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I'm not really sure what you mean by being yourself. I meant that I told him that I think about my bullies coming on to him.

He's telling you not to worry about the bullies-----that he won't respond to them.

You've been dating him a few months now, you're settling into 'normalcy', where there's not as much spark and excitement as there were in the first few months. This is normal, every relationship goes through it, so don't be getting paranoid and searching for problems that don't exist. It's been a long road for you to get here, don't sabotage it with unhelpful fantasies. From everything you've posted it sounds like he's a legit, caring, and patient person, if that's the case then trust in him to do the right thing for your relationship. That's my advice at least.