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16 Dec 2021, 2:19 pm

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It doesn't bother me. I can ignore you if I like.



Why do you feel the need to insult me though?


Because sometimes I can be a c**t.



I am sure your a nice enough person



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17 Dec 2021, 1:29 am

Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



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17 Dec 2021, 2:55 am

100% certain it's a troll. He's asking questions that fit societies stereotypical idea of what an asd would ask. The stereotype itself is BS enough that I'm tempted to really hurt his feelings, but I guess I'll restrain myself.



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17 Dec 2021, 3:31 am

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100% certain it's a troll. He's asking questions that fit societies stereotypical idea of what an asd would ask. The stereotype itself is BS enough that I'm tempted to really hurt his feelings, but I guess I'll restrain myself.



I am not being a troll. I just get thoughts in my head about a certain subject and like to make them into a thread



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17 Dec 2021, 3:32 am

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Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body



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17 Dec 2021, 4:00 am

Jamesy wrote:
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Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body


Are you attracted to her?



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17 Dec 2021, 4:18 am

cyberdad wrote:
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Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body


Are you attracted to her?



no



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17 Dec 2021, 4:24 am

Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
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Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body


Are you attracted to her?



no


I'm not feeling the "date" aspect? are you sure you just dont want to be friends? I've had great conversations with older women over the years. But they aren't dates.



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17 Dec 2021, 4:31 am

cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
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Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body


Are you attracted to her?



no


I'm not feeling the "date" aspect? are you sure you just dont want to be friends? I've had great conversations with older women over the years. But they aren't dates.



the thing is I am to shy to go dating online

also thanks for not attacking me on this thread like the others users are



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17 Dec 2021, 4:37 am

Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body


Are you attracted to her?



no


I'm not feeling the "date" aspect? are you sure you just dont want to be friends? I've had great conversations with older women over the years. But they aren't dates.



the thing is I am to shy to go dating online

also thanks for not attacking me on this thread like the others users are


No problems. Are you thinking of just practicing dating her? fine tuning your skills perhaps? older women are actually very experienced and it was an area I should have taken more advantage of for getting tips



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17 Dec 2021, 5:03 am

cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Jamesy I'm 90% sure you are pulling our leg....or else?

Does she at least have a hot body?



no she doesn't have a hot body


Are you attracted to her?



no


I'm not feeling the "date" aspect? are you sure you just dont want to be friends? I've had great conversations with older women over the years. But they aren't dates.



the thing is I am to shy to go dating online

also thanks for not attacking me on this thread like the others users are


No problems. Are you thinking of just practicing dating her? fine tuning your skills perhaps? older women are actually very experienced and it was an area I should have taken more advantage of for getting tips




yeah it's good to get experience. I could ask her for tips as well without actually dating her



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17 Dec 2021, 6:08 am

Jamesy wrote:
the thing is I am to shy to go dating online

also thanks for not attacking me on this thread like the others users are


But you're not too shy to intrude uninvited on a group of girls in a pub.

The reason why people may be "attacking" you as you put it is because your stories are inconsistent and therefore people feel they cannot trust what you are saying.

How old was you when you was diagnosed with autism by the way?


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17 Dec 2021, 6:12 am

babybird wrote:
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the thing is I am to shy to go dating online

also thanks for not attacking me on this thread like the others users are


But you're not too shy to intrude uninvited on a group of girls in a pub.

The reason why people may be "attacking" you as you put it is because your stories are inconsistent and therefore people feel they cannot trust what you are saying.

How old was you when you was diagnosed with autism by the way?



I was diagnosed with Aspergers when I was 7 or 8. Prior to that as a young toddler I was also diagnosed with semantic pragmatic language disorder.



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17 Dec 2021, 8:37 pm

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But you're not too shy to intrude uninvited on a group of girls in a pub.


To be honest, saying hello to a group of girls in a pub isn't asking for a date.