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Mutanatia
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22 Aug 2008, 12:44 pm

Kilroy wrote:
asexuals have some things easier I'll say that


Yeah, I know. Then this whole thing wouldn't've happened >.<



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22 Aug 2008, 12:55 pm

at least you got something to rub in losers' face



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22 Aug 2008, 12:59 pm

This is true :)



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22 Aug 2008, 1:02 pm

yep-that is something from all of this



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22 Aug 2008, 1:03 pm

But still, never again



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22 Aug 2008, 1:05 pm

before marriage or never ever



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22 Aug 2008, 1:15 pm

Depends on the day lol
Some days, it's not before marriage
Some days, it's not at all



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22 Aug 2008, 1:49 pm

I guess you just need the right one



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22 Aug 2008, 2:53 pm

This is probably true. I just don't like the fact that I was pressured into it, you know? I would rather have lost my virginity to someone who didn't pressure me into it.



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22 Aug 2008, 9:44 pm

Looks like another case of a women totally screwing with a guys head, and worse. People wonder why I feel the way I do about women. The proof is right here all women like to mess with guys. Period.



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22 Aug 2008, 10:15 pm

Mutanatia wrote:
This is probably true. I just don't like the fact that I was pressured into it, you know? I would rather have lost my virginity to someone who didn't pressure me into it.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGHnuri0dF8
that's your situation in a heart beat
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23 Aug 2008, 10:48 am

KenM wrote:
Looks like another case of a women totally screwing with a guys head, and worse. People wonder why I feel the way I do about women. The proof is right here all women like to mess with guys. Period.


:roll:



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23 Aug 2008, 7:08 pm

JohnHopkins wrote:
KenM wrote:
Looks like another case of a women totally screwing with a guys head, and worse. People wonder why I feel the way I do about women. The proof is right here all women like to mess with guys. Period.


:roll:


JH, I see from your profile you are pretty young. You have not had the ammout of let downs and heart break with women as I have. All the women I've ever been interested in have been misleading and lied to me in some way. See my other threads I made on the subject. When the same stuff happens with different women, seems to me that all women that I know like to mess with guys.

You'll see.



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23 Aug 2008, 7:48 pm

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When the same stuff happens with different women, seems to me that all women that I know like to mess with guys.


Isn't that a false syllogism, though? If you are the common denominator among a group of women it would seem you might be at least part of the dynamic?

Saying 'all' women are a certain way based solely upon a group you have come in contact with is a false syllogism.

If it's any comfort, a lot of people make the same mistakes over and over in relationships i.e. end up or choose (depending whose philosophy on that you follow) the same types of people over and over. And of course it winds up the same. It's possible to break the cycle it just takes a lot of introspection and above all not placing it all at other people's feet. Some maybe but not all.

(ETA: I see that you used the word 'seem'. So maybe you are acknowledging there, that it only seems that way. Still, it does sound as if you feel all women are the same, and intentionally lie and manipulate. As a woman who always prized honesty I'd disagree.)