Ban-Dodger
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27 Apr 2017, 7:04 am
nick007
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29 Apr 2017, 12:53 am
Act like you have a lot of money 
There really is no fool proof method.
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29 Apr 2017, 12:16 pm
29 Apr 2017, 10:05 pm
886 wrote:
you don't. it's that simple. you just don't.
if you make a move that quickly, if you meet someone and get her that quick, she's immature. mature people don't meet and just fall in love. it takes time, effort, friendship first, communication, trust, and those things cannot and will not happen in a short amount of time. if they do, it's lust. every time.
if all you want is lust and attention, just go on online dating and message a bunch of people.
if you make a move that quickly, if you meet someone and get her that quick, she's immature. mature people don't meet and just fall in love. it takes time, effort, friendship first, communication, trust, and those things cannot and will not happen in a short amount of time. if they do, it's lust. every time.
if all you want is lust and attention, just go on online dating and message a bunch of people.
This applies 2X for those of us less physical, sometimes romantic types. The only way I ever can arrange dates is patiently & with serious respect for prior commitments, usually but not always time-sensitive work stuff. With enough space it's easier to remember why I'm asking & stay direct. She always has the fancier ideas so when I do ask I make sure it's something innocuous if not habitual because I'm way too damn shy.
I like feeling obliged to ask.
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