as simple as that. Amount of f**king is not related to amount of offspring in humans. FYI, most f**king today has no possible reproductive effect because of contraceptive use. Thus, your claims are simply false.



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05 Dec 2015, 8:38 am

^ The brain doesn't care about contraception.
It's not smart like that.