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ToadOfSteel
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30 Dec 2007, 8:27 pm

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There are exceptions. On the internet it's just like with the real world: most guys are out for sex but there are some good guys out there.


Well I am an exception (I am definitely not looking for just sex, but a real relationship) to that rule, especially for 19 year old men, but like I said earlier in the thread, I live in the States...



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31 Dec 2007, 2:20 am

I have not tryed online dating yet.

My friend did and was excited for a while but then said most of the women he met were not very social which is probably why they were dating online. I told him In the 30 years I've known him hes the most antisocial person Ive ever met. He said thats why he was looking for someone the opposite.

Is there some kind of "friends first"site?

I went to Aspie Affection and things seem kinda slow there ( plus men outnumber the women 3 to 1) Eligible Odd Bods was not working when I went.

If I went to a standard Date site should I mention AS? I mean it's certainly important like having a kid or something.

It's just that sometimes regret becoming self aware of how I'm interpreted. Before I had all the confidence in the world. Its just in the past seven years or so I started to take therapy more seriously, and I eased off . I'm OK with me , I just dont want to hurt anybody else. And teasing/flirting seems too aggresive now.

I have been invited to a New Years party by a girl I met at an art thing. Honestly a loud drunken party does not seem the best way to meet antbody for me. I don't want to be the center of attention anymore. Plus I dont want to drink and drive, but being sober with people who are drinking can be strange.



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31 Dec 2007, 3:48 am

This is why online dating sites suck.

less you be the person who wants to cough up the money for Eharmony or whatever.

Real life isn't all dat bad.


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31 Dec 2007, 4:02 am

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sweetcupcake wrote:
Not looking for just sex. Im 16, from UK.
It seems all the guys on dating sites are just looking for sex. :roll:

I would suggest staying away from dating sites until you are at least 18 and want to have sex, unless you go to a Christian one. Most guys on internet sites don't really care about love, they just want sex. Women don't seem to realize this though.


I just want voids to go away. That is probably a worse reason then just wanting sex, at least they might see you with sexual desires and fun. Money woman dress up to look sexy, much of that is pretty much wasted on me. I probably see them as man with an headache sees Aspirin. It would be different for aspie woman though.



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31 Dec 2007, 4:13 am

You know I once heard the reason older guys look for younger girls isnt really sex. Its because at such a young age they havent had the chance to get burned by men and become bitter.

Just something I heard . . .



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01 Jan 2008, 1:50 pm

Veresae wrote:
There are exceptions. On the internet it's just like with the real world: most guys are out for sex but there are some good guys out there.


true.