Falling for an Aspie...

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Had to try.

Well I can't say go do it but maybe if you stick around here you can learn some more other than that it's up to you and him.

What made you realize that?

It's just a feeling that I have. Especially after spending lots of time on this site. I think that he likes to be around me, because I love to hear him talk about his interests. Maybe most women don't respond to him in the way that I do. I think he's a breath of fresh air. He's an really cool guy in my opinion. I am making the mistake of trying to read his signals as if he were NT. Hell, I don't even know if he's giving me signals!

Is this some strange reverse roleplay?

wha?

I think they're saying you're acting like an Aspie.

Oh I see!

If he likes to spend time with you then he probably does like you unless he has no other friends. There's no more precious gift you can give someone than time. Does he check you out when he thinks you're not looking?

Yep he does. LOL!

Eh well a couple things I wanted to say.

1) I had a mutual crush btwn me and a girl for a long time in the end she thought I hated her and got someone else I went back and wrote her a message on facebook saying how I feel (not knowing she had a bf at the time) she shows up next week and holds a door open for me but by then I knew she had a bf and well now thats over and I couldn't talk to her even though she wanted me too, basically we couldn't tell each other how we felt and it didn't work out.

2) Don't ever send mixed signals not ever b/c for me they only cause havoc and make me never try to ask a girl out even if it's only a small mixed signal I won't be made a fool of basically.

Well that's strange that he hasn't asked you out. Do you talk about relationships with him at all? Has he had a g/f before?

Eh I gotta say if you've got someone don't tell him about them, I'm not good enough to tell if a girl wants me to be the next guy so make sure that's not going on.

I made the mistake of sending my Aspie guy mixed signals.. now I think I have lost him for good. The comments on here are very enlightening! He was the cutest guy ever.