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04 Oct 2010, 7:39 pm

I'm sorry you've been subjected to superficial women, nick. The truth is, you're probably doing exactly what you're saying the women do... looking to the wrong women and ignoring the good ones.


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04 Oct 2010, 7:43 pm

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I'm sorry you've been subjected to superficial women, nick. The truth is, you're probably doing exactly what you're saying the women do... looking to the wrong women and ignoring the good ones.


I like most any woman who's nice to me but they never like me. Only way I could find a woman here is if I start dealing coke or go to a mental institution; if I could get in without paying I would go



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04 Oct 2010, 7:47 pm

Then perhaps you should seriously consider moving. If not out of state, at least to another city/town. Either you're not seeing the big picture where you are, or you live in a very bad area.


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04 Oct 2010, 7:52 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Then perhaps you should seriously consider moving. If not out of state, at least to another city/town. Either you're not seeing the big picture where you are, or you live in a very bad area.


If I had the money, resources & Independence skills I would move to another country like maybe Iraq or China or better yet another planet; a Vulcan woman would be great



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04 Oct 2010, 8:00 pm

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Then perhaps you should seriously consider moving. If not out of state, at least to another city/town. Either you're not seeing the big picture where you are, or you live in a very bad area.


If I had the money, resources & Independence skills I would move to another country like maybe Iraq or China or better yet another planet; a Vulcan woman would be great

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04 Oct 2010, 8:14 pm

My girlfriend actually asked to be friends with me originally here on Wrong Planet, and it grew from there. I suggest messaging random men until one responds.



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04 Oct 2010, 8:16 pm

nick007 wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Then perhaps you should seriously consider moving. If not out of state, at least to another city/town. Either you're not seeing the big picture where you are, or you live in a very bad area.


If I had the money, resources & Independence skills I would move to another country like maybe Iraq or China or better yet another planet; a Vulcan woman would be great


Ok. We want to help but you don't give us enough information. You won't tell us where you meet these women so how can we give you advice?

They could be bogan girl who like useless deadbeats with fast cars, they could be library girls who like quiet guys, we know nothing about the women you're trying to attract.



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04 Oct 2010, 8:19 pm

Exactly, hale_bopp.


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04 Oct 2010, 8:24 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
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TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Then perhaps you should seriously consider moving. If not out of state, at least to another city/town. Either you're not seeing the big picture where you are, or you live in a very bad area.


If I had the money, resources & Independence skills I would move to another country like maybe Iraq or China or better yet another planet; a Vulcan woman would be great


Ok. We want to help but you don't give us enough information. You won't tell us where you meet these women so how can we give you advice?

They could be bogan girl who like useless deadbeats with fast cars, they could be library girls who like quiet guys, we know nothing about the women you're trying to attract.


I've met women from lots of places, work when I was working, other friends, some of my cousins friends, internet, some of my neighbors relatives ect. It doesn't matter where I meet anyone because it's the same f#ckin story. They are never interested in me & instead use me for support when they are having problems but are never there for me & then get mad when I'm not there for them. I think I'm better off alone than dealing with getting used, lied to & the freaking mind-games. They all use me like I am nothing more to em than their tampon for emotional support



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04 Oct 2010, 9:04 pm

Well that's all men are for.


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04 Oct 2010, 9:10 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I'm sorry you've been subjected to superficial women, nick. The truth is, you're probably doing exactly what you're saying the women do... looking to the wrong women and ignoring the good ones.


No those don't exist. :P


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04 Oct 2010, 9:22 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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Ah, okay. I'm not sure how I'd feel about having one though. If my family arranged a marriage for me, I'd be stuck with an uptight bible thumper and I would be miserable. It'd be like being married to my mom, minus the lesbian incest. D:


Again, it would depend on the culture and country. In India, family members will take out personal ads for it. They list attributes that mesh, and only those that are compatible answer. There is no "sweet, honest, makes me laugh..." and so on. It's "is good with numbers, wants to live in the sticks, knows how to relate to others, wants children..."

Of course, since your mom was raised in westernized society, these are not the things she would be looking for in a husband for you. So yeah...


Nope. Her ad for me would be as follows: Looking for good looking devout Christian male who can drive and never masturbates. I don't even think I'd get an arranged marriage out of that unless I was looking for an asexual. :lol:

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I agree. I think a lot of the problems with dating I see on this site can be summed up with one little sentence... 'Looking for love in all the wrong places."


Then where are the right places? I'll camp there if I have to. :lol:

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Lol, but I like Pennsylvania. I would move to a different city in PA because I like the people there better than back home. Obviously, it isn't exotic enough since it's a college town and most of the students are from another part of PA or NJ. :D


Hey i'm from NJ, you're saying i'm not exotic enough huh?


Well, I have friends and relatives in Jersey so not really. I don't think any of them have the accent though. XD



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04 Oct 2010, 9:40 pm

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04 Oct 2010, 9:41 pm

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Well, I have friends and relatives in Jersey so not really. I don't think any of them have the accent though. XD


Nobody from Jersey has the "Jersey accent"... it's more prevalent on parts of long island, actually...

Think Jon Stewart. That's how the average guy from Jersey really sounds...



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04 Oct 2010, 9:43 pm

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Well, I have friends and relatives in Jersey so not really. I don't think any of them have the accent though. XD


Nobody from Jersey has the "Jersey accent"... it's more prevalent on parts of long island, actually...

Think Jon Stewart. That's how the average guy from Jersey really sounds...


Oh okay. Yaaaaaaaay stereotypes! :D

I can't stand the roads in Jersey though. I wasn't even driving and I was getting stressed out. The layouts aren't friendly to those who aren't from there. Even our GPS got lost. >.<



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04 Oct 2010, 9:49 pm

How ironic that today people b***h about gpses getting lost. Apparently someone ran their car into a lake because they were paying too much attention to their GPS, just heard the story today.


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