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11 Oct 2012, 2:50 am

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I'm sure she can but you've been badging on about it, otherwise me and most of the forum wouldn't know about it, pity shag or not, where you do your ploughing is not my concern. My concern is that you keep challenging other members like some humble spirit when you've been shagging a blonde bird and coming on here to brag, why don't you just make a porn, don't you think that's hypocritical?

I've never claimed to be a dating expert, my threads stated the purpose of what they were aimed at and of you looked at them in a positive mindset, you would see they are positive contributions.


Considering this is the only thread where i have openly admitted to sleeping with her (I even recall us not being upfront about it to boo when he called us out on it). And Also when you say "where you do your ploughing is not my concern." yet the previous post of yours started with "sorry ive been to busy f***ing every girl that walked by me" id say you're just a hypocrite. Looking for whichever way goes best for you. And ive never claimed to be a "humble spirit". I do however claim to dig up BS. And sonny, theres a lot of cows on your field.

No? never claimed to be a dating expert? Not even with bets on how you could make anyone get a date, or used to make 2 threads a week until i called you out on your BS? Your threads where nothing more than a way to gather a band of followers and spread your ego. You have no idea how many PMs I got that week of people thanking me for putting you in your deserved place.


Funny that, the threads haven't stopped at all, my threads are still in the essential love and dating thread and still have been used by a few members to a positive extent. I don't know what living situation is but I've been too busy doing positive things unlike you, sitting behind a screen with your negativity. I have no doubt that there are many people that want to have a pity party with you but try doing something positive for once.

I've never created a thread that didn't reap reward, just so you know, i've been busy pricing what I preach unlike you and I've never denies that dating sites are a numbers and presentation game, I just gave people a way to each those numbers instead of playing the while man of justice and morality act like you.



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11 Oct 2012, 2:55 am

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^^^ I always liked that video. In the early Flash animation days, this was amazing technical work!


I know, right? The song's kinda catchy, too.



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11 Oct 2012, 2:55 am

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I have already apologized idk whats else you want from me


You did? I missed it then. The only thing I saw out of you since I posted pictures of me and my amazing loving big beautiful fiance were comments about us being fat. But then again, I've also been posting mostly nonsense since shortly after that, so it's not surprising if I missed it.

I don't want anything from you other than to realize the very thing I've been trying to tell you all along; that you might get what you want if you don't try to be such a dick about everything, and that real beauty goes much deeper than skin; That you are most likely losing out on many opportunities to meet and fall in love with some AMAZING people who would make you feel like you're on top of the world; People who would love you for YOU, and not run out on you the second you lose some muscle or get a grey hair or start going bald, or WHATEVER; People who would do anything for you and would always be there for you.

That can't happen if you don't even give them a chance. I'm not saying you should go and try to date someone you find downright repulsive, but you need to reorder your priorities, or you're only going to get people who are shallow like you. And those people would most likely leave you for some stupid reason, leaving you heartbroken and feeling worthless. I'm trying to help you prevent that.
I was willing to give the girls that i met on pof in real life a chance and one of them was LARGe but thy werent interested. There was some attraction There though. A lot of girls that message me are astoundingly unattractive.


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11 Oct 2012, 2:56 am

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I have already apologized idk whats else you want from me


You did? I missed it then. The only thing I saw out of you since I posted pictures of me and my amazing loving big beautiful fiance were comments about us being fat. But then again, I've also been posting mostly nonsense since shortly after that, so it's not surprising if I missed it.

I don't want anything from you other than to realize the very thing I've been trying to tell you all along; that you might get what you want if you don't try to be such a dick about everything, and that real beauty goes much deeper than skin; That you are most likely losing out on many opportunities to meet and fall in love with some AMAZING people who would make you feel like you're on top of the world; People who would love you for YOU, and not run out on you the second you lose some muscle or get a grey hair or start going bald, or WHATEVER; People who would do anything for you and would always be there for you.

