The Competition: On Quashing Them

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The demand for females is ONLY higher because guys don't know how to control themselves. Ugly girls have the same equipment as hot girls, so they are just as capable in that department, which is all the guy cares about. Looks don't really matter if it's just a one nighter. Women can afford to be picky because guys hunt them like a horde of zombies. At any given time, something like 40% of the population is single (a large % is under age or old though). Women are then seen as more desirable because a single guy might ask out 5 of them (since he's unattached) in a night, whereas the women just sits and waits and feels desirable. (Also, you need to consider that guys are notorious cheaters! Thus, 1 guy can have 2+ women to himself, limiting the supply to other men and thus causing the perceived increase in "demand").

To put it in more statistical terms, something around 90% of the population ends up getting married. I wish 90% of the girls I met were physically attractive, but that isn't the case. Therefore, people marry people that aren't physically attractive and thus "less desirable" then their attractive counter parts.

Finally, what do you think would happen if we had more females than males in our population? If there were 10 females for every male, I doubt the perceived demand would change at all (I'd ask out 10 women no problem), but the real demand would for sure be on the women's side because (assuming the guy only marries 1 girl and doesn't cheat) only 10% of the female population will get to be married.

^You're only 20...

The way this dating thing seems to work with you guys makes it sound like business as usual.

I'd hate to just date someone without knowing more about them. Then again, I'm patient to the point that I may be an eccentric old maid with a hundred cats.....

Neant, is this a tried and true approach for you? I'd personally find any guy partaking in this behaviour extremely undesirable. If I found out that's how he tried to get me, and we had somehow ended up together, I'd say it would even call into serious question whether or not I wanted to stay with him. I like a man with good manipulative skills, but how he uses his abilities makes all the difference.

I'd feel very much like a chosen object if I were somehow courted through these means. As a couple of you sound on this thread, women are mere property to be claimed and fought over. Sure, this is the way of many animals, particularly mammals, but I think humans can have a bit more self awareness than that. I know I'm not property, I'm not an object; I'm the same species as the other sex and my reproductive strategy is not to be gathered into a polygamous setting. If it were, then this would work better for me. And I'm not sure how desirable a woman who'd fall for this kind of thing would be, either, but I guess that's up to the individual guy.

Of course, I'm just a woman--what do I know?

How exactly would you get that impression, sir?

I was only playfully commenting on what you said at first.
I think you misunderstood me.