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BellaDonna
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29 Jan 2009, 6:07 am

sands wrote:
I personally believe that nice guys are already winners before they ever begin............


Words never spoken so true. :)



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29 Jan 2009, 6:13 am

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you will spoil any chances you might have with women who otherwise might eventually let you have sex with them.


let you have sex with them? to be allowed to have sex with a woman?

what about having a woman that WANTs to have sex with you. Passionate about you?
Why not go for the whole enchilada?

I certainly would't allow a man to have sex with me, I would wait until I wanted to.

my two cents,
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29 Jan 2009, 8:33 am

sinsboldly wrote:
what about having a woman that WANTs to have sex with you. Passionate about you?


:lmao:

that was a good one... women "passionate" about me... ha...



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29 Jan 2009, 10:11 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
what about having a woman that WANTs to have sex with you. Passionate about you?


:lmao:

that was a good one... women "passionate" about me... ha...



well, not with that attitude, dude. It's not rocket science. I have been an Aspie woman all my life but I have been passionate about weirder dudes than you! (no offense!)
It certainly could happen!

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29 Jan 2009, 1:54 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
what about having a woman that WANTs to have sex with you. Passionate about you?


:lmao:

that was a good one... women "passionate" about me... ha...



well, not with that attitude, dude. It's not rocket science. I have been an Aspie woman all my life but I have been passionate about weirder dudes than you! (no offense!)
It certainly could happen!

Merle
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It happened to me, I met someone long ago who was passionate about me but because of past trauma she wasnt so eager to have sex with me or ANY man for that matter. Trouble is, I havent been able to find someone else who feels the same way for quite a while(despite trying hard)..... :x



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29 Jan 2009, 2:16 pm

Maybe someday, Israel and Palestine will "want" to be friends... :roll:



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29 Jan 2009, 2:49 pm

I had a girl that stalked my over the internet and called my house every day to get me to go out with her. DON'T EVER EVER EVER say yes to a girl like that, there psyco and only want to F*** you.
And she was stupid and ugly. I mean REALLLL stupid, she wanted to make a place where people go to share their feelings.



one word for that person WTF



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29 Jan 2009, 3:45 pm

15 minutes of flame topic

Wow, this guy has gotten more responses in under 50 posts than I have in my 2800+ here at WP.

I wish him luck wherever he is.

Bit of a short fuse. He is very young. :roll:


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29 Jan 2009, 3:48 pm

Ive come to the conclusion that power is something that women greatly admire and fundamentally respect-even MORE than empathy/emotional appeal. Nice guys seem like they're weak and vulnerable which women associate with insecurity. Since women are basically insecure, the want a secure man to compensate for that which they lack themselves.