Majority of autistuc men dont have a girlfriend?

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Here's the thing though: A lot of abusive/dangerous men have no trouble getting a girlfriend/sex partner.

On the other hand, the vast majority of incels will never hurt anyone.

I mainly mean party animal stuff when I say normie stuff.

I've noticed normies act shocked at the idea that I have no desire to be a party animal.

Most ASD folk have no interest in being party animals.

Funeralxempire likes marijuana, likes to drink to excess, etc.

That was what I had in mind. Those interests are more common among normies. Most ASD folk prefer a quieter lifestyle.

I guess I was thinking from the standpoint of my upbringing in the Catholic church. I had a very conservative priest who told us any sort of intercourse outside of marriage was wrong.

You've got this backward.

We only know about the abusive / dangerous ones because of the girlfriends and sex partners they've threatened, hurt, stalked, kidnapped, and/or killed, because those women were brave enough to report it - or forensic evidence made it clear to court.

We don't know about the abusive / dangerous ones who remain involuntarily celibate or single because they've yet to hurt someone. It doesn't mean they won't.

Cannabis and cannabinoid use in autism spectrum disorder: a systematic review:
National Library of Medicine -

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34043900/

Being "kept" by a dangerous felon isn't necessarily a good thing for women.
We made that clear.

I don't doubt there are instances where a career felon coerces a woman to remain in a relationship with him.

That being said, a coworker of mine has a felon son who's currently on his 3rd incarceration. During his periods where he's a free man, he gets women throwing themselves at him. Evidently they want to get with him.

That's fine.
Everyone is allowed his/her/their choice and we're all different.
We've said that many times.

It seemed as if you were trying to shame or marginalize fxe, and that's not cool.
I hope that wasn't your intention.

No, I had no desire to shame fxe. I just didn't like how fxe smeared a lot of us as boring (just because we have different interests)

What's your point with this?
Are you jealous of the men, or the women?

My mother just spent seven weeks in hospital so I can comment on healthcare, at least as it is here.

There were far more male nurses and support aides than female, and far more female doctors than male.

Of all her nurses and aides (shifts changed twice a day for seven weeks and we seldom saw the same person twice - do the math), I'd say 3/4 were men. Actually they were men of colour too, if that matters. The fact they were usually men was very apparent because my mother is 85 and had a broken hip but they kept sending men in to do her nursing care, insert and change catheters, change her diaper, clean her bottom, stand with her in the bathroom when she started using the toilet again, or even to change her gowns.

She was very upset that they were men. I asked her how men might feel being the patient with female nurses / aides, and if it might be equivalent to the way she felt. That seemed to put things in a bit of perspective but she was still pretty freaked out. The only time they specifically sent women was for showering but that seemed redundant since the men had been all up in her business anyway.

The doctors were all women except for one man. Her follow up appointments with a fracture clinic and with Geriatrics are with women as well.

Her home-care physiotherapist is a man.

My doctor is a woman and my dentist is an Iraqi woman. Interestingly, the only male doctor I have is my Gynaecologist.