I'm going to Talk to that Guy

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What im trying to say is, don't over analyse this guy's interactions with you, yeah chances are that he could be interested in you, but very possibly he's just doing what is expected of him while at work.

If a guy look at you that means he interested in you?

I'm scared that I'm believing in something that may not be true, I been hurt soooooo many times, I been hurt by men, friends, people that were almost friends, I been hurt by my dad & by a doctor. I'm too scared to see if this is true about him. What should I do? This is hopeless.

I will go to the coffee house maybe next week, I need time for myself to do other things. I just forget things, I was in a pretty terrible place when I loss my mom & now I'm living on my own for the first time without her being here & that is sooo scary & I can get so overwhelmed that why I'm hyperventilating. I been living on my own for 5 months, I'm slowly getting my life back. I was living on my own before for 6 years, when I lost my mom, I moved back to my mom's house to be close to her, I was living with my sister & my nephew, & then later my drunken brother-in-law moved in, it was a nightmare living with my sister & her soon to be ex. It's still hard living without my mom, I know she is with me, I can feel her spirit & sometimes I can hear her talk For some reason, I felt stronger when she was alive, she is helping me move on. I just forgot what I was doing. I'm putting that guy on hold.

If a guy look at you that means he interested in you? I think he is interested in me, months ago, I think he did try to get my attention & I could talk to him, I didn't know months ago. I don't remember when I first saw him, I think it was in August, I just moved on my own. I wasn't coming in the coffee house too much back then, when I did go to the coffee house, I was in line for someone to take my order & one person was there, the guy said something when he saw me, I think he was happy to me. I dropped something twice & I saw him looking at me then later I coughed, he looked at me. Last week, I was walking home & I saw that guy behind me, I cross the street & then I lost my balance, I fell down & he saw it, I think he was worried about me, when I got up, I saw him looking at me, falling down wasn't the only bad thing, I also hyperventilated. I went to the coffee house the next day, someone else took my order, he was doing something else & then after that, he came over, he asked me something, he acted like nothing happened. Also last week, he was looking my way unless he was looking out the front door. Could this be the true? He is interested in me & wanting to get to know me. I'm scared that I'm believing in something that may not be true, I been hurt soooooo many times, I been hurt by men, friends, people that were almost friends, I been hurt by my dad & by a doctor. I'm too scared to see if this is true about him. What should I do? This is hopeless.

When I go to other places, they are not friendly like him, this guy is too friendly to customers, he asked how are they, but doesn't talk to me, he only talk to me when he takes my order.

What if this guy is MORE shy than you are? There is only one way to test this theory. If he's trying to catch your gaze like that, that's your BEST cue.

The next time you make eye contact with that guy, maintain it, smile and give him a little casual wave. If he makes more eye contact with you after that and doesn't come engage with you, go say hi.

I don't know when I'm going to the coffee house, I have things to do tomorrow, I may go out walking too, maybe I will pass the coffee house. I can't really think of going tomorrow or maybe all week. I'm having family drama right now, cause by my sister, I feel like I'm going explode into a million pieces.

What if this guy is MORE shy than you are? There is only one way to test this theory. If he's trying to catch your gaze like that, that's your BEST cue.

The next time you make eye contact with that guy, maintain it, smile and give him a little casual wave. If he makes more eye contact with you after that and doesn't come engage with you, go say hi.

If he reciprocates there is a definite interest, and she can give him more time instead of forcing it.

He means that if you know that he likes you too, you can spend more time thinking of ways to hang out with him.

Dating, or being friends, only occurs when both people agree that they are dating/being friends.