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The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Jan 2019, 12:18 pm

What about buying her more donuts?



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03 Jan 2019, 8:10 pm

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It's seriously difficult for me to provide people with emotional support, yet I understand that is not an unreasonable demand in a relationship.

What does she expect? Most women get this from their girl friends.

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She said she can just move out and we can still continue the relationship. I worried that might cause us to drift further apart. It might be the beginning of the end.

This would be the end.

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She says I can just get another girlfriend if I want

That means 'Good bye! I don't care about you any longer.'.

I guess she is into another guy. If you want to keep her then you need to do something now. Go out. Make some trips. Have a bit fun together.



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04 Jan 2019, 5:05 am

^ That’s quite extreme.



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04 Jan 2019, 7:24 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ That’s quite extreme.

Not at all. It's live. Women aren't direct.
He is to less with her? She wants move out that he is even more less with her. Seems that he is just to much with her.
She asked for benefit for remaining in relationship? She doesn't values him.
She wants him to find a new girlfriend? No woman who is into a guy would like if he does this. She just feels bad a bit about leaving him if she says this.

He can still change a bit and try to make her value him more. But I think it would be only a short time thing. Being alone is s**t. He should try to keep her a bit but he should already start to look for a new one because she doesn't love him and for this she leaves him sooner or later either. The best would be if he goes out with her and starts to flirt with other women while she is with him. Women value guys a lot who are this way and it's much easier to find a new one this way. May be she would make stress once he does but only if she values him again. For this he shouldn't feel bad if he does because if he does not then she leaves him either.


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04 Jan 2019, 8:38 am

^This thread was started three months ago. Till WantToHaveALife replied recently it hadn't been used for 2 1/2 months.

Several people were skeptic about the relationship then but any issue you're making suggestions for that you might think need to urgently be put into action are actually issues that are three months old.



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04 Jan 2019, 9:13 am

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^This thread was started three months ago.

Ooops. Missed that because RetroGamer87 responded to this thread yesterday. :lol:



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04 Jan 2019, 9:25 am

^ That miss was quite extreme, quite an extreme.



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04 Jan 2019, 9:33 am

How's it going with the lady at this present time, Retro?



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04 Jan 2019, 4:37 pm

Based on what you’ve said about her, I’d say so.

Sorry. Maybe go for someone less hot and more laid back.



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12 Jan 2019, 2:26 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
how long have you been with this one?


Since March


how did you meet her? my only ex, I met her on Plentyoffish