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not looking for anything like that, I know the girl I want, she's just too far away for sex at the moment

lol, yeah. Women are hard to figure out. I like the idea Larry had on Curb Your Enthusiasm, where he told his wife just to tap him on the shoulder whenever she wanted sex

It makes a lot more sense to me that the woman should be the one who initiates sex in a relationship. The man is generally more likely to be ready and willing if asked, and the man is also not at risk of becoming pregnant. Of course I accept that if I'm ever in a relationship this is most likely not going to be the case, but this should be kept in mind.

I'm a totally inexperienced virgin but I don't think it's necessarily the case that I should feel worse than someone my age or somewhat older who has been sexually active in the past and is now single, especially if they enjoyed sex. I mean I don't really know what I like because I haven't experienced it, so how can I miss it?

Yeah, its just different. I can't really remember what I felt like before I lost my virginity. Except, I just wanted to lose it, cause practically everyone else I knew had.

I'm with ya there benji. Been about as long for me, too.

Oh, I thought I saw you mention you had a partner? But then, the Red Hot Chilli Peppers quote says differently

Go to an escort service, either an agency or an independent escort. That's what I do, about once every few months. While it's less often that I'd like, I have to be reasonable with it, since escorts are very expensive, and I'm not rich. But it's not so much as actually getting a release, as simply knowing that I can contact an escort anytime, whenever my horniness rises above a manageable level.

Yeah. I'm married.

ROFL...everytime I see the title to this I keep thinking of something would probably go in the adult forum...

"I Really Need a <insert word> Right Now!"

lol thanks man. I'd rather be the escort though I'm gonna try and not pay for sex. Mind you a few years ago, when I payed for the hotel room, that cost m £80 I'm in kind of a trapped situation right now, but its a long story. I think maybe I just need a cuddle As for the sex part. If you want a job done........

Whats he playing at? Is he away or something?

I could think of plenty of words to fill the gap

...do it yourself, and quit talking like a perv.

uh oh, another self pittying w**ker. I'm aloud to mess around, and don't tell me what to do. Love and dating is not all about depression and misery.

Nope.
It's just not very important to him. I don't understand it either.

Thats strange. Its usually the other way round. I'm gonna write up a contract for my wife to sign. Once a day, or no deal Have you spoke to him about it?

A contract is a good idea. Obligation kind of kills the mood, though.

To the point where we are now beating a dead horse.

Whatever, I don't need to make this all about me.
Carry on.