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17 Jan 2018, 4:17 am

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I actually own Funimation's re-releases of Chobits and Vandread. Both are good shows although the original manga of Chobits is better than the anime.

I never really focused on the breasts of the Vandread girls or honestly most anime/manga girls. I think more about their hair and faces.

I don’t read Japanese so I’ve never read manga. Which is bummer I ear they did another season of vandred with them having a kid but it’s in Japanese:(
I dont know how you couldn’t have the blond lady has giant boobs and rubs them on people. I liked the blue lady. I’m terrible with names. I should watch the show again.


There are English versions of manga available so you don't need to learn Japanese to read any. Check your local Barnes and Noble, the last remaining book chain that I know of, or comic bookstore and you'll see them there.

Jura and Meia? I didn't really notice because the art style and colors grabbed my attention more than anything else.



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17 Jan 2018, 2:58 pm

My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).


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17 Jan 2018, 4:03 pm

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My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).

I pointed it out cause it’s a big reason a lot of women dislike anime and won’t date guys who like it. They see it as objectifying women and such guys as perverts. I’ve seen this one women’s profiles and had it explained to me by women. I’ve only met maybe two women whol like anime.



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17 Jan 2018, 10:21 pm

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My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).

I pointed it out cause it’s a big reason a lot of women dislike anime and won’t date guys who like it. They see it as objectifying women and such guys as perverts. I’ve seen this one women’s profiles and had it explained to me by women. I’ve only met maybe two women whol like anime.


Ah. Sorry. I saw the initial comment and then the conversation got ... too locker room for me to keep reading. Just, I've learned its best not to listen in on things guys might say to each other.

You all are living in the wrong parts of the country or meeting the wrong people, it seems to me.


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17 Jan 2018, 11:15 pm

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DW_a_mom wrote:
My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).

I pointed it out cause it’s a big reason a lot of women dislike anime and won’t date guys who like it. They see it as objectifying women and such guys as perverts. I’ve seen this one women’s profiles and had it explained to me by women. I’ve only met maybe two women whol like anime.


Ah. Sorry. I saw the initial comment and then the conversation got ... too locker room for me to keep reading. Just, I've learned its best not to listen in on things guys might say to each other.

You all are living in the wrong parts of the country or meeting the wrong people, it seems to me.


Did you even read what I posted? I didn't engage in any locker room talk at all. I even said I don't focus on female characters' sexual anatomy. I even said the art and colors grab my attention the most.



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18 Jan 2018, 3:00 am

Marknis wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
sly279 wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).

I pointed it out cause it’s a big reason a lot of women dislike anime and won’t date guys who like it. They see it as objectifying women and such guys as perverts. I’ve seen this one women’s profiles and had it explained to me by women. I’ve only met maybe two women whol like anime.


Ah. Sorry. I saw the initial comment and then the conversation got ... too locker room for me to keep reading. Just, I've learned its best not to listen in on things guys might say to each other.

You all are living in the wrong parts of the country or meeting the wrong people, it seems to me.


Did you even read what I posted? I didn't engage in any locker room talk at all. I even said I don't focus on female characters' sexual anatomy. I even said the art and colors grab my attention the most.


No she said she stopped after seeing boobs so she didn’t read what we wrote.

I like the stories. They’re cute. I love how he two main characters in vandred Interact. She really likes him and eventually loves him so she tries her best to please him but he finds her annoying for the longest time.
The end scen where he finally shows it by reaching his hand out and calling for her I so cute.
Though must been scary for her to go to the men’s planet.



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19 Jan 2018, 7:33 pm

Marknis wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
sly279 wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).

I pointed it out cause it’s a big reason a lot of women dislike anime and won’t date guys who like it. They see it as objectifying women and such guys as perverts. I’ve seen this one women’s profiles and had it explained to me by women. I’ve only met maybe two women whol like anime.


Ah. Sorry. I saw the initial comment and then the conversation got ... too locker room for me to keep reading. Just, I've learned its best not to listen in on things guys might say to each other.

You all are living in the wrong parts of the country or meeting the wrong people, it seems to me.


Did you even read what I posted? I didn't engage in any locker room talk at all. I even said I don't focus on female characters' sexual anatomy. I even said the art and colors grab my attention the most.


I stopped reading the exchanges between the two of you after Sly's comment to you. My apologies for including you in my observation.

But my point that things could be different for you somewhere else or moving in a different circle stands.


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20 Jan 2018, 7:14 pm

DW_a_mom wrote:
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DW_a_mom wrote:
sly279 wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
My daughter and some female friends are talking about road tripping to an Anime/Manga convention this summer so obviously there are girls somewhere who like it. Our high school has an Anime club. A woman I work with based her whole vacation around Anime/Manga.

