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29/M/UK

Hi,


I am based in Birmingham, but am pretty happy to travel around the UK for hanging out with anyone who wants to hang out. No need to think of this strictly as a 'dating' thing. More of a "interested to meet, nice people, try have some fun and maybe build a lasting friendship" sort of thing

My age is indeed 29 but I feel psychologically, that I never progressed in age & mentality. I never learnt anything during schooling. I used to feel ahead of the pack when I was a kid, then I fell behind socially and eventually academically too as everyone else had the ability to learn new things. I sort of always knew what I knew. I am still that way now. On some topics I can put university professors to shame, in other areas I would struggle with a school level exam. So basically, I genuinely feel about 15 tops.
I am not like your stereotypical person on the AS. In that I have always had a problem with way too many passions and interests! I am overwhelmed by them all and struggle with focus, direction and productivity. These days I am sticking to trying to narrow myself down to my humble interest of music, playing, writing and developing by musicianship. I have a disorder which means I find it extremely difficult to read, I am working hard on this at the moment as books defined me up the age of about 11 and I am a bit lost without them!
I am also exploring employment options while juggling demands of being a carer.

As I have already expressed, I have more deep passionate interests than I can handle, but one thing I spend a lot of time thinking about is theology/spirituality,ancient civilisations,ancient technology,ethics,philosophy etc.. as I cannot read or concentrate very well, I tend to have to extrapolate bite size pieces of information. Religion wise, I get on well with and respect all those who have had a think about things and can consider/respect other points of view. I certainly do, I always listen carefully to even the most polar opposite viewpoints and find some common ground. I guess I am technically an agnostic, but have a strong interest in abrahamic scripture and other clues from both human behavior, the natural world/science, and ancient civilisations. I would not rule out becoming a full on the-ist one day and following rites of relevant scripture. But am happy to partner up with other agnostics, christians, muslims etc..

I guess I have a fairly athletic build and of indian-ish descent, I like physical pursuits (but was never naturally great at them!), the outdoors, craft, design, making etc..

I am fairly good at cooking very much like to eat and am interested in other cultures, and am also seeking opportunities to travel. So seriously, even if you are in another country. Feel free to talk, you never know I may visit!

I'm Sasha, I'm 23, live in Upstate New York (near Canada) but I'm currently staying in northern New Jersey while I job hunt in New York City. I'll be in general moving closer to the city. To put it nicely, I'm a metrosexual redneck. I hope to one day be elected to public office.

I don't spend a lot of time on here as I try to pursue relationships (in addition to dating, I also mean friendships) and social events.

In my spare time, I watch old TV shows, have a deep interest in politics (I'm a Bernie Sanders type liberal, maybe a smidge more to the right of him), history, computers, transportation, I love to travel (and you better as well, because if we end up together I WILL be dragging you to places I like). I'd love to date someone who could broaden my own interests.

I'm looking for someone who is about my age (the 18-23 age bracket, as long as you're not wildly older than me), a girl (of course) who has deep passions in interests, comes off as neurotypical (or is an abnormal neurotypical), loves kids (and could see herself a few years down the road a mother, and yes, not liking kids IS a dealbreaker), appreciates strange culture, is close with her family and enjoys cuddling. I could do a long distance relationship: trying to travel to see a partner would be a major incentive motivator for me.

I don't smoke, drink, do kegstands or engage in casual sex. A desire for casual sex is a dealbreaker. I can deal with someone who drinks, but please, no partying.

One thing I don't give a darn about is body type. As long as you take care of yourself that's all that mattters. I've met some somewhat overweight girls who were gorgeous as anything.

Best way to contact me? Feel free to stalk my Facebook profile, Twitter page, etc. Don't be afraid to ask questions!

1) You're wicked pretty, if your profile pic doesn't lie!
2) I like feminists. If the evangelical Christian community had feminists, my mom would be one of them (West Coast calling cosmopolitan New York!)

Name: Alan
Sex: Male (Straight)
Age: 33 years (Chronologically)
Location: Newport, South Wales, UK
Physical: 6'3". Overweight (previously obese and aiming for "normal")
Education: Psychology BSc and MSc
Occupation: Statistician
Religion: None (often known as Atheist)
Other info: Non-smoker, rarely drink alcohol, never used illegal drugs. Worst drug I do is caffeine.
Looking for: Women in my area

Name: Tim
Sex: Male (Straight)
Age: 21 years
Location: Near Buffalo NY
Physical: 5'11". (Slim to average)
Education: Finishing up to get my High School diploma (Local)
Religion: Catholic
Other info: I don't smoke, I don't drink alcohol, never used illegal drugs.
Looking for: Women (in her 20s) around my area who will give me a chance and hopefully starts dating and move on from there, possibly even a relationship.