That can't happen if you don't even give them a chance. I'm not saying you should go and try to date someone you find downright repulsive, but you need to reorder your priorities, or you're only going to get people who are shallow like you. And those people would most likely leave you for some stupid reason, leaving you heartbroken and feeling worthless. I'm trying to help you prevent that.
f**k i diddnt notice you were 26..look younger....actually i turn 23in a few days..f**k im old too. lol.


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11 Oct 2012, 2:59 am

Don't fret too much, mxh, the pity party will always be there for you and if that fails, i'm sure your blonde friend will emphasize with you.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:02 am

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Funny that, the threads haven't stopped at all, my threads are still in the essential love and dating thread and still have been used by a few members to a positive extent. I don't know what living situation is but I've been too busy doing positive things unlike you, sitting behind a screen with your negativity. I have no doubt that there are many people that want to have a pity party with you but try doing something positive for once.

I've never created a thread that didn't reap reward, just so you know, i've been busy pricing what I preach unlike you and I've never denies that dating sites are a numbers and presentation game, I just gave people a way to each those numbers instead of playing the while man of justice and morality act like you.


and that means anything? Ive already explained why your PUA methods work. Pics that make you look better than you are, and going through enough people that youll eventually find one saying yes. Hell, one of your threads was literally about going through like 1000 people to hope some message you. What type of sh***y "advice" is that? And heres what you have wrong, i dont sit here spewing negativity, I sit and tell people the truth that everyone else avoids. And truth is your threads suck and are mocked behind your back by dozens.

Yea, they all had the same group of guys clawing at you for more, and you became their leader. That as the reward, just simple ego boost. Most didnt even bother posting in your threads as they found it too silly to even be bothered with. Also, unlike you i dont preach onto others, so dont give me the "unlike you i preach blahblah" crap. My posts dont need ulterior motives All i do is go after preachers like you. Hence this post. If anything i supported the action of PUA material in your thread for some, but came at you for lieing to everyone about it. You couldnt even paraphrase, it was copypasta for christs sake. im sorry if i made you cry last thread.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:05 am

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I have already apologized idk whats else you want from me


You did? I missed it then. The only thing I saw out of you since I posted pictures of me and my amazing loving big beautiful fiance were comments about us being fat. But then again, I've also been posting mostly nonsense since shortly after that, so it's not surprising if I missed it.

I don't want anything from you other than to realize the very thing I've been trying to tell you all along; that you might get what you want if you don't try to be such a dick about everything, and that real beauty goes much deeper than skin; That you are most likely losing out on many opportunities to meet and fall in love with some AMAZING people who would make you feel like you're on top of the world; People who would love you for YOU, and not run out on you the second you lose some muscle or get a grey hair or start going bald, or WHATEVER; People who would do anything for you and would always be there for you.

That can't happen if you don't even give them a chance. I'm not saying you should go and try to date someone you find downright repulsive, but you need to reorder your priorities, or you're only going to get people who are shallow like you. And those people would most likely leave you for some stupid reason, leaving you heartbroken and feeling worthless. I'm trying to help you prevent that.
I was willing to give the girls that i met on pof in real life a chance and one of them was LARGe but thy werent interested. There was some attraction There though. A lot of girls that message me are astoundingly unattractive.


Well, you just gotta get back up and try again. Sometimes it helps too, if you're not looking for a relationship in the first place. Have you ever lost something, and you searched frantically for a while to find it, sometimes maybe almost literally all damn day? But no matter HOW hard you search, you just CAN'T find it, but then one day you forget about it completely and it just shows up? Well, sometimes dating can be like that too. I don't understand it, but I'm aware of it.

And for the record, there have been a few girls at various jobs I've worked who would flirt with me and hit on me, even to the point of physical touching and slapping my ass, for some reason. None of them were attractive to me either, but I don't mean that they were ugly looking. I mean I didn't like who they were. It wouldn't matter if they suddenly transformed into <insert "hot" celebrity's name here>, I still wouldn't be attracted because they have ugly souls, if you will.

yeah, I know I look a lot younger than 26. Nobody EVER believes my age when I tell them. I can't buy a pack of cigarettes without getting carded most of the time, but oddly enough they don't card me as much at the liquor store...



