Feeling ugly, flat chested and that I'm not good enough

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Then you are watching the wrong stuff.
Ask men why pornos show guys with large penises?
Guys worry about that,more than you think.
And they are not mosquito bites,they are breasts.
Lots of dirty movies with small breasted women.
Maybe watch some,see that men like small breasts.They do,really.
Any more advice and I start charging for it.

Dude, your comments are just confirming to me that you have a serious body image issue

Go get help

I don't know what else we can say

Again I ask you... if you had a breast enlargement procedure now and your BF looked at a woman with blimp-sized boobs would you feel inadequate still?

You know the answer is yes. Why? The problem isn't your breasts. Its in your mind. Body dismorphia is precisely what you need help with and please please do visit that university psychologist. They will help you.

I think you're aware that your current relationship with this guy will not survive this. It feeds your negativity and you focus it inward to the only visible thing you can blame. The solution is not surgery... even after it you will still find yourself insufficient. Guys will not look at you any different UNLESS you decide to walk around with half your tits exposed ...and then they will only leer at your boobs and not at YOU. Is that what you want? Do you want to have big breasts so your BF can show off that which he taps? Is that really the kind of guy you want to be with? A guy that thinks of your boobs more than you?

C'mon now. You have the looks: The eyes, the face, the smile, the thin body, the amazing legs, an amazing waist and hair. Your breasts are in harmony with your frame and they WILL get a bit bigger after your first child (which could be less than 6 or 8 years away for you).

I don't want children. Thanks though, I guess.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZA0EGZMLSIM[/youtube]

I don't want KKK breasts (haha sucky cup size name). I just want decent ones. Cs or Ds.

At the risk of coming across as creepy.. I looked at your photo and I think you're very attractive exactly the way you are. For me, breast size doesn't matter so long as they are attached to some one I get along with and care about.

For instance, small breasts can get breast cancer just as easy as large ones, but had my Ex (Who had breasts probably about the same size as yours) been diagnosed with breast cancer and had to have them removed.. making her as flat chested as me.. and likely even without nipples.. I'd have STILL loved her because her breasts didn't define her. Her beauty was pre-destined to be fleeting.. I was in love with Her Personality and her sense of humour and her intellegence and her Smile.

Yes, society tells you that you should have breasts of a certain size.. But they aren't content with that either.. they better be perky too without a hint of gravity working on them or they still aren't happy... what you need to do is find some one who appreciates you for you.. rather than just a part of you.

My boyfriend DOES appreciate and love me for me. I don't though. I just wish my breasts were two cup sizes bigger. That way I wouldn't feel so small. Everything for men I've seen has women with good boobs, not tiny ones. :/ My boyfriend actually tried to discourage me from getting them fixed because he says I'll just get back problems.

Well in that case I'm not sure what to offer you..

You should start a blog or an online journal given you seemingly don't want advice you just want to be indulged. Reading this whole thread you're coming across as incredibly self obsessed and that's more of a turn off than small breasts would ever be!

Seriously. Do you realise going on and on about how small breasts are so undesirable your indirectly insulting everyone here with small breasts? And how about people that need surgery just to get two normal looking breasts, because they had a mastectomy or other...you should really be grateful for what you DO have and stop whining about pathetic, insignificant things. If it IS more significant, then you should get psychological help, because there really might be a deeper issue here. But if you're not willing to do that either well then.....I feel sorry for your bf, I really do.

edit: and for the record D cups on your frame would look ridiculous. You wouldn't even be able to find tops to fit you properly, on account of your protruding chest. And then you'd probably find that [some] guys ONLY giving you attention because of your breasts, and treating you like a sex object, and nothing else. And what's the bet you'd be back here whinging about that too.

I bet you this: even if you HAD breast implants to get bigger breasts, you'd end up finding something else that you feel insecure about... and then do surgery on it as well. It's an on-going cycle of this crap, from what I've seen and heard.

This thread kind of reminds me of the Rivalry between Etna and Morrigan! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRdGH6MvEVQ[/youtube]On the vid skip to 6:00 hehe. Etna very short tempered with a flat chest complex!

If you see the full episode, her problem is addiction and never being satisfied with her body... she started out like you - just wanting a little - then went under the knife over and over and over. Now she's grotesque and still can't get enough... it's never enough.

Quite honesty, I'm starting to feel sorry for the BF for having to put up with all these "issues". Emotionally high maintenance much? Your BF is probably already starting to get sick of it.

Dont do anything involving cosmetic surgery.

Local dentists are running out of work because people dont want to make any investement on long-term treatments because they are too expensive.

Quite a lot of this dentists are also doctors(dentistry was only something you could study after you were done with a medicine degree until about 20 years ago here) so they are looking at other jobs they can do.

The preferred method is to do slight cosmetic surgery(after getting a new insurance that covers that in case anything goes badly).
Why?

They can give out a first treatment for free and over 70% of the patients will come back for a refill(what they do doesnt last long) and most likely a new treatment for another part of them that just doesnt look right.

If you wanna go down that road be my guest but the long-term damage this patients are doing to their skin is quite big and boob jobs are no difference on this aspects(most patients then need further treatments to be ok with their image and the long term damage is huge)

It is not.

Unless she's lying about her age ;p.