My problem with relationships and age

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As soon as the boyfriend is gone they start to fap? why is life all about that?

That's like as soon as something is unavailable from them, you find a replacement or get with someone else. [Resemblant of Dogs?] What about waiting and looking forward to it? What about it being special and shared? If i want it I'm puritanian and have my own dogma? And how about your dogma? Aren't those people quite dog-matic about getting it either way? Woof woof.

Urges are urges, temptation is temptation. Otherwise we'd go around screwing everything and everyone. Choice.

It's really not the same, there are male dolls for the straight. Imagination doesn't run wild over a dong.

I hope she remains a doll. I'm sure he loves her for who she is and she does well as a doll.

When he's ready to let her go he might get a real doll. But his fellow men are completely disappointed in real sex. They wanna go wild, they complain they've been necking themselves too thoroughly and it's not the same, and they talk horribly about women's bodies as if they're supposed to please and know them the same way their hands have pleased them. They really don't understand sex, patience, don't have any built withold and they need bootcamp training. They don't know women have hands, nails [construction] and other parts. Jesus wouldn't be worried.

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thank you sir

i'm autistic here, can you please break that down into something more easily graspable by me? IOW i have not a clue what you just meant.

It's autistic dialect. But from the wrong planet

What is hard to understand? The necking definition? Bootcamp?

Necking, in engineering or materials science, is a mode of tensile deformation where relatively large amounts of strain localize disproportionately in a small region of the material. From Wikipedia.

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a just flashed in my mind [really my late older sister screaming at me down from heaven] precisely what you meant and i'm sorry, i hope you are not in that situation.

Come on, how can that be put in simple words without even mentioning other words. I guess I can explain more elaborate, that seems to do it.

A dildo [or a dong] isn't the same as a male Doll. The imagination and person presence imitation factor is different. The equivalent of a dildo is a fleshlight for men. Dolls are dolls. I also argue it's way easier for men to reach and fap and they don't have to worry about nails, cervix or damage.

Someone who's attached to an inanimate friend or girl friend might like her and value her for who or what she is, which is being a doll, which is unique in its own way. even if she's so much more in the imagination.

Some of your fellow men, your male Bros or counterparts on this forum, are disappointed in sex with real women because they are used to speed up and women are made out of flesh. They are used to never hold back and not take it slow, and expect it to be the same with a woman. A woman is not a fist, the vagina is very different in structure and grip. It's gentler. But women themselves have hands and other parts they can use that can mimick the desires they got used to, and feel there's no other way anymore to enjoy something, but that's not all they have.

While they show off their hand as the only solution, they're missing exactly what a woman and a man in their complexity are and what they can achieve, because it's easier to not as they don't care about the union that forms, the trust and bond between two people and the work done to succeed and have enjoyment in many ways.

Lack of built withold means like when dogs see cat's food and think it's for eating. They are untrained to sit down and wait until their own food is prepare and leave the cats alone like the gentle dogs they are. Dogs don't naturally do this, respect, relationship with the owner and mental strength is build, and physical resistance. When they see p**** they may live in peace with it, not attack it. That's how a harmonious household is created.

Bootcamp training is intensive training that's meant to prepare them to go to war. To learn how to shoot, and learn how to wait and hold back, or retreat.

^^^thank you for your patient explanation. jibes with what my late sister just told me.

I'm in the precise different opposite situation. My fiance is the gem of the gems, where would I have been had other men snatched me. I'm in heaven like your late sister. Perfect men exist hehe. He loves and treasures me and all that I am very much and is on to achieve amazing goals with me. He's open-minded, hard-working, committed, considerate and sweet.

To each their own. If someone would ask me: choose the life you wish to have and the fantasy intimate life you dream of, within the limits of possibilities, you can bet it won't be a hand with marker marks on it as my wife while keeping the real human on the side, and neither would I choose the incredible life of spending my time fapping when my fiance isn't home. I'd rather look forward to having him on a special date, whether or not it involves making love. I'd rather see all our dreams fulfilled and have a unique relationship where we can openly talk of our dreams and hopes, and what we can do sky's the limit, we never have to abide by what others say, that makes our time truly special. Some people say romance is dead and people forgot to dream, but it's only dead if you go with the flow and give up and you have nobody to tell what you're thinking about.

Can't we just agree, that hands and the other thing, they're both good in their own ways.

Well my boyfriend bought me a vibrator and encouraged me to use it and we are monogomous so neither of us really feel like it's anything like a replacement or getting with someone else.

He doesn't have as high of a sex drive as me, so it helps if I'm not soley relying on him to pleasure me, we've talked about it and that's our conclusion. It is still special and shared when we do it together, because it involved the person I love and there are plenty of things we do when having sex I can't do by myself. The self pleasure is more like just something to get my body to stop feeling like I want sex so I can get on with whatever I was doing before the urge showed up.

That said I don't think your perspective is wrong...I can see how waiting to make it more special and that kind of thing could work for other people. When you put it that way it does not sound puritanical, the important thing is for couples to do what works for them as there is no one size fits all approach.

So relationships are a complicated thing but the take-home message is that how couples choose to engage in sexuality is an entirely private thing so long as it's mutually satisfying and not harming them or anyone else.

Yes there are pensioners going at it like rabbits but let's be real, they might have just met and exploring each other's bodies be single/dating, taking viagra or something else. if a couple is able to stay together for 30 years and maintain the same level of sex life they had when they were in their 20s in their mid 50s then they are highly creative and have managed to build into their life routines but even then physically we aren't built like 20 years olds because there is wear and tear.

Perfect

You are 31 years old and just entering a new relationship. It sounds like you are still in the honeymoon phase and having lots of sex. Good for you

Come back when you are 55 and tell me if your new husband is still the same guy or if your sex lives haven't changed,.

I am not prescribing fapping for all men? we males discover what works for us. For some men the vagina is still the only place to consumate their sexual urges when they reach a certain age. For others the hand comes in "handy". A lot of this stigma over fappings comes partly from christian morality stemming from biblical warnings against men spilling their seed and partly from feminism and the anti-porn and objectification of women.

I don't doubt it. OurMorning Television is very informative sometimes, maybe too informative. Such stories, of sexual nature, anything out of the ordinary, are very popular, and very common to this particular show. It's a right laff.

I don't know what it's like in Australia....but apparently in USA. I Heard a statistic,that some Old folks homes are one of the leading cause of sexual transmitted infections. A demographic, second only to maybe teenagers.