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11 Oct 2012, 2:08 am

DerStadtschutz wrote:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rRvljxKthA[/youtube]


An insult is an insult regardless of the situation, don't go around insulting others members of WP. Not everyone will agree with you here and you need to get over that.

wtfid2, nit sure how you connect a verbal discussion with physical violence but you need to relax. You have every right to want to smack this fat kid but you can't expect positivity all the time.

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11 Oct 2012, 2:09 am

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rRvljxKthA[/youtube]


An insult is an insult regardless of the situation, don't go around insulting others members of WP. Not everyone will agree with you here and you need to get over that.

wtfid2, nit sure how you connect a verbal discussion with physical violence but you need to relax. You have every right to want to smack this fat kid but you can't expect positivity all the time.

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i lmao at this post lol.


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11 Oct 2012, 2:10 am

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it was always a joke to me, because you go and attack the one guy trying to be a positive influence onto you. The one person who tried to say "cheer up man, i used to be the ridicule of the internet and even i got a girlfriend. Just be cool and keep your eyes open". And what did you do? "blargh shes gotta be super ugly, i can get better girls than you and theyre still ugly. i desrve supermodels because im the man and everyone should know it". That is when i came at you. before that, i gave you advice. which you also ignored.


Not that it really matters, but it wasn't about me being the ridicule of the internet, but rather pointing out that I'm not the most attractive person in the world, and obviously somewhat eccentric and nerdy and not afraid to show that, yet I can still get a girlfriend and be happy.

I don't care if people ridicule me on the internet. I think it's funny, actually. All these people online, looking at my picture, making comments of "lol, obvious virgin" and similar things to make themselves feel better. They're the same ones who make a huge effort to let everybody know how much they get laid... which is why they're sitting on the internet, bragging about it. If they were actually getting laid, they'd just be out getting laid and not on the internet having to try to insult me or shout their sexual prowess to the world to feel better about themselves.
you are on here more often than you are out with your gf and you are bragging.

He f***ing lives with her, dude, they might as well be married. He gets p**** basically every night.
Didn't know they lived together. s**t just got real lmao.


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11 Oct 2012, 2:13 am

wtfid2 wrote:
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it was always a joke to me, because you go and attack the one guy trying to be a positive influence onto you. The one person who tried to say "cheer up man, i used to be the ridicule of the internet and even i got a girlfriend. Just be cool and keep your eyes open". And what did you do? "blargh shes gotta be super ugly, i can get better girls than you and theyre still ugly. i desrve supermodels because im the man and everyone should know it". That is when i came at you. before that, i gave you advice. which you also ignored.


Not that it really matters, but it wasn't about me being the ridicule of the internet, but rather pointing out that I'm not the most attractive person in the world, and obviously somewhat eccentric and nerdy and not afraid to show that, yet I can still get a girlfriend and be happy.

I don't care if people ridicule me on the internet. I think it's funny, actually. All these people online, looking at my picture, making comments of "lol, obvious virgin" and similar things to make themselves feel better. They're the same ones who make a huge effort to let everybody know how much they get laid... which is why they're sitting on the internet, bragging about it. If they were actually getting laid, they'd just be out getting laid and not on the internet having to try to insult me or shout their sexual prowess to the world to feel better about themselves.
you are on here more often than you are out with your gf and you are bragging.


I was never bragging, you idiot, I tried to help you. How f*****g stupid are you? You're the one who made a thread pissing and moaning about how you can't get laid, so f**k off. Either do something about it like learning not to be such an a**hole to everyone you meet, including those who try to help you, or piss off.

Also, that's funny, because until maybe 3 weeks ago, I hadn't even posted here in like months. But I guess that's hard to see when you have your head so far up your ass that you can lick your own eyeballs.



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11 Oct 2012, 2:14 am

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11 Oct 2012, 2:14 am

Wolfheart wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rRvljxKthA[/youtube]


An insult is an insult regardless of the situation, don't go around insulting others members of WP. Not everyone will agree with you here and you need to get over that.

wtfid2, nit sure how you connect a verbal discussion with physical violence but you need to relax. You have every right to want to smack this fat kid but you can't expect positivity all the time.

