Rexi
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Rexi
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14 Dec 2020, 8:48 pm
14 Dec 2020, 8:51 pm
Joe90 wrote:
StayFrosty wrote:
Because they want good genes.
I'm with an NT guy. If we ever have a baby, hopefully it will pick up his NT genes and be NT.
NTs rule!! !
TRAITOR!
Rexi
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14 Dec 2020, 8:55 pm
Pepe wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
StayFrosty wrote:
Because they want good genes.
I'm with an NT guy. If we ever have a baby, hopefully it will pick up his NT genes and be NT.
NTs rule!! !
TRAITOR!
*hugs the compadre* dw the offspring has a choice
14 Dec 2020, 9:03 pm
Juliette wrote:
I’m 5” 2 and the two men I’ve had lengthy relationships with & had a family with, have been 6”2(when I was 16-20yrs) and 6”6(from 21 onwards). How tall a man is doesn’t even enter the equation with me. Personality is everything.
A flower is attractive from a distance, grasshopper.
One must first approach it to appreciate its scent.
It is not time for you to leave, grasshopper.
14 Dec 2020, 9:05 pm
Pepe wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
StayFrosty wrote:
Because they want good genes.
I'm with an NT guy. If we ever have a baby, hopefully it will pick up his NT genes and be NT.
NTs rule!! !
TRAITOR!
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14 Dec 2020, 9:13 pm
KT67 wrote:
Dangerous to assume that all strong women want to be provided for.
Ironically gold digging women often like men who are old. Not everyone in an age gap relationship does this but enough of them that it's a phenomena
Ironically gold digging women often like men who are old. Not everyone in an age gap relationship does this but enough of them that it's a phenomena
Call it "compensation".
My recent blood test suggest I will hang around, for the foreseeable future, so I doubt many "gold diggers" will be looking my way.
KT67 wrote:
, like the height thing. They have the life insurance provide for them...
Most people want someone who is attractive, sure, but also liveable with. Someone they actually love. So they'd rather they lived a long time cos they love them.
Most people want someone who is attractive, sure, but also liveable with. Someone they actually love. So they'd rather they lived a long time cos they love them.
Both are important, but without compatible personalities, it is a very 2 dimensional relationship.
KT67 wrote:
It's dangerous to read too much incel/pua stuff rather than actually listening to women in healthy relationships. Women in healthy relationships don't put an obsessive amount of attention on their partners' looks, it's just one of many things they admire/like about the person they love - and the same the other way around.
I was a woman, in a previous life, so I can safely agree.
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14 Dec 2020, 9:16 pm
Pepe wrote:
magz wrote:
I'm medium-short and all the men I ever dated were short-to-medium - and intellectual.
I think some guys really overestimate importance of height and other physical traits. For me, the most important part of physical attractiveness of a man is his... smell -
I think some guys really overestimate importance of height and other physical traits. For me, the most important part of physical attractiveness of a man is his... smell -
You rang?
You want "smelly"?
I have oodles of it, even without my anal glands.
"Smell" is actually very important.
It is an indicator of physical compatibility in terms of producing healthy offspring.
I suspect you knew that already.
magz wrote:
but I wouldn't date someone only for his physical attractiveness, I've wanted a lasting relationship since I remember.
Personality is the most important consideration, but looks/health is a big part, especially for people who want to reproduce.
That is probably why Roleplay was invented. It allows people to be anyone.
14 Dec 2020, 9:25 pm
Fnord wrote:
StayFrosty wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Jamesy, I think you're fixated too much on the notion of 'utility value' and seem to be completely missing the point that most people really just want someone they're comfortable around, who makes them feel loved, wanted and needed and who they enjoy spending their time with.
What utter nonsense! Most modern marriages don't even last 5 years. People are getting married for the wrong reasons. It's nothing but a scam.FACT CHECK: My wife and I have been married for over a quarter-century.
So, because you have, everyone else have?
I don't think so, Tim.
This is an enduring theme, from you.
14 Dec 2020, 9:27 pm
14 Dec 2020, 9:28 pm
Jamesy wrote:
It’s not healthy to be a towering 6ft4 the human frame is not meant to be that tall.
If true, that makes me feel better.
14 Dec 2020, 9:34 pm
Rexi wrote:
Does he bring fruit in the morning if im a slow wake? I guess it matters to complete their partner and work to care for them.
You want fruit?
I'm ringing UPS right now.
14 Dec 2020, 9:36 pm
Jakki wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
StayFrosty wrote:
Because they want good genes.
I'm with an NT guy. If we ever have a baby, hopefully it will pick up his NT genes and be NT.
NTs rule!! !
TRAITOR!
~~~~~ Fixed it, for you.
14 Dec 2020, 9:42 pm
Steffipanda wrote:
As a 6ft tall woman I have never been in an romantic relationship with someone taller then me. I have always preferred shorter and older men. Personality and scent and compatibility and similar viewpoints and morals and physical and mental health and likes and interest are important.
All the women I have known do not care about height. There are so many more things that are important other then height when looking for a partner.
All the women I have known do not care about height. There are so many more things that are important other then height when looking for a partner.
-Shorter. Tick.
-Older, Tick.
-Personality/humour. Tick.
-Compatibility. I'll be anything/k you want me to be. Tick.
-Similar views? See above. Tick.
-Morals. Tick.
-Physical health. I just had a very positive blood test result. Tick.
-Mental health. Ummm.
Give me a call, when you are 20 years older.
14 Dec 2020, 9:48 pm
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:
magz wrote:
I'm medium-short and all the men I ever dated were short-to-medium - and intellectual.
I think some guys really overestimate importance of height and other physical traits. For me, the most important part of physical attractiveness of a man is his... smell -
I think some guys really overestimate importance of height and other physical traits. For me, the most important part of physical attractiveness of a man is his... smell -
You rang?
You want "smelly"?
I have oodles of it, even without my anal glands.
"Smell" is actually very important.
It is an indicator of physical compatibility in terms of producing healthy offspring.
I suspect you knew that already.
magz wrote:
but I wouldn't date someone only for his physical attractiveness, I've wanted a lasting relationship since I remember.
Personality is the most important consideration, but looks/health is a big part, especially for people who want to reproduce.
That is probably why Roleplay was invented. It allows people to be anyone.
And the internet allows people to be any role they want to be.
You want me to be 30 years younger?
Done!
