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i guess i'm hopping in here a little late but i'll give my opinion anyways.

it sounds to me like you don't want/aren't ready for a serious relationship, as mentioned before. i've been in a "friends with benefits" situation and if you can both keep emotions out of the picture, it can be really fun. i had to break off mine because i felt she was getting attached and i didn't want to hurt her, she was a friend after all, we just happened to sleep together. lots of people in those types of relationships aren't actually friends, they're more like f**k buddies, but it really depends on the people and the situation. mine was pretty much like an open relationship without the emotional aspects. we would hang out, go to movies, have sex, etc. but we didn't expect any kind of relationship out of it, we were fine if the other person saw other people, we even took a break when she had a boyfriend for a while and got back "together" when they broke up. so i think, at least for now, that would be a good situation for you, so long as you make it clear from the start that you don't want a relationship.

since this isn't an exclusive relationship, make sure you use protection, you don't want an STD. if you start something like that, make sure you always have some condoms with you because guys aren't always responsible (imagine that) and don't always have them, even if they're planning on having sex. so be safe and have fun.

I'm applying for Physics which is well good. Which year are you in?

In this case, he's basically saying he would *never* date someone like you, but then mentions "pretty face" which indicates he's most likely hitting on you... from what I know of LPP, probably without the intent of being serious...

Second year. I did a module in Physics last year, its an awful department to be a student in. Good choice not to apply here tbh.

You are never supposed to break up with anyone in a text message, well maybe not unless the REALLY did something very bad to tick you off. Just watch this Text Message Breakup video, lol

Ahh, well I don't blame him. What with my gorgeous looks and keen wit.

I don't know this LPP chappy, as I don't know anyone yet.. ^^

Oh dear. I hope she was alright. Haha I think I would be very good at excluding emotions, I tend to have a slight lack of emotional reactions.
That sounds good, I would definitely like a relationship like that. Fingers crossed! ^_^
How did you make her realise that that was what you wanted> Or did you just talk to her about it?

Haha usually I find that guys I know are fairly responsible.

No, I was talking to that gorgeous girl over there . No, it's not you.

You are so modest, aren't you?

Really?

Oh er! Lucky I didn't apply then ^_^
What is your major subject?

well i didn't really break it off since there wasn't anything officially going on, i just stopped sleeping with her for a while. the way it started was we hooked up after a party, afterwards we were talking about relationships and thats when we both said we didn't want a relationship. it was a bit awkward at first, if you're not really sure how the other person feels it's somewhat difficult to tell them flat out that you don't want to be in a relationship with them, but we both felt the same way so it was fine.

p.s. you might want to delete the long list of quotes in your messages, it takes up a lot of space when you have that many in there.

edit: actually it was after the second time we hooked up that we talked about it. the first time i hooked up with her i had to wake up about two hours after we finished to go to a rowing competition. i wasn't supposed to race that day but someone didn't show up so they threw my hungover, tired butt in the boat... we lost.

Maths now, which is a really good dept Look up the top trumps group on facebook, hilarious.

^ you two should get a room, have sex, and then seperate acrimoniously

Well that sounds like a good way to go about it. I'll try and subtly bring up relationships and say it. Admittedly I did try that the other time, but I think I stated it too explicitly and not at the right moment. ^^;;

Haha, I deleted the quote from last time and I shall remember to do that from now on! ^_^

That is really a bit of a nightmare for you Ah well, you can't be expected to do amazingly in that sort of condition!