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props on meeting girls in hotels man. I stayed at a hotel last month. just to have a little break from life..and heard a couple having sex..felt jelly.


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11 Oct 2012, 2:15 am

DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
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it was always a joke to me, because you go and attack the one guy trying to be a positive influence onto you. The one person who tried to say "cheer up man, i used to be the ridicule of the internet and even i got a girlfriend. Just be cool and keep your eyes open". And what did you do? "blargh shes gotta be super ugly, i can get better girls than you and theyre still ugly. i desrve supermodels because im the man and everyone should know it". That is when i came at you. before that, i gave you advice. which you also ignored.


Not that it really matters, but it wasn't about me being the ridicule of the internet, but rather pointing out that I'm not the most attractive person in the world, and obviously somewhat eccentric and nerdy and not afraid to show that, yet I can still get a girlfriend and be happy.

I don't care if people ridicule me on the internet. I think it's funny, actually. All these people online, looking at my picture, making comments of "lol, obvious virgin" and similar things to make themselves feel better. They're the same ones who make a huge effort to let everybody know how much they get laid... which is why they're sitting on the internet, bragging about it. If they were actually getting laid, they'd just be out getting laid and not on the internet having to try to insult me or shout their sexual prowess to the world to feel better about themselves.
you are on here more often than you are out with your gf and you are bragging.


I was never bragging, you idiot, I tried to help you. How f***ing stupid are you? You're the one who made a thread pissing and moaning about how you can't get laid, so f**k off.

Also, that's funny, because until a few days ago to like a week tops, I hadn't even posted here in like months. But I guess that's hard to see when you have your head up your ass.
the thread was about a weird girl.


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11 Oct 2012, 2:21 am

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11 Oct 2012, 2:24 am

In all seriousness, though, one of the problems in autism is how you perceive yourself, vs how others perceive you. This I think is something you should seriously look into wtfid, as you can see, you've got about 20 pages of people calling you an idiot, there may be something warranting this. This was one of my biggest problems in ASD. I believed I was socially fine, I believed I was good at reading social cues, believed all these things, and then found out I wasn't good at them. I denied my DX for 2 years. Eventually, though, I realized just because I believed something didn't make it true. I don't know if 20 pages of flaming on a random internet forum is enough for some introspection, but, you should possibly take some of these things said to you to heart. From what it seems, you may be even more severely autistic than many people on this board, and just not know it. Basically, it's the definition of ASD, your self perception vs how others perceive you. You have Aspergers when you cannot grasp how others perceive you, which I think is severely seen in your threads.



BTW, for 99% of people, if they're healthy, they'll also look good. It's irrelevant whether my friend is male underwear model potential, because he's not realizing it. It's the same with girls. Most fat girls once they diet look wonderful and are pretty, but in fat form look ugly (though there is a middle line where a girl is "thick" and I do quite like that.)



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11 Oct 2012, 2:24 am

MXH wrote:
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happy couple trumps wanna be playa every day of the week


Not necessarily, it depends on what the person is seeking. A happy couple is only happy because you define it to be right due to your Western social conditioning and that monogamy is the only way to live a fulfilling love life. Monogamy and possession isn't something that is for everyone, happiness is subjective, some people prefer not to get attached.


then they are happy with what they've got going on
pretty much anything is better than being a bitter competitive douche

I don't have any issue with non-monogamy...but if it's just status seeking with the bro's, yeah imo, kinda pathetic

people who are happy/content with their relationship situation > people who are miserable trying to prove how cool they are

which is how ive always been, but got tired of a certain "bro"s words and decided to put him in his place. and i did a good job.


Not exactly, I've been busy with working, studying and training. I have been dating women and even meeting in hotel rooms as my methods have been proven and efficient for males on the spectrum whereas you have been squabbling over crumbs and bragging about a pity shag you got from a certain blonde bird or so i've been told.

