Was in a club tonight

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Whatever behavior he thinks he’s seen has probably been fueled by alcohol.

That's true and drugs aren't uncommon either.

So you live in a bubble. No offense.

It is very common in the sick disco culture, it is called “grinding” dance - or dirty dance.
A date once did it with another guy in front of me when I got distracted for a second there (a guy was asking me if I am dating her - and then he pointed “bro, look what your gf is doing there, don’t accept that”, she was grinding and that other guy rubbed his crotch against her behind.
I just left the dance floor furious, she noticed and followed me telling me he’s “just a friend” - a “just a friend” my ass! . And the guy came trying to apologize claiming he wasn’t aware we are dating; riiight.
Both were neither drunk nor high. It is something a lot of people do when it plays a dirty song.

It didn’t even occur to her how disrespectful it was to her date. So it was a bye bye, for good!

In that meaning, I live in a bubble because I never needed to survive in Amazon jungle
Living away from "the sick disco culture" is quite easy to do, at least to someone who doesn't like noisy, crowded places and avoids them anyway.
It's interesting to read your posts so I can gain some knowledge without actually going there.

A true alpha male would flash the chips to impress the women.

It is absolutely innappropriate and you did the right thing Boo. A girl like that cannot be trusted imo.

You are totally wrong with this. Just watch the video about alpha male behaviour. I didn't look friendly and didn't adapt my direction nor my speed even a little bit and did treat the guy like air. He had to care about me and to get out of my way or to deal with the consequences. I acted totally like the alpha gorilla in the video.
But the whole 'alpha male' behaviour sh*t is something for chimps and I'm not a chimp nor do I give much about ape hierarchies. Men have to stand together and they don't do this in fear based ape hierarchies. Once you are a real leader any of your men risks his own ass to protect you as he would expect of you because you have to be the most trustworthy guy of all.

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Why should such a video be considered evidence? It doesn’t seem in any way legitimate.

I'm talking about an alpha human. Not an alpha gorilla....

I miss clubbing, but mainly the music. Not the apes, chimps and other primates in the jungle ya'll are debating about. lol

Btw Extreme: What you did seems like some kind of science experiment on those women. Maybe it's just the feminist in me, but I'd never do something like that, nor would I want to. The whole thing sounds offensive to me, not something I even would find interesting from an intellectual/academic standpoint, it's just kind of condescending. If someone's there to grind away, get drunk, dance, chase after coins or wtf ever, that's their business, not mine. I'm not the type of person to look down on women or their whatever the f you call the guys grinding them or whatever. Bring on the music (and maybe a drink or two), that's all that matters and if I meet someone there and I've come there alone, all the better, but that'd just be my dumb luck. Anyway, whatever.

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I like primates, but I prefer to see them from a distance and preferably behind a secure barricade.

Primates are actually gentle creatures.

To call some of these men in bars "gorillas" is an insult to real gorillas....

Why not? Why not giving others something that they enjoy? Aren't feminists supposed to be nice to woman?

Why should I know this if it isn't true? I'm currently taking the bus. Some women who like me and notice that I like them get in touch there as well. So what? But it's not easy for me to get women right.
But in a club there are more singles of course and there is much more competition among the girls.

Even humans? And lemures? Are you sure? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Primate)

[/quote]Even humans? And lemures? Are you sure? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Primate)[/quote]

Fairly sure although I do make the occasional exception.

Extreme: It's interesting and also quite telling how many guys on WP like you selectively quote a tiny part of others' posts out of context in your replies, thereby missing or perhaps intentionally ignoring key parts of what we're trying to say. No there's nothing "nice" let alone "feminist" in that stupid chips game you're playing with those women at the club. The very fact you describe them as primates and children that you condescendingly think you have the right to conduct some kind of f*****g experiment on shows alot more about how twisted you are than them. I mean this kind of twisted, almost academic approach you take to testing them reflects in my view accurately on the stereotypical ASD man as some sort of emotionless robot. This is probably why you have difficulty meeting romantic partners because you seem st least to look at some womem as lab rats so to speak, and therefore less than human. And that you find testing them to be some sort of intellectually interedting "game" like chess or wtf ever. That's both quite f****d up and guaranteed never to get you very far in the dating or hookup games. If you wanna start changing that then you might wanna try thinking and acting toward women as equals rather than animals or children.

There we are. You are just trolling here. Sorry but you have not even a clue how special people with Asperger's are. Without us you would still jump from tree to tree hunting for fruits like the rest of the apes.



I'm not made for 'hookup games'. Asperger's makes me unable to sense the feelings of women outside of their eyes. It wasn't ever my choice to be that way. I can't relate towards any kind of emotional calculating behaviour and have totally to struggle with it. For this I'm interested to know what's up with it. May be you can explain what's wrong with finding out instead of being judging because of this. Btw. I don't see anything bad that I did and even the girls in the club got the fun of it.