why do girls sometimes treat me like a little kid?

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two words: Al Pacino.

I'm not like this at all in real life. I'm just a nice guy who can be timid especially around pretty girls. I'm intimidated by the outgoingpretty girls but those are the girls I like, because frankly it's damn easier to be in a relationship with an outgoing girl if your shy.

Oh, don't you think that he made an enormous effort to become a successful and famous actor?

Wow, such a hostile response. You're weak. We will not get along.

But anyway, you're completely wrong. All women seek to be dominated, whether it be physical, sexual, intellectual or by means of judgement by society through their behavior of gender reversal.

You say if things were this way, we would be extinct. Just the opposite. Humans are nowhere near perfect, as you so "accurately" portray. Intelligence was never factored into our being, yet alone social pre-dispositions. And so we struggle, against basic instinct of survival of the fittest, constantly adapting what we feel so deeply into what we think we should be.

I take you, for example. So frustrated with your failure. You're not one to be dominant, simply by intellectual nature. You know it's wrong. But, it's now what you feel.

And so, you lash out. You're unable to understand everything around and inside you, so you're alone. And so, you begin to hate. You value yourself above others, giving condescending remarks about "class" status. How petty.

You're cornered. You don't know what to do. You came here, you saw truth your hateful self didn't want to accept. Put it down, put it down simply and quickly. Your right, and any other is wrong and stupid. I pity you, and the life that awaits you.

So predictable.

what you mean he was very confident? yea thats my point he was a tough guy and short.

Maybe it's the whole "two personalities" thing you were talking about. When I get the sense that someone is hiding some of their traits from me, I don't open up to that person. I engage on a more superficial level. Maybe that's what they're doing?

Are you implying that I lack my own id? I could let my own id loose for a while, but it would probably get me banned

I am far from weak. I am also someone that has had a wide view of the world. There are women who are dominant and certainly feminine and sensitive men who are not dominant yet masculine. Your opinions are dumb, and I disagree. Also in certain social classes of society men can act sensitive and artistic and things like that and it is perfectly acceptable. A construction worker acts domineering and agressive simply because he has to in order to survive. A composer may come across as the submissive male type. These weren't condescending remarks. I am assuming you are American as am I and in our society we tend to erase class while most other societies underline it. And I'm not talking about money here I'm talking about classy beahvior by definition. You see 14 year olds wearing tatoos and getting drunk in our society, very low-class behavior. How many people listen to hip-hop as opossed to broadway? Yet the street-wise mentality is glorified. There is no reason to pity me at all, because I actually no how to get women, yet I just have a difficult time with it right now, due to social skills problems I have always had and frankly due to luck. That is what life is. Life is about luck.

quite possible, all though this topic isn't superficial, it's serious.

Oh, I didn't intend to imply that -this- is a superficial conversation. Rather, you may find that others can sense when you're "holding back" a (major) part of yourself, and they may follow suit.

I've had that problem. It doesn't result in me being treated like a child, but it makes it hard for me to form friendships with women because I am shy about volunteering information about myself and so they are more reluctant to share about themselves in return. People want to make genuine connections but it's hard for an aspie to understand what is and isn't okay to talk about.

Noq quite sure I follow you? Holding back when, online now or in real life?

Ah, I'm just speculating anyhow. What I mean is IRL, when you are focusing on being nice and polite, maybe women feel like they can't connect with you?

I don't know how this stuff works, either.

Gwen is trying to tell you that you are a hypocrite and pathetically pretender , kiddy.

I do not have AS, but I feel I should comment on this since I get this too.

I often feel like I'm treated like a child or some sort of "neat novelty." It's a pain in the ass, and somewhat obvious, I'm a year younger than most college students, and I look younger than my age on top of that. It's frustrating and I don't feel like I'm taken seriously all the time.

Aren't we all!

Er. Hypocrites, that is.

No. Life is about circumstance, not luck.

And with such a "wide view of the World" it's funny how you forgot to leave out that part that everyone thinks differently, everyone wants different things, and that different people will sacrifice different things in order to obtain a different ideal from their own.

Theres no such thing as "class." It's a simple invention by simple humans to put their insecurity to rest and give them a reason to act so high and mighty. You're just like those 14 year old hip-hop savvy teens. You think you're so much better, and that you're so right.



What's that I smell...it's, it's...the insecurity of the weak. Masked with the stench of the self-righteous. Disgusting.