Comkeen wrote:
I was browsing through this forum after I had posted a topic and noticed that a certain (cute) girl lives near me. I sent her a message telling her she was cute and that I lived nearby too. To my surprise, she replied with a very friendly email. We talked a little over IM and I asked her later if she wanted meet up for some coffee. Then, her communication with me stopped even read my invitation email to ask her out.
I guess I thought some of the people on this forum had a different mentality when it comes to honest communication, but I guess I was wrong. A big letdown, if you ask me.
You asked her out ---> she give it a try ---> you met each others --- > she scanned you in the meeting even if you didn't notice that---> she compared you to other males she know in her life -- > you are not an alpha in the group of the males she knows ---> you are casted out the potential mates list (some girls will just put you in the friendship zone= casting out the potential bfs list).
19 Jan 2008, 3:33 pm
