You like THAT type? Ewww...

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There's the usual type of guys I like, Tall, dark and hansome and lerge built, with extreme confidence and self security, aand totally laid back, caring, understanding and kind. That sums up everything I want in a man.

However, I have weird attractions sometimes too. I have a "secret" thing for really hot guys that act punk/slightly gothic. This is kept quiet because it seems kinda weird, as i'm not like that at all.

I want to go into one of those secret bars where hot weird people hang out, like in the movie "constantine". That is like heaven to me.

I also have an uncontrollable attraction to wanting sex from bad boys.

Double ditto. I think glasses, on guys, can be.... well... mmmmmmmm....

((On another site they are a long-established vsiual fetish for me, I have documentation that this pre-dates my dating a guy with glasses, though that of course was not actually part of any criteria, just saying this so it doesn't seem like it's reducing cognitive dissonance. Glasses can be HOT.))

A weird thing has been occurring to me in recent months. Suddenly I find myself attracted to Suicide Girl type alternative models. This is very odd for me, because I’ve always hated tattoos and piercings on women. All of a sudden I’ve seen several thin, tattooed white girls that I found very stimulating. Weird…

In the past, I’ve been attracted mostly to Mexican girls and they have been attracted to me. As a matter of fact, I’ve only had one relationship with a white girl. It isn’t that I don’t find white girls attractive, it’s just that white girls barely acknowledge my existence! Every other girl I’ve been with in any way has been Mexican. My last girlfriend was Mexican, six feet tall, waist-length black hair, with a black girl’s booty. Yummy beyond belief.

My family didn’t like her too much. She had tons of sex appeal and her sensual nature was very apparent. In other words, not the kind of girl you bring home to mother. I did anyway.

Haha.

You've probably seen me ranting about the 410 1/2 (149 cm) tall girl I thought was bullying me by sending me e-mails and wanting to chat with me? Ok, of cause I got and still have a thing for short, thin women. I'm trying to get this (probably) kid out of my mind, but I really hate being so damn mindblind, insecure and paranoid.

Are you sure she was bullying you? Maybe she loves you. I have a half-sister who's just about 5 foot - remarkably short, then - and who loves men who have hardly any self-esteem so that she can mold them into the men she wants them to be.

Weird. Maybe that's a thing many short girls do...
We've only seen pictures of eachother. The real problem here is that I don't trust her, I don't even think she's the 20-year old girl she told me she is -- I actually suspected she was a 14-year old boy from the language in her e-mails and of cause -- the fact that I see myself as an obese, semi-retarded loser without a college education. And I also fear that my immaturity, lack of social skills and the fact that I get easily irritated and angry will make me a monster. I've met and chatted with girls online before, but I always break it off because I don't want to go any further because I don't know what to do next -- I just want to have sex, not a friendship and I've read that a lot of women don't want just sex, they want real relationships.

You've admitted that you're paranoid and insecure. I don't want to scrutinize you too much but I think that means you should consider that this girl might be genuine. I'm not saying it's out of the realm of possibility that it's someone taking you for a ride, but nothing's certain here, is it?

You say you're immature, lack social skills, get easily angry and think that'll make you a monster, but don't worry. If this person is e-mailing you a lot they want to take all that on board, because they think you're worth it.

If this girl is genuine it could be that she knows you just want sex but she thinks she can change you, and maybe she can. If you met her in a public place in daytime, where people can see you, you could make sure she is a girl and not underage.

By the way, when I was about 13 my half-sister who's short would tell me all about her sexual encounters from sitting on a boy's lap in school and feeling something go bump underneath to a disgusting revelation that she had given someone oral sex (I felt sick at such a young age.)

For a period in her life, I think between late teenage years to mid-twenties, she rarely had a relationship that lasted long. She didn't just go out with really attractive or successful men, either. I'm almost certain she loved sex by the amount of times she enjoyed teasing me about it to embarrass me.

Thankfully "she" allegedly lives so far away from me that the chance of us ever meeting is minimal! I've decieded to finally break all contact with her because I don't ever want a relationship with a woman.

While I don't get sexually attracted to anyone, there are things which attract me different ways (romantically or 'wowthatlookslikeaniceperson'ally). For instance, I want to talk to people who have generally soft facial features as they look like nice people, as opposed to those with sharp facial features. Also, there's a girl in my class with really shiny hair and I just look at it when she's preoccupied with something else time to time. Also, sometimes if I know someone and they are really nice I feel an attraction towards them, but all I want to do is hug them. This is especially the case with timid people, probably as I feel less intimidated (And at this point in time I just noticed the link between 'intimidate' and 'timid')'. Maybe I just crave a second mother figure, I don't know, but I just wanna hug these people. Probably sounds crazy, but... If I'm not intimidated, I wanna hug you. Just to be nice.

And lonermutant, I'd never rule out a relationship with another person, while it can be dangerous to meet people from the net, im sure there's plenty of people in your neighbourhood who would like you.

This looks like flirtation to me!
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Captain Obvious

Around here, I'm the offical village moron!

When I can say of myself that I'm genuinely attracted to someone, it doesn't matter if the particular attraction is seen as weird.