Being called "cute" by women when you're a grown man - bad?

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If you call a man cute it means there is something about him that appeals to you. Being handsome doesn't make a man appealing on its own, but sometimes handsome men think being handsome makes them irresistible, but there are other words for them.

I always thought women considered guys like Elijah Wood 'cute' and Tom Brady types as classically sexy/handsome

It basically means sexy handsome men look like good "shags" and mysterious bad boys. Cute guys look like "emotional tampons" and stable providers?

no?

I always thought women considered guys like Elijah Wood 'cute' and Tom Brady types as classically sexy/handsome

It basically means sexy handsome men look like good "shags" and mysterious bad boys. Cute guys look like "emotional tampons" and stable providers?

no?

"emotional tampons" lol where did you get that?
I've never thought of a man as a good "shag" as in separate from a relationship, nor have I ever found bad boys attractive. I've always found nice manners attractive, I watched a lot of old black and white films as a kid.
Elijah Wood is cute, but I bet Tom Brady's wife thinks he's cute too.

Guessing it’s cause tampons are used then thrown away and some women use cute gues as emotional support then throw them away when a hot guy comes along.

I’ve heard lots of women say “that’s a guy I’d just love to f**k” they don’t want a relationship with him similarly if heard “I’d like to have him in the sheets for one night”
Maybe it’s an American women thing.

I don't think American women are necessarily different. It is possible (just a suggestion) that you are taking what they say too literally Over here women say 'I wouldn't kick him out of bed', (not usually in front of the guy) but if the guy they said it about turned up in their beds they'd scream the house down. What they really meant was, wow he's really hot/handsome/cute/fit/whatever they fancy, that does not mean they actually want to be intimate with him.
I think I know a varied age group of women (all NT's) and on average by their early thirties they've had only one or two, one night stands, some more some less, most (almost constantly it seems to me) of the time they've been in long term relationships.
Those one night stands appear to me to coincide with unhappy periods in women's lives, (in women I know, I mean) like after a divorce or young.
Some women do have nice guys to tell their problems to and then date guys who are s***s, most grow out of this.