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"I am 37 and will be 38 in July. its not only here, the age differeance..i see it on whatever AS site or dating site for AS that ive been browsing about on. for some reason, there arent many folks in their mid or late 30s posting on AS sites...perhaps because more younger people are being diagnosed now with AS as awareness of AS rises in the medical comunity? i walked around for the first 34 years of my life believing i was 'normal' and just unlucky in life..until one day i read a posting in a doctors office waiting room about AS ...it soundesd like me .. i was found to have AS after years of being mis diagnosed as 'depressed'... Lisa"

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Lisa, Hi. Yes, I suspect you are correct. I only first heard the name "Asperger" in the late '90s or early '00s. Before that nobody knew - we were all just labeled "odd" or, if we did well in the world and seemed to prosper, "eccentric." If we had a hard time making it in the world, we were "crazy." I spent over 40 years thinking there was something "wrong" with me and trying to be something I am not. It's a relief to not have to do that anymore and not worry about "sanity" or the lack thereof. And I'm so glad younger people might have options that we didn't have.

Yes, I, too, have had the diagnosis of depression - which was appropriate, because I was pretty [expletive deleted] depressed! It was as if I was in a play - dragged in off the street while walking by and told I was an actor starring in a mainstage play where everyone else had the scripts for weeks. And where I'd never seen a copy, was given one typed in a foreign language with the pages out of order, and shoved onstage. And that it was opening night...And the lights flipped on, with me in the spotlight and the audience all out there. I've gotten pretty good at ad-libbing life, but I'd still really rather run back out into the street.

I wonder how many middle-aged people still have no clue whatsoever? After enough years one might have a tendency to hide things from the world. Perhaps from themselves. Life is hard that way, and it shouldn't have to be so.

Nice to meet you, Lisa.

Ewww, McD's.

No, they do not count.

I love Boca Burgers.

Kind regards,
Chris

I wonder how many middle-aged people still have no clue whatsoever? After enough years one might have a tendency to hide things from the world. Perhaps from themselves. Life it hard that way, and it shouldn't have to be so.

Nice to meet you, Lisa.[/quote]

Nice to meet you too.
Lisa

Hehe. I just ate Cheetos, so I am hungry. You can read my new thread in the Members Only section if you wish. I am beyond frustrated right now. My brain is in hyperdrive!

Kind regards,
Chris

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My name is N.T., I'm 13 yrs old, 5'5", 171 lbs, little bit build, artistic, and I'm also like the Daredevil's son. I know I look a bit fat, but I got some mean reflexes, too.

They can go !@@# themselves. This is something which we have no controll and they might not handle it like we do. I feal no empathy to those who have opportunity to attempt to tryand fix themselves and don't even try. For those people you deserve to get maid fun of. There was a john shoemaker who cured himself with docotor's help. I won't give up myself. I council an autistism group called gfcf kids. The parents say I am too techinical. Feal free to ask I have alot. [/url]

I am new at using this it was nonmembers reading our stuff. Excuse the tone it is going to change very frequently maybe. My therapist thinks I have bipoar disoder. I can be very harsh sometimes depending on which person inside controlls me.

I get plenty of sucker in such probably more than anybody. Simple relaxation exercises make me feal like I have had a lot of those even if my mom is going to be rude that day. If did have biapolar it would be alot less severe than the 2 b*****s my sister stripper and my mom. I controll the mood therefore I can say they are both stupid biapolar b*****s. I also work hard to cure myself my mom gets fat sister smokes blunts so still stupid bipolar b*****s. That right this is prime cut no junkfood do everything right guy. That is how you score. Except for genetics we must work harder than everyone else because we are disabled. Almost everything women find attractive about me is related to how you can father children your health. We need to make up for our disability. My brothers drippy girlfriend is attracted to him probably she needs some to strenghten her out. That is other thing if the relationship could be useful. When you are at your healthest our disorders don't show as much and gives us the best chance at getting cured.

I am very fimilar with the biochemistry of autism to the point of causing confusion to others, so I know some things that can make our lives better. Do you know what nirvana is like I have been there. How about fealing so powerful that you could punch through metal with your bare hand and can run very fast at light speed.

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I will put plenty of articles up

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