03 May 2007, 8:23 am
kiki3 wrote:
TylerPaul wrote:
Whether or not it's an aspie trait, I hear ya! I left highschool in a serious relationship that lasted 4 years. I can't make myself give a damn about dating now. I've spent the last four years alone. My friends give me a hard time for not wanting to go out there and get laid but what can I say? I don't want to put up with it. I just want to meet that someone again and move one with the rest of our lives. I hate knowing that I'm going have to get over this. It's just what you have to do.
Three kids and several years of marriage later, I'm basically over it. My husband tries, every once in a while, to get me to throw out the box of momentos, including love letters. I just can't do it, though. It's like throwing away part of my life. I save letters from just about everyone, so why not those too? One thing that always bothered me about the break-up was that I, essentially, ended it permanently, since I was the first one to get married. Yes, he broke up with me and started dating others first; but people later told me that he came back for me, only to find that I was already engaged. I'm a hopeless romantic, so I made up my mind that if he really wanted me back, he would show up and stop the wedding. Didn't happen!
Three kids, several years of marriage. Sounds like it was for the best.
Hope I can find that.
03 May 2007, 10:01 am
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People don't really do THAT, do they? Seems like the wedding would be ruined, and the person being pursued would get pissed.
Probably not, but then I always was one to believe in fairy tales. Even in my dreams, though, I could never quite visualize myself hurting my husband-to-be by running off with the other guy.
03 May 2007, 10:10 am
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Three kids, several years of marriage. Sounds like it was for the best.
Hope I can find that.
Hope I can find that.
I hope you can find it too!
We've had our ups and downs, over the years, like any relationship. For years, I was in a constant state of panic that he was going to cheat and leave me. As far as I know, I was worrying for nothing. For some reason, I feel that if I relax and enjoy life, everything will come crashing down on me.
03 May 2007, 2:03 pm
azsxdc wrote:
I've gotta be the worst guy at showing a girl I like her.
Whenever she walks past, I'm afraid to look her in the eye. That's gotta be giving the wrong impression.
Whenever she walks past, I'm afraid to look her in the eye. That's gotta be giving the wrong impression.
I tend to babble and blush when I'm around people I like.
This is not helpful. At all.
03 May 2007, 2:14 pm
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I tend to babble and blush when I'm around people I like.
This is not helpful. At all.
This is not helpful. At all.
It's even worse when you do this around people you are not attracted to, but they think you are, because you're blushing. Whenever I'm forced to interract with someone who seems like they would have been part of the popular crowd in high school, I tend to do this. One of the "pretty boys" from my old high school recently re-entered my life as an aquaintance. I have to see him regularly now, so I'm used to him. He's actually one of the nice ones; at least, he seems to be. When I first talked to him as an adult, I was blushing like crazy. It embarrasses me to think that he thought I was blushing, because of an attraction. Yes, he looks like Jason Priestly, but I could never see myself with someone like that. The guys I find attractive are more like Robert from Everybody Loves Raymond or Al from Home Improvement.