I completely stand by the advice i've given in previous threads and positive contributions I've made to this forum. On the other hand, all you do us complain and whine on and on with negative assumptions. I don't know what you intend to achieve with your negative claims but you definitely need to think how you are contributing towards the forum. Just think about it.


i wasnt talking about you, it was taken at wtfid2 and his talk of bb.com misc. but if you have that dirty a conscience that you thought i went at you then i can try if it pleases you.

If i recall correctly, thats called a demonstration of higher value (dhv). Its a way to try and make yourself look better than me by making big claims about yourself and to hopefully reject me as a potential opposition. But lets dig deeper. for starters, I dont squabble for crumbs. Because that would involve me going after something. im sure if i had my life in order that i could get girls left and right. hell, ive never actually messaged a single woman in a dating site or even done anything close to leading them on. Yet i get messages out of the blue, without even having anything written on my profile but 2 pictures of me. But my life isnt in order, so i dont go after them. Also, who told you it was a pity f**k? it, again, sounds like a way of making it sound meaningless. Certain blond bird can speak for herself you know. And considering we met on this very forum, im sure she could have a word about it.

Positive contributions like decieving members into following something they wouldnt if they knew what it was. Positive contributions like stroking your ego more than you stroke your dick (like in this post for example, or the chat logs of girls flirting). Lets be honest, to someone whos not talked to a woman it seems impressive. To anyone else its obviously stupid. You hide behind blurry pictures in black and white to appear better looking. You pretend to be a master of the dating game. Yet everything youve done ive already explained in laymans terms.


I'm sure she can but you've been badging on about it, otherwise me and most of the forum wouldn't know about it, pity shag or not, where you do your ploughing is not my concern. My concern is that you keep challenging other members like some humble spirit when you've been shagging a blonde bird and coming on here to brag, why don't you just make a porn, don't you think that's hypocritical?

I've never claimed to be a dating expert, my threads stated the purpose of what they were aimed at and of you looked at them in a positive mindset, you would see they are positive contributions.



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11 Oct 2012, 2:29 am

wtfid2 wrote:
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DerStadtschutz wrote:
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it was always a joke to me, because you go and attack the one guy trying to be a positive influence onto you. The one person who tried to say "cheer up man, i used to be the ridicule of the internet and even i got a girlfriend. Just be cool and keep your eyes open". And what did you do? "blargh shes gotta be super ugly, i can get better girls than you and theyre still ugly. i desrve supermodels because im the man and everyone should know it". That is when i came at you. before that, i gave you advice. which you also ignored.


Not that it really matters, but it wasn't about me being the ridicule of the internet, but rather pointing out that I'm not the most attractive person in the world, and obviously somewhat eccentric and nerdy and not afraid to show that, yet I can still get a girlfriend and be happy.

I don't care if people ridicule me on the internet. I think it's funny, actually. All these people online, looking at my picture, making comments of "lol, obvious virgin" and similar things to make themselves feel better. They're the same ones who make a huge effort to let everybody know how much they get laid... which is why they're sitting on the internet, bragging about it. If they were actually getting laid, they'd just be out getting laid and not on the internet having to try to insult me or shout their sexual prowess to the world to feel better about themselves.
you are on here more often than you are out with your gf and you are bragging.


I was never bragging, you idiot, I tried to help you. How f***ing stupid are you? You're the one who made a thread pissing and moaning about how you can't get laid, so f**k off.

Also, that's funny, because until a few days ago to like a week tops, I hadn't even posted here in like months. But I guess that's hard to see when you have your head up your ass.
the thread was about a weird girl.


...It also involved you lamenting over the fact that you can't get a girlfriend, a kiss, or sex. I tried to help you by telling you that for a real connection, for a kiss or sex worth even having, you need to look deeper than the surface, which you apparently can't comprehend for some reason.

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^^^ I always liked that video. In the early Flash animation days, this was amazing technical work!