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11 Oct 2012, 3:06 am

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Don't fret too much, mxh, the pity party will always be there for you and if that fails, i'm sure your blonde friend will emphasize with you.


lol. you really think you're special dont you? why dont you come and make threats at me like the last guy that got in your way? if you're really dumb enough to think im living a pity party, or if you're just again trying to show how much better you are for that ego that i destroyed, ill let you know that no matter what you do or say, in the end i can be better than you if i so desired. Just save everyone the trouble and stay in the videogame section like you have for the past month



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11 Oct 2012, 3:22 am

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Don't fret too much, mxh, the pity party will always be there for you and if that fails, i'm sure your blonde friend will emphasize with you.


lol. you really think you're special dont you? why dont you come and make threats at me like the last guy that got in your way? if you're really dumb enough to think im living a pity party, or if you're just again trying to show how much better you are for that ego that i destroyed, ill let you know that no matter what you do or say, in the end i can be better than you if i so desired.


Funny that you are always out to prove yourself as the white knight and how you believe your words have great effect. i've been too busy practising what I preach and working/studying. Unlike you portending to be someone living a Jersey shore lifestyle and taking photos in Miami. What next, you'll be taking photos in Vienna? I don't know what dhving is, i'm simply sharing methods I have personally found successful, i've never claimed to teach people how to get a successful marriage or a super model girlfriend, my posts have been genuine to what they preach. I'm not selling an ebook or publishing anything, i'm not selling a product, i'm simply not having a pity party like you are when there people that are grateful and positive. Now i'm not taking a digg at your insecurities or depression as I know that can affect anyone but just realize that positivity can go a long way.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:26 am

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Funny that you are always out to prove yourself as the white knight and how you believe your words have great effect. i've been too busy practising what I preach and working/studying. Unlike you portending to be someone living a Jersey shore lifestyle and taking photos in Miami. What next, you'll be taking photos in Vienna? I don't know what dhving is, i'm simply sharing methods I have personally found successful, i've never claimed to teach people how to get a successful marriage or a super model girlfriend, my posts have been genuine to what they preach. I'm not selling an ebook or publishing anything, i'm not selling a product, i'm simply not having a pity party like you are when there people that are grateful and positive. Now i'm not taking a digg at your insecurities or depression as I know that can affect anyone but just realize that positivity can go a long way.


well considering i live in miami, thats where theyll be at next. you dont know anything about me because i havent shared it with you or anyone, so stop assuming. when you assume about me you make an ass out of u. I dont come to be a white knight, but i also dont come as an ego parade like you do. guess what, your methods are things ive mentioned before. and much more. except i didnt hide it for hat it was, unlike you. it sure is easy to be higher if all you do is try to push the others down. But i can see far because i stand on the shoulders of giants.

lol, you're such a bad liar. not knowing your peoples lingo. its what id expect out of a 5 year old

and again, im no white knight. neither am i a preacher. All i do is cut through the BS. and all youve done is give me a lot of s**t to go through.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:30 am

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Funny that, the threads haven't stopped at all, my threads are still in the essential love and dating thread and still have been used by a few members to a positive extent. I don't know what living situation is but I've been too busy doing positive things unlike you, sitting behind a screen with your negativity. I have no doubt that there are many people that want to have a pity party with you but try doing something positive for once.

I've never created a thread that didn't reap reward, just so you know, i've been busy pricing what I preach unlike you and I've never denies that dating sites are a numbers and presentation game, I just gave people a way to each those numbers instead of playing the while man of justice and morality act like you.


and that means anything? Ive already explained why your PUA methods work. Pics that make you look better than you are, and going through enough people that youll eventually find one saying yes. Hell, one of your threads was literally about going through like 1000 people to hope some message you. What type of sh***y "advice" is that? And heres what you have wrong, i dont sit here spewing negativity, I sit and tell people the truth that everyone else avoids. And truth is your threads suck and are mocked behind your back by dozens.

