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26 Jan 2021, 10:31 pm

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with regards to why some woman find men with ASD creepy
i believe it is likely due to how incompetent some of us are when it comes to woman

Tell me about it.
I look back in my past and can't believe some of the things I said through sheer ignorance.

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in some cases, we are desperate lonely men that really want a girlfriend that dont have the social skill
to communicate in a effective manner to get a girl friend

We are put on this eath to be humiliated, is my best guess.
And they say god doesn't have a sense of humour. :mrgreen:

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so some of us end up attempting to find girl friends by hanging around girls
but without good communication skills to get the woman to relax and enjoy their company
we end up just looking like weirdos that follow (stalk) woman around hoping that
they will suddenly get horny and invite us home and take us to bed

doesn't usually happen though hate to tell you this

I didn't do that.
I retreated into my autistic cave and became a hermit.
Not a bad lifestyle, though. :mrgreen:

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26 Jan 2021, 10:34 pm

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My older friend back in the 80s asked if he could watch her child being cleaned in the bath

Well, that just screams "PEDO-PERVERT" to me! No wonder she freaked out.

I know us aspies say inappropriate things but that really is just crossing the line.

My older friend has also said things like "james take me to the bar with you so I can give some girls a blowjob"

also apparently he once asked one of his friend "how he could go about touching up women in a supermarket"

My friend is in his 60s by the way

No offence, but I have been saying for quite some time that I think you are pulling our chain.
I can't believe you are genuine, sorry.

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26 Jan 2021, 10:39 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Your friend is pretty dumbass...if you ask me.

Maybe he really was a pedophile but just didn't realize it. Better to ditch any guy that REMOTELY poses a threat to your child or any child at all. Kids come first. A parent NEVER wants to experience "it's too late". Abuse alters whole lives and kills potential. Dead potential isn't a full life.

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27 Jan 2021, 1:59 am

madbutnotmad wrote:

with regards to why some woman find men with ASD creepy
i believe it is likely due to how incompetent some of us are when it comes to woman

in some cases, we are desperate lonely men that really want a girlfriend that dont have the social skill
to communicate in a effective manner to get a girl friend

so some of us end up attempting to find girl friends by hanging around girls
but without good communication skills to get the woman to relax and enjoy their company
we end up just looking like weirdos that follow (stalk) woman around hoping that
they will suddenly get horny and invite us home and take us to bed

doesn't usually happen though hate to tell you this

You tend to skip the stalking phase, hottie. It's very obvious you just want to bed :heart:

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27 Jan 2021, 2:01 am

Next time a chick tells you you're weird, ask them what's weird about you.

And ask them not to ghost you without an explanation.

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27 Jan 2021, 2:09 am

Rexi wrote:

Next time a chick tells you you're weird, ask them what's weird about you.

And ask them not to ghost you without an explanation.

Agreed.
Ghosting is cruel.

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27 Jan 2021, 2:25 am

Jamesy wrote:

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Be wary of the company you keep; for they are a reflection of who you are or who you want to be.

Thanks for the advice I appreciate it.

Double-edged sword.

There is an air of snobbery here. The well-to-do up-and-comer who just can't be seen with his old, poorer friends. The guy trying to get into the country club who can't be fraternizing with the gas pumper. The NT teenager who needs to abandon his childhood Aspie friend because it's high school suicide to be associated with such a weirdo.

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27 Jan 2021, 6:31 am

That “friend” is someone to avoid.

He might be rich, for all we know.

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27 Jan 2021, 8:59 am

ezbzbfcg2 wrote:

... There is an air of snobbery here. The well-to-do up-and-comer who just can't be seen with his old, poorer friends. The guy trying to get into the country club who can't be fraternizing with the gas pumper. The NT teenager who needs to abandon his childhood Aspie friend because it's high school suicide to be associated with such a weirdo...

... The ND person who gets arrested because he was seen hanging out with a pedo...

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27 Jan 2021, 12:15 pm

One of my friends was labelled by girls as a 'creep' because he grew his hair long......

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27 Jan 2021, 12:24 pm

Sure there wasn’t something more to it?

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27 Jan 2021, 12:32 pm

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Sure there wasn’t something more to it?

It's hard to say really because I am not in there minds but back in college I heard some girls saying about one of my friends "hes such a creep with his long greasy hair"

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27 Jan 2021, 12:41 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

That “friend” is someone to avoid.

He might be rich, for all we know.

Yeah my friend is he inherited his dads house and money when he died.

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28 Jan 2021, 12:04 am

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One of my friends was labelled by girls as a 'creep' because he grew his hair long......

You seem to know a lot of weird strange people.

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29 Jan 2021, 4:49 pm

I think that you should start making friends who are more in your age group. That way, girls won't see you as a creep. You should also try interacting with the girls at the bar in a more casual and less formal manner.

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29 Jan 2021, 6:00 pm

Jamesy wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

Sure there wasn’t something more to it?

It's hard to say really because I am not in there minds but back in college I heard some girls saying about one of my friends "hes such a creep with his long greasy hair"

Well it probably was not about the long hair then...the long greasy hair kind of makes a difference, the latter would potentially give the indication he did not have good hygiene and well people do find that off putting. Though they could have also been describing some of their behaviors...maybe they were acting in a way they found creepy.

I mean I do like to give people benefit of the doubt, but by your own admission in this thread some of the friends you've mentioned do have some kinda creepy behaviors. Like your older friend who was trying to figure the best way to feel up women at the grocery store...like that is terribly inappropriate no woman wants some random guy coming up and touching them while they are shopping.

So idk that friend with the long greasy hair, may have been acting simularly....or well people can be jerks so could be he just was depressed and such and not keeping up on hygiene and they were just judging for that. But hard to say without knowing more of how he was behaving.

But Idk may be a good idea for you to try and think on some of this, like your older friend talking of feeling up women at the grocery store is not a good influence...so you should take care his behaviors like that don't rub off on you. But also associating with people that perhaps others know of their creepy ideas can make you look bad even if that's not really how you are. So you may want to also think about what kind of company you keep.

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