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11 Oct 2012, 2:31 am

DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
DerStadtschutz wrote:
MXH wrote:

it was always a joke to me, because you go and attack the one guy trying to be a positive influence onto you. The one person who tried to say "cheer up man, i used to be the ridicule of the internet and even i got a girlfriend. Just be cool and keep your eyes open". And what did you do? "blargh shes gotta be super ugly, i can get better girls than you and theyre still ugly. i desrve supermodels because im the man and everyone should know it". That is when i came at you. before that, i gave you advice. which you also ignored.


Not that it really matters, but it wasn't about me being the ridicule of the internet, but rather pointing out that I'm not the most attractive person in the world, and obviously somewhat eccentric and nerdy and not afraid to show that, yet I can still get a girlfriend and be happy.

I don't care if people ridicule me on the internet. I think it's funny, actually. All these people online, looking at my picture, making comments of "lol, obvious virgin" and similar things to make themselves feel better. They're the same ones who make a huge effort to let everybody know how much they get laid... which is why they're sitting on the internet, bragging about it. If they were actually getting laid, they'd just be out getting laid and not on the internet having to try to insult me or shout their sexual prowess to the world to feel better about themselves.
you are on here more often than you are out with your gf and you are bragging.


I was never bragging, you idiot, I tried to help you. How f***ing stupid are you? You're the one who made a thread pissing and moaning about how you can't get laid, so f**k off.

Also, that's funny, because until a few days ago to like a week tops, I hadn't even posted here in like months. But I guess that's hard to see when you have your head up your ass.
the thread was about a weird girl.


...It also involved you lamenting over the fact that you can't get a girlfriend, a kiss, or sex. I tried to help you by telling you that for a real connection, for a kiss or sex worth even having, you need to look deeper than the surface, which you apparently can't comprehend.

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I have already apologized idk whats else you want from me


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11 Oct 2012, 2:33 am

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I'm sure she can but you've been badging on about it, otherwise me and most of the forum wouldn't know about it, pity shag or not, where you do your ploughing is not my concern. My concern is that you keep challenging other members like some humble spirit when you've been shagging a blonde bird and coming on here to brag, why don't you just make a porn, don't you think that's hypocritical?

I've never claimed to be a dating expert, my threads stated the purpose of what they were aimed at and of you looked at them in a positive mindset, you would see they are positive contributions.


Considering this is the only thread where i have openly admitted to sleeping with her (I even recall us not being upfront about it to boo when he called us out on it). And Also when you say "where you do your ploughing is not my concern." yet the previous post of yours started with "sorry ive been to busy f*****g every girl that walked by me" id say you're just a hypocrite. Looking for whichever way goes best for you. And ive never claimed to be a "humble spirit". I do however claim to dig up BS. And sonny, theres a lot of cows on your field.

No? never claimed to be a dating expert? Not even with bets on how you could make anyone get a date, or used to make 2 threads a week until i called you out on your BS? Your threads where nothing more than a way to gather a band of followers and spread your ego. You have no idea how many PMs I got that week of people thanking me for putting you in your deserved place.



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11 Oct 2012, 2:44 am

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I have already apologized idk whats else you want from me


You did? I missed it then. The only thing I saw out of you since I posted pictures of me and my amazing loving big beautiful fiance were comments about us being fat. But then again, I've also been posting mostly nonsense since shortly after that, so it's not surprising if I missed it.

I don't want anything from you other than to realize the very thing I've been trying to tell you all along; that you might get what you want if you don't try to be such a dick about everything, and that real beauty goes much deeper than skin; That you are most likely losing out on many opportunities to meet and fall in love with some AMAZING people who would make you feel like you're on top of the world; People who would love you for YOU, and not run out on you the second you lose some muscle or get a grey hair or start going bald, or WHATEVER; People who would do anything for you and would always be there for you.

That can't happen if you don't even give them a chance. I'm not saying you should go and try to date someone you find downright repulsive, but you need to reorder your priorities, or you're only going to get people who are shallow like you. And those people would most likely leave you for some stupid reason, leaving you heartbroken and feeling worthless. I'm trying to help you prevent that.