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Haliphron
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19 Jan 2009, 2:27 am

I dont mean to hijack the thread but I'd like to say that for me personally, I struggle to try in vain to accept that whether or not Im single is beyond my control. Thats the HARDEST part! That Im single and there isnt much I can do about it at this very moment except wait...........................*sigh*



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19 Jan 2009, 3:43 am

JennaJ wrote:
Why do you think women of any common sense would steer clear of you?

From the conversations i have had with you here you surely don't sound like someone who ANYONE would steer clear of, so why do you say that? out of curiosity?

Not EVERYONE looks for the same mold out of people. Now granted, those people are not as plentiful but they are out there. I know that for a fact. There are a lot of us who migrate to people who live outside of the box and who are not the perfect societal mode.


The only thing I can say is Experience... in my life, the only thing I have known is rejection. I have no idea as to what I'm doing wrong, either... I just know that every single time I try to ask a woman out, I get rejected. The only time women ever flirt with me is when they try to use me for whatever purpose, such as back in high school when women tried to use me for passing tests... otherwise I have never known what it feels like just to have a woman interested in me, the person...

PS: Being 100 lbs overweight doesn't help, either...