Students who are interested in art or drama are also often interested in Anime. We really have to get you to a new location, Marknis.

(and no way am I participating in a conversation centered on the physical assets of a woman, even a cartoon one. They are cartoons; cartoons regularly exaggerate features. Its supposed to be artistic, not sexual, although I suppose a simple observation like "she's cute" or even "she's attractive" is OK. I recommend that any guy wanting to date a woman who likes Anime mostly keep thoughts about character anatomy to himself).

I pointed it out cause it’s a big reason a lot of women dislike anime and won’t date guys who like it. They see it as objectifying women and such guys as perverts. I’ve seen this one women’s profiles and had it explained to me by women. I’ve only met maybe two women whol like anime.


Ah. Sorry. I saw the initial comment and then the conversation got ... too locker room for me to keep reading. Just, I've learned its best not to listen in on things guys might say to each other.

You all are living in the wrong parts of the country or meeting the wrong people, it seems to me.


Did you even read what I posted? I didn't engage in any locker room talk at all. I even said I don't focus on female characters' sexual anatomy. I even said the art and colors grab my attention the most.


I stopped reading the exchanges between the two of you after Sly's comment to you. My apologies for including you in my observation.

But my point that things could be different for you somewhere else or moving in a different circle stands.


Apology accepted.

I just wonder what I should do until I can move. It feels like there are always options for people except for me. If you want groceries, you go to the grocery store. If you want to play a musical instrument, you go to the music store. If you want to form or join a club, you either make one or join one if you are lucky enough to have one in your area. With me, I want a girlfriend but the options don't exist for me so I feel hurt everyday like my life span got shortened in advance because I go through the day without finding a girlfriend.



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20 Jan 2018, 11:29 pm

good on you for all the positives!

most anime fans i know are girls lol (probably bc most of my friends are girls tho)



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21 Jan 2018, 12:44 am

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good on you for all the positives!

most anime fans i know are girls lol (probably bc most of my friends are girls tho)


I just wish I knew some.

I honestly get up every day wondering if my life will ever get better or if I am doomed to forever loneliness. I know it isn't healthy to do and that it's only making my life repeat itself but at the same time I am too comfort zoned by it.



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24 Jan 2018, 10:54 am

I always begin my years wondering if a girlfriend will come into my life and by the time the end rolls around without it happening, I feel as if the vicious cycle will never end.

Some say the fact I keep getting up despite the depression is a positive trait and apparently means I am stronger than I give myself credit for.



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24 Jan 2018, 11:19 am

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Some say the fact I keep getting up despite the depression is a positive trait and apparently means I am stronger than I give myself credit for.


But that's true, isn't it? The ones who never fall are lucky, those who can get up after falling are strong.



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24 Jan 2018, 11:29 am

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Some say the fact I keep getting up despite the depression is a positive trait and apparently means I am stronger than I give myself credit for.


But that's true, isn't it? The ones who never fall are lucky, those who can get up after falling are strong.


I guess I've looked at it in the wrong manner. I always took it as prolonging my suffering and sometimes even think about suicide but something keeps me from seriously doing it.



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24 Jan 2018, 12:56 pm

Marknis wrote:
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Some say the fact I keep getting up despite the depression is a positive trait and apparently means I am stronger than I give myself credit for.


But that's true, isn't it? The ones who never fall are lucky, those who can get up after falling are strong.


I guess I've looked at it in the wrong manner. I always took it as prolonging my suffering and sometimes even think about suicide but something keeps me from seriously doing it.

I find thinking about suicide oddly comforting, I don't know why, maybe the control or making it less scary. I've also felt much less afraid of my suicidal thoughts since I realised I am too indecisive and hesitant a person to ever go through with something that drastic. Hurrah for hesitation and timidity :D


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29 Jan 2018, 6:22 pm

If accepting my current situation is the key to being in a relationship, just how long will I have to accept it and where can I find a relationship?



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29 Jan 2018, 6:54 pm

fluffysaurus wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Fireblossom wrote:
Marknis wrote:
Some say the fact I keep getting up despite the depression is a positive trait and apparently means I am stronger than I give myself credit for.


But that's true, isn't it? The ones who never fall are lucky, those who can get up after falling are strong.


I guess I've looked at it in the wrong manner. I always took it as prolonging my suffering and sometimes even think about suicide but something keeps me from seriously doing it.

I find thinking about suicide oddly comforting, I don't know why, maybe the control or making it less scary. I've also felt much less afraid of my suicidal thoughts since I realised I am too indecisive and hesitant a person to ever go through with something that drastic. Hurrah for hesitation and timidity :D


I can’t currently do it with as it’s a sin and I have anxiety about it. I do see it as freedom and the escape and most likely my only way out of my crap life though. I don’t imagine a future where some woman can love me anymore