07 Mar 2019, 3:51 pm
This is not a discussion about social status, it's about how we can all get along better. Many of us often feel what sly just said. I don't see that as a reason to give up.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
07 Mar 2019, 10:54 pm
08 Mar 2019, 3:21 pm
That doesn't mean anything in particular.
I know NTs who gave up. They're still just as important to me.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
09 Mar 2019, 6:49 am
It's not as if I never think I'm going to be alone no matter what I do, I'm simply not justified in spreading negativity that way.
I love the people on here & I seriously love the people in my life. That doesn't mean I'm any good at showing it. We're here to get better.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
24 Mar 2019, 11:36 pm
24 Mar 2019, 11:43 pm
***hugs***
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
25 Mar 2019, 2:42 am
25 Mar 2019, 2:28 pm
You're free to stop thinking in terms of single or not single.
I think that's all BS anyway. Everyone must decide for themselves who's important to us & why.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
26 Mar 2019, 1:40 am
26 Mar 2019, 4:49 pm
No one ever came up with an official definition of love that fully describes it so you can relax, there's no way we're as wrong as we think we are about this.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
02 Apr 2019, 4:31 pm
02 Apr 2019, 5:18 pm
I'm thinking there's a greater issue at hand than just any of our ASD diagnoses. We need to confront everyone's prejudice at the same time we're making efforts to be more relatable.
I love people without us necessarily understanding each other. I think we need to make more time in our lives for relaxed discussions about ourselves & our similarities to NTs.
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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
02 Apr 2019, 5:53 pm
02 Apr 2019, 5:55 pm
02 Apr 2019, 6:54 pm
02 Apr 2019, 6:57 pm
Sly. You are a Homo sapiens.
Most people see me as subhuman as I didn’t live up to societies demands. I’m not middle class, I don’t make good money, I can’t own a car, I’m not a real man I’m not dating material. No woman sees me romantically or would even consider dating me non less wasting their time talking to me.
I didn’t like females until I was 11/12.
If you had romantic and sexual feelings or attraction at 5 that’s not normal, most don’t until their start going through puberty
I had a crush on a girl when I was five. It was very romantic! She could do the splits.
(It wasn't sexual). I got run over by a bike-a-thon trying to cross a busy road to see her.
Romantic feelings can happen at different levels at different ages.
