Fussy about dating black girls; The remark..

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ive dated people of a lot of diff backgrounds... it doesnt bother me i do enjoy hearing other languages and having my partner push me to exercise at least listening skills... so this does kind of go in hand with them being a diff. race.

but i'm kinda like cal.... i takes what i can get!

HEY! I didn't say that here.
Mostly not true, apparantly.
I'm actually wondering if I'm
afraid of getting into anything
again. I KNOW that sex would
lead there for me, and there
are real worries: much as I
want someone, I really don't
want to face trying to build
all that back. And deep down,
I wonder if it's making me
break all my chances.

I don't have a preference as to ethnicity, but she still has to be an Aspie, though.

Tim

By the way, thought my currently drunk ass would go off on one thing:

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I was at a Halloween party tonight out at a major club downtown, the dj had this video pumping and all I've gotta say is Keri Hislon, I'd go jungle-fever on that any day of the week (heck, that isn't even a thought - she'd just blazin' hot period).

Ive never had a thing for black women and they've never shewn interest in me. Though I dont happen to find them attractive but tis never been an issue. But(for those in N America)what about Latino women??

all cats look gray in the dark.

Ahh, but what about when the sun comes up!

By then, the cats start to return home

that depends - i used to have a girlfriend that i suppose would be racially different, with a significant difference in skin colour and so on, but from exactly the same culture. it never created a barrier. prejudice with relatives and so on can still be a problem, of course, but in terms of the relationship itself i think culture is what really determines if there's a barrier or not. think a white, Christian American dating a (white) Bosnian Muslim vs a white Colombian dating a black one.
I personally tend to be more attracted, in terms of looks, to more mediterranean-type girls (Italian, Spanish, French, Arab) but this is a statistical tendency rather than a preference that excludes other races, i.e. it depends on the girl.

I ran into something similar on a different scale. When i was in high school i tended to sit and wait for classes after lunch, so these black girls walked past it isn't their color of their skin that bothered me I'm attracted to all kinds of women and have no physical "ideal" for a woman. It was that they were in terms of their character loud.

So one day They seemed to walk up to me and started asking about my love life one of them asked to the effect would I go out with them in a hypothetical sense,i never saw eiteher of these girls aside from passing the stair well i sat at, and they seemed loud in terms of their character like i said.

so I told her "Sorry but I'd have to pass, you seme a bit loud for my personal tastese she seemd to take it as a racil insult or something. I seem to have an ability to clarify my intentions quite well when the need arises. So I did that she was still offended on some level but the idea of any racism was gone.

so in short form the only thing that can fully remove all attraction for me is personality if someone is intellectually ignorant and doesn't care, or is easily excitable it completely takes away from any other charms they might have.

Last edited by loudmouth on 06 Nov 2007, 11:35 am, edited 1 time in total.

QFT.

QFT?

Means, "Quoted For Truth."

I'm mostly black and I tend to agree. A lot of black women are loud, obnoxious and anti-intellectual. I hardly have anything to do with black women because of the whole obnoxiousness issue. I only make exceptions if they're over 40 and have their lives together or if they're your bohemian types.

There is Condaleeza Rice - I believe that she is unattached.

As far as Latina's go, I seem to have a thing for Mexicana's....or they seem to have a thing for me. The 2nd girl I was involved with was solid Mexican. Mexicans tend to be rather unconventional and have a reputation for being rather easy. I will say they seem to like to f**k and dont try to use sex to manipulate the way american white women do. Lately though, I seem to be gravitating towards persian women.