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Interestingly enough, I feel the urge to kiss people I platonically love.

The only thing is, they either don't love me as much as I think they do, or the situation is inappropriate. Most likely, these people are working when I want to kiss them.

I really do feel this urge. I have kept this private for a long time, but you all are the first group of people to know about it. I really confide in all of you.

Thinking about the urge, visualizing happy things and then realizing it won't happen is just terrible!

I absolutely love kissing. When I end up in a situation like that, I can go on for a really long time. The longest I ever spent kissing continuously is 30 minutes. It was so good, I felt on fire and weak in the knees at the end.

I have to admit I don’t really like kissing. I’ll certainly do it, I don’t exactly hate it, and it is usually a necessary phase, but I do become rapidly bored with kissing and want to move on to better things. I’m definitely not one to engage in hours worth of kissing just for the sake of it.

Kissing was very exciting when I was fourteen! Back then it was great!

That being said, casual kissing is great and when I'm involved with a girl I will kiss her all the time, all over the place. Hands, feet, neck, any bit of exposed skin. It's the long make-out lip lock sessions that get frustrating.

Unfortunately, not very many of you know how I feel about this. The feeling that I have will be perfectly understood by all of you when I finish posting this message, I am sure.

I sense a feeling of slight disappointment. This is because not very many people realize that I platonically love them.

This feeling is slightly strong because today is Thanksgiving Day here in America. So far, nobody has personally opened up to me as yet. This makes me wonder, nibble on my fingers and close my eyes to myself.

However, I am thankful that we are celebrating Thanksgiving in my household later today. We have a professional chef cooking dinner for us, and we have snow. I could not ask for anything better.

Too complicated. the most complex thing I can do with my mouth while kissing is talk at the same time, and the quality of both the kiss and the speech suffer.

Actually, I like kissing and being kissed on the body and face (except for the lips), and for the lips, a quick nibbly kiss is OK.

It's just that long slobbery moist wet lips sliding around doesn't do a whole lot for me. One guy used to sort of come at me with his mouth open and his lips were hard- it had a bite-like quality that was awfully unpleasant. The other thing is that since it doesn't do much for me, I feel very awkward when the other person pulls back and looks at me expectently, and then wants to dive back at my mouth, whereas my instinctive reaction is to pull back and dodge before he makes contact!! It's sort of hard to camoflague and avoid offending the person.

watching people kiss is gross....kissing someone you like can be enjoyable..but remember...only AFTER the pint of JD is finished...and make sure to escape soonthereafter. HA!! I'm kidding. but really kissing is a weird experience. I'd much rather just spend time holding hands and talking.

LAME..i know....never said i was though.

I guess I'm in the minority among aspies. A lot of people here don't enjoy kissing (on the mouth, that is), while I find to be a very strong turn-on.

I hate kissing. Especially tounge kissing. I don't understand whats so romantic/sexy about having someone's tounge in your mouth.

Well throughout high school I was convinced I was chiraptophobic (fear of touching), so kissing wasn't a problem. But then right after HS I started going out with a really good friend (a girl, I'm a dude). She convinced me to get into touching and kissing, I think I enjoyed it at the time. (We've since split) Now looking back on kissing I'm a little traumatized actually. I think I remember specifically the gross parts (exchanging fluids, etc...) without the pleasure that comes from it. So in retrospect, no I don't like it, but I may have. C'est la vie.

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I like kissing, but only someone I'm sexually attracted to. Kissing and/or sex scenes in movies generally bore me to tears (but not always). Like Synchro, I don't want the kissing to go on forever, but want it to progress to better things fairly quickly. And I also judge the likely prowess of my potential lover in those Better Things by his skill at kissing.....experience has been a mighty teacher on this one .

I daresay I'm a romantic tragic. I'll always remember my first, and perhaps quite a few more. No, I was always told it was wet, and pretty disgusting. But I actually enjoyed it. I could go into detail, but that would just be nasty. Rather, being held, being touched, hearing the other person's heartbeat, feeling your fears and worries melt away, those parts were (and are) special. A kiss without that part of it wouldn't have the meaning. I have to love the person I kiss.

The other side of kissing, well, I put up with it. Including the Great Aunts. ("S*r*h, my word, how you've grown..." *shudders*) I just, put up with it, and knew that if I didn't kick and scream, it would be over relatively painlessly.

Hahahahahaha

I don't like my face being wet period. I realized a couple of months ago that i dont like to kiss nearly as much as i like to bite. Kissing doesn't turn me on that much, but i do enjoy exploring the mouth of another person, especially with my tongue. The very idea is cute. But as for pleasure creating and showing affection, i much prefer to bite softly.

Like the girl is doing in your pic, right?

Yeah, I'm not always keen on kissing either - sometimes I dislike the wetness of it and the taste and everything associated with it. A peck is generally always welcome, but add tongue and it depends on my mood as to how I'll react. I don't hate kissing, it's just sometimes I dislike the feeling of being kissed and the taste of whoever I'm kissing so...

My husband is Aspergic, and when we were courting he would kiss me often, I supose because it was new to him, and he was good at it, even the wet ones would raise my tempreture, as soon as we were married it was as though the experiment was over, now all I get is the occasional passionate kiss and the rest tight lipped. and we never kiss with eyes open, to distracting, being an Nt and having dated Nt before my husband not any of them kissed with eyes open either. And we never kiss while in the bedroom scene, to busy doing other stuff.