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07 Feb 2016, 2:16 pm

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Hello everyone, this is my first post after a long forum frequentation- more or less since I have knownI was an aspie.
I am a 21yo italian guy (then you may forgive my lexical imprecisions) and I have a really big problemi: due to my exterior looking, which I have discovered at college being very attrattive, I am alla day, everyday, under attack of women. They do try in more or less every possible way to seduce me.
Obviously I have no way to win my "shame", also if sometimed i am attracted too. I feel like I'm wasting many chances to find a person that really understands me by just remaing on my own.
I surely am not the only good looking aspie, so my question is for these ones: how the hell could you live live like this? Please give me some trick, I am starting going crazy!


I hesitate to believe that your circumstances are in any way problematic. Not sure you are trolling, but I am suspicious.


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07 Feb 2016, 2:22 pm

You can't be rescued now.

But if you give generously maybe someday science will find a cure for terminal handsomeness.



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07 Feb 2016, 2:32 pm

Deltaville wrote:
Kisai95 wrote:
Hello everyone, this is my first post after a long forum frequentation- more or less since I have knownI was an aspie.
I am a 21yo italian guy (then you may forgive my lexical imprecisions) and I have a really big problemi: due to my exterior looking, which I have discovered at college being very attrattive, I am alla day, everyday, under attack of women. They do try in more or less every possible way to seduce me.
Obviously I have no way to win my "shame", also if sometimed i am attracted too. I feel like I'm wasting many chances to find a person that really understands me by just remaing on my own.
I surely am not the only good looking aspie, so my question is for these ones: how the hell could you live live like this? Please give me some trick, I am starting going crazy!


I hesitate to believe that your circumstances are in any way problematic. Not sure you are trolling, but I am suspicious.


Yeah, try having social anxiety and you'll realize that having people pay lots of attention to you can actually be extremely stressful. I'd freak out in this guy's shoes. It's just that whole "I'm too attractive" thing sounds so funny because lots of people here are self-confessed ugly beasts.



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08 Feb 2016, 8:59 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
Yeah, try having social anxiety and you'll realize that having people pay lots of attention to you can actually be extremely stressful. I'd freak out in this guy's shoes. It's just that whole "I'm too attractive" thing sounds so funny because lots of people here are self-confessed ugly beasts.

Self-confessed and confirmed by others? Or just self-confessed?