Private Message me if any of u lonely girls want to contact me

Here is one of my Facebook pics from this past week

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid ... =1&theater

Name: (message me)
Sex: Male (hetero)
Age: 20
Location: Cambria, San Luis Obispo county, CA (bout half-way between LA and San Francisco)
Physical: Around 5'6-'8 (Flabby but not fat, with broad shoulders, and a broad chest)
Education: Currently stuck in Community College trying to earn a GED before attempting to earn a doctorate in History
Religion: I worship (or praise would be a better word) a gigantic feathered serpent named Quetzalcoatl.
Other info: I don't smoke tobacco, but I don't mind tobacco smokers. I use Marijauna and have a medical card. I'm open to experiment only with certain hallucinogens. I'm a frequent gamer in my down-time, currently I'm looking for a companion to play with on the Rust alpha, and a future adventurer on the Elder Scrolls Online.
Looking for: Women, age 18-22, form anywhere, who I can game with, get high with, hang out with, share love with, and just have fun with. I mainly want someone who I wont only have to call my girlfriend but also my best friend.
P.S.: I'm ok with people messaging me if they want to be just friends.

Openly gay, openly autistic, fat as f**k

Small talk is for small minds. Go "hi" yourself. My eyes and cock are attracted to younger fit guys. But my brain is the "éminence grise" when it comes to more.

meh why not

name: pm me if you want to know
Sex: Male (Straight)
Age: almost 26
Location: lane county, oregon
Physical: 6'3" extra pounds
Education: AAS degree
Religion: christian
Other info: silly playful, kind, respectful, loves to hug and cuddle., seeking woman near my age who is also silly and into scifi

Step Into My Office

Name: Shade
Sex: Duh
Age: Mid 20s
Location: West Michigan
Physical: 6'0" Athletic/Average (Can dunk a basketball)
Education: Graduating with Degree in Arts
Religion: Christ Follower
Sign: Scorpio
Other: Love Anime and Video Games, movies, drawing, intelligent, passionate, high sex drive, female feet lover, funny, don't mind cuddling, hate politics, hate bad attitudes.

Looking For: Women 18-35 (will go older it depends).
Better yet message me for greater details! :]

This version has been horizontally reversed to remove mirroring; you're seeing me as I actually am.

Dear Ms Right

I would like to be considered for the role of "Boyfriend to sweet-natured AS woman seeking true love" (East Anglia, Temp-Perm) advertised on Wrong Planet some time around now.

A straight, single, atheistic man in my late 40s, looking and feeling somewhat younger, physically nearly fit and (via diet, exercise and gym) getting fitter all the time, living in Suffolk and owning my own car and cat, I can offer any suitable AS woman aged around 25-55 my companionship, adoration and loyalty in return for the same.

Having been single almost for my entire life, through no choice of my own, I have a lot of pent up affection, adoration, compassion and emotion to give to somebody who truly appreciates it and will give me theirs in return. I do not expect to make love every night, but would find it hard to do without a daily measure of physical affection such as cuddles, kissing and especially hand-holding, the latter regardless of where we are at the time.

In regards to your needs, I am sure that as an Aspie like me, you will be willing to gently teach and remind me of those that are not logically obvious to me but that are important to you; I will go to the ends of the earth to do the right thing for you if I know that you need it, but while I am very good at building on knowledge that I already have, I am slow to learn things that are not mathematically precise and need to be able to build them into my internal model of the universe or, in the short term, learn them by rote pending a true understanding. I fully understand that I will sometimes need to do the same for you.

You did not specify our shared hobbies and interests, so here are some of mine. I love to walk; sometimes for health and fitness, sometimes to be alone and think; sometimes for the sheer enjoyment of the scenery. I love to stare at the sky and stars, sometimes through my telescope or binoculars at the astronomy club's dark sky site, sometimes with my eyes alone wherever I may be. I occasionally take photographs of landscapes, particularly of sunrise, sunset or moonlight, or of interesting and unusual sights encountered from time to time. I enjoy demonstrating or talking about my hobbies and interests to suitable audiences, including the general public when the opportunity arises.

Whatever I do for pleasure, I miss having somebody to talk to and share the enjoyment with and am applying for this job because I believe that (pleasure shared = pleasure squared). You wont find that equation in any book of algebra, but it will be written into the Big Book of Life.

Since we are both nice people, it is likely that whatever we believe, we do so for reasons that at, least to begin with, seem rational to us; I feel sure that we can learn to respect each other's points of view, provided that they are not inherently destructive, without necessarily have to agree with them and will work together to put our relationship first and civilly negotiate around any unexpected differences of opinion.

