Do all men want younger women?

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10 Sep 2007, 9:06 pm

Hey! Tsst! You were there once.....back when you were 14 and dating a 17 or 18 year old guy was hot stuff...don't deny it ;)



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11 Sep 2007, 2:06 am

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I tend to relate to people either older than myself or younger than myself - I have always had problems relating to people in my own age group.

I am the same way with both, men and women, I tend to relate more to younger people, I think I would feel somehow intimidated or I wouldn't feel right with a woman my own age or older, because I am very inmature in a lot of stuff, but that wouldn't mean I wouldn't like a woman my own age or older, I tend to have a crush sometimes on someone older but I get a lot of fear to be near one.


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11 Sep 2007, 4:26 am

Iam looking for a 37 year old.



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11 Sep 2007, 8:35 am

I don't need anybody. I have chubby, little Sid.



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11 Sep 2007, 9:28 am

Nambo wrote:
Iam looking for a 37 year old.


That doesn't mean anything in terms of the topic, unless you tell us how old YOU are.



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11 Sep 2007, 9:51 am

juliekitty wrote:
Nambo wrote:
Iam looking for a 37 year old.


That doesn't mean anything in terms of the topic, unless you tell us how old YOU are.


Who cares about the topic?

I'am looking for Luurve

Actually you sound nice Juliekitty, how old are you?



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11 Sep 2007, 2:44 pm

I find older women quite attractive, actually. Although that may be down to a borderline Oedipus complex more than anything else :P


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11 Sep 2007, 6:02 pm

I only date older women (I am 40) because they are more compatible with aspie males. Younger women are too obsessed with social status and quickly piss me off.


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11 Sep 2007, 7:25 pm

Every single relationship I know of has people the same age or guy older than girl. I have never seen a girl older than guy relationship. I don't know why that is.

I really don't care much, but I try to keep girls I go for within 3 years of me. Of course, I'm only 19. I'll be more lenient when I'm older.



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11 Sep 2007, 7:25 pm

I'm not looking at the moment, but I'm 47 and both of my really long relationships (6yrs and 17yrs) have been with women older than me; by 9yrs(the 6yr relationship) and 5yrs(the 17yr relationship).
I wasn't actively seeking older women, I just managed to find them at work and become attracted to them which led to love and marriage in the second case.
The first woman had two kids who grew into teens while I was still around. I liked the kids a lot, argued with their mom a lot. I actually got along better with her kids than with her (hope the kids and her were able to work out their differences by now).
The second woman actually came to me first (to tell the truth, they all have had to approach me first, usually).
I'm not very good at going out and picking a woman to ask out for a date.
I actually don't like to go around 'looking' for women because it feels like I'm hunting a piece of meat which doesn't feel right when I'm looking for friendship and love.

I don't think age matters as much to me as maturity, personality, intelligence, and of course attractiveness (I prefer women who look natural and not all made up or trying to imitate the latest star).
Having said that, I would probably feel uncomfortable dating someone who was in their 20's or up in their 60's, although just for fun dates with no expectation of a long-term relationship, I could probably date anyone who was of legal age.

I've had an interest in someone who is 16 yrs younger than me, and well, there was that one who is 9yrs older. That would make her 56 now. I suppose that's fine if we were compatible.

Funny thing about age for me... the woman who is 16yrs younger, I thought was more like 20+ yrs younger and I always felt sort of creepy because I found her attractive in so many ways, yet the age difference I thought we had made me feel like a lecherous old man :(
Being only 16yrs younger doesn't feel so bad, but there's probably too much of a difference for anything to ever happen... well, actually it definitely won't happen.

My Dad though... he picks younger and younger women it seems. He's on his third wife and when I saw her, I swear she was my age... REALLY CREEPY! Turns out she's a bit older than I but still quite young compared to my dad.

My sister's have all gone for older men. Perhaps because they didn't have a father around much?



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11 Sep 2007, 7:41 pm

No. I prefer women slightly older, actually. Not a whole lot, just by a few years. Younger women don't interest me generally, unless they look or act about my age. I'm not attracted to immaturity....



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11 Sep 2007, 7:53 pm

Nambo wrote:
Actually you sound nice Juliekitty, how old are you?


41. Four years too old for you. ;)



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11 Sep 2007, 10:25 pm

I like someone at least a year older than me. Plus taller and skinnier. Not to forget WILDER AND CRAZIER! ;)


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