Sweetleaf
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17 Jan 2021, 1:37 pm
17 Jan 2021, 6:37 pm
And yes I attribute it to my Asperger. Everyone has a need to play around sometimes. NT-s are more familiar with certain ways of doing that than aspies are. So an aspie, who can't participate in NT type of fun, has to come up with their own fun.
Not sure I would consider that a prank.
Also, though you should take care to make sure your own fun isn't abuse and gaslighting of other people. If you figure the person will be hurt by your 'fun' don't do it period.
Agreed.
I think the community, here, has sent a very clear message.
Hopefully it will be read and 'assimilated'.
19 Jan 2021, 9:46 pm
I would never talk about cheating. Why? You think that your girlfriend's weight gives her not many options. So, does that mean that it's "you" or "nobody"? I would've dumped you out of pure fear. Better me to dump you than the other way around. Watch how you joke. You might joke yourself right out of a relationship. 
Furthermore, a prank you say? Are you 12 years old? EWWWW...you S.O.B. I'd punch you right in the...............pranks...... 
Rexi
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26 Jan 2021, 6:00 pm
Yep it's fun. But the way I see it is you're insecure and need to feel in control, perhaps even testing through this 'prank' and certainly need the talk deeper with her about real things, you crave connection and security. Even if you are awkward and possibly afraid to ask her these things properly. This boosts your ego but upsets her in return. You can clearly see her getting a bit unbalanced and a bit of a reaction out of her. It's fun, it might turn you on if she can make it obvious that she won't put up with this. But at the expense of a bad reaction possibly with it.
Do you really need to be controlled, do you want to live a life in a leash? It won't end well for you.
Brats are only fun outside the bedroom when you're a parent.
I think you need to make up for it in some way and think about apologizing when you feel ready. You've admitted bad treatment to us, next step is claiming it.
If you want to be genuinely powerful and dominate you have to learn to be humble and honest in your shortcomings. This will turn her on and automatically show you as top-dog. Trust me, that's fun.
Next you reveal your playful nature and don't hide. Make it obvious, it'll be fun for both. You seem alone in your game, isn't that sad? Because her reaction isn't fun. Something's missing. And it will take from your games.
One of the dark magic's worst side effect is for necromancy spells they can take from you as you cast. It's better to do the other dark magic spells to make up for the necessities. Or prompt attention of the souls before you do. Mirrors are gonna show your image still even if it's a riddle.
You go.
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