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23 Sep 2007, 8:57 pm

richardbenson wrote:

most girls with Aspergers are lesbians and can probably beat you at arm wrestling

I WISH.

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23 Sep 2007, 9:00 pm

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what we need are girls who are just as messed up as we are that dont look like dudes. most girls with Aspergers are lesbians and can probably beat you at arm wrestling

Grats on 5000 posts, Richard.

I think there are lots of chicks here who don't look like dudes.

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23 Sep 2007, 9:02 pm

thanks.

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23 Sep 2007, 9:19 pm

Congrats on 5000 posts!! !

I am approaching a major post-related milestone myself.

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23 Sep 2007, 9:22 pm

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Aspie forehead? Never heard of that.

The guys I'm talking abut are pansies, not nice guys, but definitely pansies. I don't brag about my physique ever when actually around another person. But I don't have a life... that's probably it. I'd bet my body language is way off too. If I can't even make a normal friend how would I ever have a chance of a girlfriend.

I think this might go the other way too. I have met 3 AS girls in my life and didn't like any of them. They were prudish, uninterested, moody, and had masculine tendencies. I'm not making a generalization, I've only met 3, and after seeing this site I'm convinced that they're not all like that.

You might be right about the body language that is way off. I know mine is way off. And so is all the AS people I have met. I'll admit to being prudish, uninterested. moody and with masculine tendencies. Testosterone does that to a woman. However some AS women on here are more feminine. Perhaps they have milder form of AS.

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23 Sep 2007, 9:37 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

Congrats on 5000 posts!! !

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23 Sep 2007, 9:38 pm

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I don't think it's quite so simple...

Primarily, once most women form an attachment... they like to do everything in their power to keep that commitment and relationship going forward. Even if it means putting up with abuse, it'll be worth it in the end... and in the throws of a relationship it's easy to put blinders on. Especially once they've accepted the relationship...

I think; this is mostly a refined guess on my part.

The Jerk problem comes in, because Jerks are usually more forward and direct... and generally appear well intentioned... or exciting at first. Jerks tend to be aggressive and peruse stuff more... it's not that women like them more... it's that they put themselves out there more.

Also, as another aside... with the failure rate of most relationships nowadays... I wouldn't be looking towards conventional women for what works anyways.

Simply put: Most women are dumb.
But its not like most males are smarter.

In fact, just about everyone is dumb.

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23 Sep 2007, 9:44 pm

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`Weak` DNA? Most NT men are the ones with weak DNA.Women look for potential mates who exhibit feminine traits,they don`t find these in AS men.Look up Baron Cohen and Autism on the net

Sorry dude but autistic genes are bad DNA. AS people aren't able to interact correctly, have problems holding jobs and often have coordination issues. That doesn't make for a good mate. I notice you are from Northern Ireland and very manly looking in your avatar. But all the US Aspie men I have met are usually very feminine acting and weak. For instance there are several guys at work I think have AS and they are all the laughing stock of the NT women. They are just too girly, shy and wimpy. I'm friends with a lot of the NT guys who are the typical guy type though. It seems like the older AS guys are more masculine than the younger ones. Come to think of it maybe its a generational thing because a lot of the NT young guys are very sissy these days.

This is exactly what I am talking about: See Above.

I would never hit on a women who was overconfident of herself.

The chance of her being a major b***h is about 99.9%.

The reason women hit on men on jerks is because they want to impress their friends in College/High School. When they get older, there brains start to get larger, and they start dating other types of men

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23 Sep 2007, 9:50 pm

Brian003 wrote:

Simply put: Most women are dumb.
But its not like most males are smarter.

In fact, just about everyone is dumb.

I don't equate it with being dumb. Well, it causes them to do dumb things... but this approach women have in a relationship should be appreciated. That level of commitment they can get down to... it's powerful stuff. And women are under appreciated in this regard...

Without going too far into it... I'd say it's of utmost importance to keeping society together. Women quite often are just there for you, and men don't really know why...

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23 Sep 2007, 9:53 pm

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I don't equate it with being dumb. Well, it causes them to do dumb things... .

What else do we have to judge by?

I'm a bloody idiot.

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23 Sep 2007, 10:00 pm

calandale wrote:

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I don't equate it with being dumb. Well, it causes them to do dumb things... .

What else do we have to judge by?

I'm a bloody idiot.

Well, the result isn't the cause. I can consider situations where that inclination would help things instead of hurting.

Another example: a strong desire to compete. In certain situations, it could be the most foolish thing to do. In others, more appropriate. It takes understanding to know which is which... but the drive to do so isn't exactly dumb.

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23 Sep 2007, 10:06 pm

online girls seem to adore me
IRL they want nothing to do with me

ironic :roll:
(as I dont date online)

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23 Sep 2007, 10:11 pm

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online girls seem to adore me

Then you must be a jerk

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23 Sep 2007, 10:12 pm

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Kilroy wrote:

online girls seem to adore me

Then you must be a jerk

That's what I'm saying... with an alias like Kilroy... there's no way he could be nice...

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23 Sep 2007, 10:16 pm

Pugly wrote:

calandale wrote:

Pugly wrote:

I don't equate it with being dumb. Well, it causes them to do dumb things... .

What else do we have to judge by?

I'm a bloody idiot.

No. But we can't know the feelings of
others, but as we delude ourselves that
they are sensed. 'Tis only the external
by which we can really judged - or better
yet, our OWN internal.

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23 Sep 2007, 10:16 pm

hey Kilroy had to kill that robot to escape from prison

man I just don't understand how girls really like me-Nt's more so it seems (online)
they seem taken by me and I am not doing anything but telling the truth
I never thought I was sweet or anything :lol:
but the number of "ohh I wish I had a bf like you" I've gotten made me smile-shame they're all so far :cry:
not all girls like jerks...
only the sluts do-and when they grow up they see the jerks are useless and go for the sweet ones-(but the aspies I donnp-I haven't proven that one yet)

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