We are probably the girlfriend and boyfriend who should have already met in Real Life but who, primarily due to the effects of AS, rarely found themselves in social situations or jobs where they would encounter one another. Neither of us likes serial dating, excess drinking, illegal drugs, smoking, manipulative behaviour, emotional abuse or deceit, but prefers instead to share a clean life with the one person who can make us truly happy.

When considering my application, please refer to the supporting content on WrongPlanet referenced in my signature; I hope that the information provided is of sufficient interest for you to contact me by PM to get to know me and, if appropriate, arrange a first meeting on neutral territory of your choosing; I look forward to hearing from you very soon.

Yours sincerely,

I Know Who I Am Now.
I am your One True Love.

Further information (for example URLs to my Facebook, Twitter, Flickr and Personal Website) can be provided on request to genuine respondents who wish to check me out; employers do that all the time, so I will understand if you wish to.

This thread is autistic. Seems like we're pissing in the wind.

I wanna say to all the ladies and gents on here, I feel your pain.

Name: (Don't give my name to the public)
Sex: Male (Straight)
Age: 18 years old
Location: North Carolina
Physical: 5'6, slim and slender
Education: Just graduated last June
Occupation: Yes, I got a job
Religion: Agnostic
Other info: Not a huge fan of drinking, I don't smoke and don't do drugs.
Looking for: Women to talk to, gain a friendship or relationship.

What do I got to lose by posting this?

I'm 36 years old, turning 37 in Oct., and I was born in Michigan until I was 9 when my family moved to California. When I was 20/21 I was diagnosed as high functioning. When I'm not on my computer or playing games I like to write where I work on one of my many stories. I also like to read sci-fi and fantasy books and work on jigsaw puzzles. I also love to watch anime and read manga.
I'll be frank and admit that I find myself attracted to asian women, namely Japanese, and it has nothing with the stereotypical stuff. I just find myself attracted to them as well as blue-eyed brunettes and redheads. Attraction aside I'm looking for some one with a good heart as in being kind, caring, respectful, and faithful. I'm hoping to find some one close to my age who'll nudge me when I need it because my procrastination can get to be pretty bad.
I'm 5' 11" and have a body that is, I would say, between thin and chubby. My name is Shane and if you want to see a picture of me I have a Facebook page, but the picture was taken when I was 29 and visiting my older brother in Indiana.

Hi my name is Cillian, I'm a 21 yo Irish aspie. Only found out a week ago that I have as, and my ex dumped me as a result.

Right now I'm getting ready to go back to school and get my life on track. My interests include music, video games, sports and reading. I'm looking for a fellow aspie in Dublin to hang out with and see where it goes. I'm shy-ish but once I'm out of my shell I'm very talkitive.

Despite being dumped I'm happy atm, nothings been going right lately and I want to meet someone with similar interests and looking for something serious. I'm 5'11 well built, won't lie got a bit of weight on me but its not gonna be there long as I've started looking after myself again.

Anyway if any aspie women are interested in having a chat and maybe going for a drink don't hesitate to drop a line.

Peace and love.

Name: ask if you want to know
Sex: male ( bi but more like sapiosexuality)
I live in park city, utah where i work at a great restaurant where i'm trying to become a chef.
I am in decent shape, 6'3 brown hair blue eyes. I love to long board and snowboarding.
I got my GED didn't graduate from high school because of the social stigmas.
religion is a tough one since we can never really know what is real and what is not. I guess i follow Buddhism since it gives a good life path to follow. To each there own though.
Random info about me, I was introduced to computers at a early age so i'm kinda a addict to it. i love what technology does for us and what it will do for us in the near future. anime, video games, reading, listening to music, and i guess anything i do to learn more about the world around us.
I'm not sure what i'm looking for that has always eluded me. I do know i will know it when i see it that is how its always been not sure why but I can tell what i want/ people i like or anything on that subject just by talking to the person or doing the activity for just a couple of minutes. But what i want is lost to me it just shows it self to me eventually.
Who am i? i would say i am a kind person through and through the person who is always there for my friends, the person who is always the the bigger person i try my best to be a good person to every one not just the people who deserve it but to the people who don't because they need it the most. I try to make people have a better day then what they started with. I was diagnosed with aspergers when i was 8 and have had to deal with it all my life it has its ups and downs but one thing we have to remember is that having a good day is a matter of choice and if you say its a good day it is.

IKnowWhoIAmNow, your "application" to be Ms Right's boyfriend was really sweet and touching. Awwwwwwwww!

Did anything ever come of it?