Yea, they all had the same group of guys clawing at you for more, and you became their leader. That as the reward, just simple ego boost. Most didnt even bother posting in your threads as they found it too silly to even be bothered with. Also, unlike you i dont preach onto others, so dont give me the "unlike you i preach blahblah" crap. My posts dont need ulterior motives All i do is go after preachers like you. Hence this post. If anything i supported the action of PUA material in your thread for some, but came at you for lieing to everyone about it. You couldnt even paraphrase, it was copypasta for christs sake. im sorry if i made you cry last thread.


Some of us have better things to do than take a forum so seriously, if my threads suck why would they be posted in the essential love and dating thread and why have I got private messes from many people on here asking me for advice? I believe in my advice and that's why it is working for me, i've never sold anything that isn't genuine, unlike you, I don't care if its right or wrong.

We are not dealing with amazing scientific inventions here.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:34 am

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Some of us have beret things to do than take a forum so seriously, if my threads suck why would they be posted in the essential love and dating thread and why have I got private messes from many people on here asking me for advice? I believe in my advice and that's why it is working for me, i've never sold anything that isn't genuine, unlike you, I don't care if its right or wrong.

We are not dealing with amazing scientific inventions here.


berets arent things to do. theyre fancy hats. also speak for yourself about taking it too seriously.

idk, hy would i get dozens of PMs of people congratulating me on standing up to you, and why are all those great threads locked for BS. Ive never sold anything, so i dont have to worry about it being real or not. So dont even go down that road. you're a cheap act, thats it. go on to the next forum. and pray there isnt someone like me there to run you out

btw, for your next reply can you bring something new to the table? im getting tired of repeating the same things over and over again.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:39 am

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If my threads suck why would they be posted in the essential love and dating thread?


You keep saying that... Why do you keep considering your posts so essential?



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11 Oct 2012, 3:41 am

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If my threads suck why would they be posted in the essential love and dating thread?


You keep saying that... Why do you keep considering your posts so essential?


it makes him feel special. its like having a title with the word executive in it.

truth is wolfy is scared of me for some reason. nobody would find a way to connect themselves to a conversation that didnt involve them and continue to run with it in a repetitive knuckle-headed tone for no reason. hes afraid of me, that i can beat him at his game if i felt like playing. thats all there is to it.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:42 am

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Some of us have beret things to do than take a forum so seriously, if my threads suck why would they be posted in the essential love and dating thread and why have I got private messes from many people on here asking me for advice? I believe in my advice and that's why it is working for me, i've never sold anything that isn't genuine, unlike you, I don't care if its right or wrong.

We are not dealing with amazing scientific inventions here.


berets arent things to do. theyre fancy hats. also speak for yourself about taking it too seriously.

idk, hy would i get dozens of PMs of people congratulating me on standing up to you, and why are all those great threads locked for BS. Ive never sold anything, so i dont have to worry about it being real or not. So dont even go down that road. you're a cheap act, thats it. go on to the next forum. and pray there isnt someone like me there to run you out


Right or wrong, there are haters but there are people who have taken the advice and it worked for them. Not exactly, your threads weren't getting many responses so you decided to attack mine in a rage but i'm standing her laughing because i'm the one that was getting action last weekend. I did stand up for your girl in threads, I tried to be positive but you just appear to be lost in your own negativity.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:48 am

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Right or wrong, there are haters but there are people who have taken the advice and it worked for them. Not exactly, your threads weren't getting many responses so you decided to attack mine in a rage but i'm standing her laughing because i'm the one that was getting action last weekend. I did stand up for your girl in threads, I tried to be positive but you just appear to be lost in your own negativity.


see, this is the ego BS i talk about. honestly anybody that doesnt see this is blind. People didnt like mine because i presented them for what they were. I didnt have to rely on lies to get people to listen. And still the tactics themselves are BS.
I love how last page you told me that my sex life wasnt of your interest but aparently yours is to mine, lol. Listen wolfy, and listen carefully. Cause you missed it the last couple of times. I dont give one s**t about you. I couldnt care less. The fact you have to try and stand up to me makes this all worthwhile. Even at my worst im your average. You dont want to see me at my best. And stop with the bs "im helping you not be negative" sayings. we all know its BS you're saying to make yourself seem like a white knight.