Woman disliking because of height!

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If you stop worrying about your height and start enjoying your life, you'd be much happier. You've been going on about your height for 10 years.

No, I don't. I don't understand the obsession with height.
When I was younger I was messaging with someone in a dating site who was 5'4" or 5'5", I can't quite remember, but I was interested until he started assuming I wasn't attracted to him because of his height... Which I had said nothing about. I ended up turning him down not because of his height but because of his assumptions about me. He was insecure enough to shut himself down. Don't be that guy.

Whenever I say to my female acquaintances/friends that women generally don't like dating short men or more specifically men shorter than them, they almost always say the same thing: "That's not truuuuuue. I bet there are lots of women who love short men. What matters most is confidence!"

"Have you ever dated one?" I ask.

"Well, no…" they reply.

"Would you?"

*cricket sound*

I'm shorter than lots of women. I haven't been especially unsuccessful.

I'm three inches shorter than JamesY.

My husband is shorter than me. I used to wear high heels most of the time and he didn’t mind. My first husband was the same height as me. I had to find fancy flat shoes to wear with my wedding dress for the photos though! To even it out though, the boy I dated in school was taller than me. Height doesn’t matter if you are open to getting to know the person.

"if she is open to getting to know the person", and that's the whole issue right there.

Once you're in bed with a woman, and kissing her, you are both the same height.