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05 Oct 2020, 6:12 am

so you dont know what its like.

will you allow me to educate you? no of course not. you're alright jack, you got everything you want.

why give a s**t about anyone else. is it relevant to anything?



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05 Oct 2020, 6:14 am

As a man, I'm revoking your man-card. I do know what it's like. It's still no excuse to behave as you do.


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05 Oct 2020, 6:17 am

this is what happens when you dissmiss people and their concerns as irrelevant.

they can do it back to you.



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05 Oct 2020, 6:21 am

specialsauce wrote:
so you dont know what its like.

will you allow me to educate you? no of course not. you're alright jack, you got everything you want.

why give a s**t about anyone else. is it relevant to anything?
Repeat: I never claimed to know first hand what it's like to be a man, just like you have never experienced being a mother.

I can see your frustration but sweeping insults are still against the rules.


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05 Oct 2020, 6:21 am

for example, 99.9% of the stuff feminists complain about, is irrelevant by definition (it would nto apply to women in poor countries as it would to the women in the rich countries who wrote it)

and why is it that these rich women have all this time on their hands to write this stuff????

im not making it personal about you or anything its not an insult its just an observation. like, instea dof writing books about men are bad, did they try dating any of the single men out there?

im just wondering



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05 Oct 2020, 6:24 am

Am I right in saying that most women on here are married or have been married or are in or have been in a relationship? But most men have not?
It just seems like it to me but because I am a man I look at things like a man would. So do women on here think the same things but reversed?

I get the feeling as a single man that there are hardly any single women left. Well. There used to be when I was young.

Uhmmm. Sorry. Carry on... 《Ammended》 I replied not knowing there is a discussion about something on this thread. So my post has nothing to do with whatever is being talked about in a direct way. Thanks.


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05 Oct 2020, 6:29 am

I liked your post. that is what i would say if i was a calmer person.



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05 Oct 2020, 6:33 am

I think I can be more of a raging apathetic.


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05 Oct 2020, 6:40 am

Mountain Goat wrote:
Am I right in saying that most women on here are married or have been married or are in or have been in a relationship? But most men have not?
It just seems like it to me but because I am a man I look at things like a man would. So do women on here think the same things but reversed?

I get the feeling as a single man that there are hardly any single women left. Well. There used to be when I was young.

Uhmmm. Sorry. Carry on... 《Ammended》 I replied not knowing there is a discussion about something on this thread. So my post has nothing to do with whatever is being talked about in a direct way. Thanks.

I think your post was very useful here - presenting a perspective of a single man who would love to find someone, in a respectful manner.

No, I don't think women see the same things reversed. Typically I see men complaining for being unable to get any date and women complaining for being abused by the men they attract. The opposite examples are rare but they do exist, too.


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05 Oct 2020, 7:25 am

If the 9 percent (without considering gender) in the study is true then that means there's a lot of female autistics who are single too.
Yet I think they're including all severity levels.



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05 Oct 2020, 7:34 am

I do notice one difference. I can talk to women and can connect with them. But somehow if I happen to be dating a lady which is rare for me, women don't speak what they mean. So I am left guessing wondering what upset them.. And then they really speak what they mean and it is over.
There is something missing there somewhere in the differences of communication and I don't know what it is.
Maybe I am on the spectrum so I don't always pick up on things... But I am quite sensitive. I do marvel how other men can find a wife and keep her?

I can't fathom why a man would misstreat a lady. Not unless they have been cruel to the man first. I just can't fathom this as I would just run rather then argue. If a lady starts accusing me of things I may try to explain but I am more likely to agree (Even though I don't agree) rather then argue. And then it is over.

I just don't know how it works between a man and a lady. But online and real life... Real life does have a difference. One can just hold hands and say nothing. So maybe if I date for real it will be different?

Online is much easier to talk in one way. The initial contact. I cant tell if a lady is flirting or just being nice in real life so I miss the signs. I also am a bit shy in making initial contact with any girl I don't know. So I will not say anything and walk past because I am shy. But... If I have met online first and we have become friends, I do then have the bravery to talk to women... But I may not recognize them. Last time I went to ask a complete stranger into my car due to the prosopragnosia problem. I was wondering why she looked puzzled!


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05 Oct 2020, 7:46 am

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I do marvel how other men can find a wife and keep her?


They do the dishes and cut the grass.



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05 Oct 2020, 7:51 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I do marvel how other men can find a wife and keep her?


They do the dishes and cut the grass.


But I cut the grass, or my brother does as grass is a mans job. They do do the dishes.


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05 Oct 2020, 8:04 am

some man comes and cuts the grass next to the building where i live. doesnt seem to be helping my prospects.

once we've established that all womens' problems are mens fault and all mens' problems are their own fault, where do we go from there?

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for example, if these words make you uncomfortable, its not your fault for failing to develop empathy for others, its my fault for having emotions which you dont like. or for not asking your permission to express MY emotions when we know full well women are always allowed to express emotion even when it is totally inapropriate like in a business meeting.

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just like how china is doing all sorts of wrong things to the Muslims and NO ONE CARES. Everyone pretended to care about Muslims, didn't they? But in reality, THEY DONT.

Saying you care and not doing anything isnt caring. It's sad that I even have to explain this.



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05 Oct 2020, 9:07 am

I mean this is a serious question: is thje world overpopulated by men? should we just kill em?

I mean, you dont want to afford them any human contact, a life worth living, anything like that. might as well go all the way and take them out so oyu dont have to step over them in the street?

What's stopping you finish the job you started?



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05 Oct 2020, 10:09 am

Specialsauce, I would like to recommend you a lecture:
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I don't know where you got these macabre ideas from but they are both absurd and against WP rules.

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