Why do you think a relationship will make you happy?

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Endorphines Wooooo!

Also, this woman draws the most adorable comics about her relationship. Who doesn't want that.

https://www.instagram.com/catanacomics/?hl=en

I think that's cute as hell and everyone should want that lol.

I got some endorphins today. My date went very well. I've never had a girl get that cuddly on a first date before.

Lies.

I bet she didn't wear any pajamas or anything else 'then'.

I think stuff like this is really childish, in the same way I think anime is childish.
This is not how relationships work in real life.

Excellent work, Retro! Keep it up.

How is that not a clip of how relationships work irl? Functioning ones not built on shake grounds and ruless commonly used today.

Then why does the artist get so many comments on her Instagram from people saying. 'Awh man this is us!' Got a friend who loves these cartoons because she totally relates. Seriously got to the Instagram and read the comments.

Question. Do you not like this sort of thing and this is what your girlfriends actually wanted?

Do you hate women claiming your hoodies?

Last edited by hurtloam on 12 Aug 2017, 12:36 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Maybe she is into cross-dressing.

I checked out the instagram, and it is filled to the brim with this kind of "unconditional love" crap, which again, does not reflect how reality works. It's no wonder hurtloam that you crave a relationship so much, if this is the kind of stuff you read. Some of us just know too much about how relationships work to believe in fairy tales.

Answer: Well, It's never bothered me or anything, but I don't find it particularily romantic when a girl steals my clothes either. As for what they wanted, they wanted me to make more money to be completely honest with you.

Seriously not a big deal.

Ah see now you've been with the wrong kind of women then. My friend that relates to these comics isn't at all materialistic. I've known her most of my life. She's more the outdoors type and she and her husband enjoy talking about interesting things and visiting interesting places.

There's the mundane everydayness to relationships too. I know it's not all like this every day, but I'm not ever going to be the pressuring someone to be a person they are not type of girlfriend, so won't have the same problems you did.

My cousin did a sweet thing for his girlfriend the other day and she posted it on facebook. My friend that I actually fancied a few years back, but who married someone else does post cute things on Instagram about their little outings too. I've got another couple of friends who post their outings as well. He does a menial job and she does odd jobs here and there and they are very happy. Some men are romantic and some women like that. Some women are not materialistic and as a couple she and her husband achieve a comfortable level of togetherness.

Relationships aren't all fighting and people telling each other they're not good enough.

Oh I'm at peace with people, just waiting to figure out how we all pulled that off.

Another person cannot make us happy. Being in a relationship can be nice but ultimately happiness is something we have to achieve on our own. If you have a void inside your soul, another person is not going to fill it. One must find a way to fill the void........

I refuse to believe this. And the main reason why is myself. I think something we need to consider is to not put ourselves in the same box with others. I read a post about a woman who was autistic and juse being in the same room as her other not touching or talking to each other was fulfilling to her. Think about how others would view that, just sitting in a chair across the room from her other is enough for her. Most people say that's wierd that's not fulfilling at all. But the funny part is for me and a few others I know that's amazing, it actually feels good can't explain why but it does.

When you consider how our minds work it's not too far off to see an actual relationship with someone MIGHT fill the void for us.

I don't think that any one thing has the power to make us completely happy. The nature of life is that it's made up of millions of tiny moments and interactions. All of those things make up our life and cause us to feel all sorts of emotions, but I think that a relationship adds another dimension to life otherwise why would people bother.