Danae wrote:
^^^ I do believe in the one. It's got nothing to do with perfect. Perfection is a prism anyway. The one can mean lots of things from one to another. To me it means challenging, accepting and respectful, for instance.
Exactly. 'The one' is simply your spouse/life companion. I'm not talking about the pursuit of perfection. I'm referring to finding a life-long partner.
DevilKisses wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
DevilKisses wrote:
I doubt anyone would actually fall in love with me as I am at this moment. I can only imagine people falling in love with me when I'm in my mid-late twenties.
What do you think is going to change by then?
I'll probably have a job, live alone, have an actual life and not be as awkward.
Are you working towards any of these goals now?
If so, why do you think it'll be a 5 or so year endeavour? If you applied yourself, you could probably have most of this accomplished in less than a year (not sure how you plan to combat awkwardness though).
If not, why not? And why do you think you'll be inclined to work on these things in the future if you aren't inclined to work on them now?