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hakemon
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26 May 2008, 1:35 am

so, she told me she still wants to be just friends, and was only "confused" for a bit afterwards..


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26 May 2008, 8:34 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
I am in a hurry to lose mine as well, but it is nearly impossible to even attract other Aspies, much less NTs. And the very few I attract tend to be neo-fascists who don't believe in premarital sex.


yeah gotta hate those stuck up hilerites :lol:



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26 May 2008, 8:51 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
I am in a hurry to lose mine as well, but it is nearly impossible to even attract other Aspies, much less NTs. And the very few I attract tend to be neo-fascists who don't believe in premarital sex.


They don't believe in it? It exists. I have pictures. :twisted:


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26 May 2008, 9:07 pm

I would advise you to wait and resist to your urge. I am not the type who believes marriage and sex are sacred, even though I personally am totally uninteressed in one night stands. But I can understand why some people want it, especially at your age it's normal to have a normal libido :) But do you really want your first time to be with a girl you paid or a girl you met at some dodgy adult dating site? If you actually sleep with a woman you have feelings for, it will be a lot more overwhelming and worth the wait. I would rather stay 10 years without sex personally rather than paying a single cent for it ; any form of sex not involving emotional commitment seems like love in a void to me.


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