GiantHockeyFan wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
I knew some bitchy teenagers when I was in high school but they've been more easy going lately. So does this mean that teenaged girls are only bitchy to other teenagers? Not to thirtyagers?
Perhaps they see people in their own age group as rivals so they b***h at them but they don't see people twice their age as rivals so they see no need to be mean to them.
I'm starting to wonder that as well. I also would add I had one such late teen girl do a 180 on me and I assumed I offended her accidently somehow. It never occurred to me until years later she might have actually been interested in me and the "180" was a way to save face after being rejected (since I was completely oblivious).
All my interactions with teenage girls as a married adult have been nothing short of exceptionally polite.
Yeah, I think there was at least one "bitchy" girl who actually liked me. At first I was too dense to see it. After a while, even I became aware that she liked me but I didn't know how to act on it. I thought since she liked me she'd ask me out. Much later it occurred to me that maybe I should have asked her out.
I think the other bitchy girls I knew in high school genuinely hated me. One got her boyfriend to attack me.
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