Reasons why you're a bad catch

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Let me see here . . .

I'm 30, working two jobs, and have no real ambitions.
Been living with my parents for the last couple years (lived on my own 4 years prior).
I'm clueless when it comes to advances (as many of us here are).
I dont have a Bachelor's degree in anything, only 2 Associate degrees + additional courses.
I'm overweight (245-250 lbs), and stand 5'8" tall, wear glasses (though i only need them for driving).
Often negative with little ability to see the positive in anything.

Probably other things, but these come to mind.

Know what, we should just make a single-mingle page/thread since Aspie Affection doesnt seem to work half the time.

I have tendency to having difficulty communicating at times :/

1 unemployed > wrongfull termination almost 3 years and still not in court yet !

2 about to be homeless >winters are bad here

3 excess of hobbies.> drawing,photography.woodworking, architecture, design, science, physics,logic

4 short> 5'7"

5 painfull skin condition > cysts

6 difficulty walking > awaiting diag, possibly ALS

7 athiest >

8 depressed > not suicidal yet

9 hate people > most that I have met are of low morals

10 all of the above

I have used and do use drugs(not always for the right reasons)
I am going nowhere and am a loser
My sanity is starting to fail me
I have no idea what to do with my life
I hate society
I probably belong in a mental institution
I have depression
I have PTSD
I have anxiety
I have AS
I probably have something else I have not put my finger on yet
unless you're a f*ck up you probably do not want to be with me...lol.

1. Awkward. (If I weren't so awkward, I'd get a few more dates.)
2. Cynical. (But I'm still a positive guy!)
3. Slightly possessive. (I've gotten better, I swear!)
4. Elitist (I hate elitism and high culture but I find myself more associated with it)
5. Not that attractive (It's all subjective but I don't myself very attractive...which can also be a good thing!)
6. Picky (I pick people apart on the basis of an ideal mate. Though, I've gotten better and have learned to accept people for who they are now)
7. College student+Probably going to be broke the next couple of years (Money talks, sometimes. "Money doesn't talk, it swears."~Bobby Dylan)

I think that most (if not all) of my troubles in life, including my troubles with attracting women are caused by my poor health.

If you are healthy and able to preserve good health and are in good shape everything goes right in life for you. If you are healthy and strong you can make money and if you are chronically ill, working a lot of hours and making a lot of money can be quite difficult. Strong people can work many hours at a job and make a lot of money in the process while physically weak people with bad health obviously cannot do the same.

I am very good at making things more complicated than they have to be.

I am very flaky. Can be obsessed with someone one day, and completely apathetic towards them the next. It tends to hurt people when I suddenly become really distant. Im honestly mean, and a horrible catch. And being really depressive and odd right now so just ignore this...

I'm a bad catch because I almost never talk. Even if I met somebody I truly loved, I wouldn't find a word to say to her.

My beliefs are generally viewed in an unfavorable light.
I like to sit quietly in the dark, something that people find creepy.
I don't talk unless someone requests that I speak, or if I urgently need to get my mind off something else.
I'm worthless in a social situation.
I'm uncomfortable to the point of running away when someone tries to touch me.
I have a bad habit of breaking up with people within a month.
I'm not very attractive.

Ummmm... I'll just give one reason of many... and that is, my habit of being in love with multiple girls at the same time.

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Need to pretend to be empathic (but some people can see through it).
I'm a few pounds underweight (but getting there ).

I don't know, maybe there is something wrong with everyone else.

I'm to f*****g skinny for my own good.
I have problems with depression/suicide-attempts/panic attacks and social phobia.
And I'm an introvert.
I'm also shy just to top it of.
I sometimes feel like I don't understand my own language. Like I know half the Swedish one and half the English.
I am very distant. I contact my boyfriend maybe once a week on MSN and that is all.
I'm not attractive.
I don't care for myself. Fashion and looking good for others are just a waste of time.
I can't do well in social situations. Meeting parents is hell.
I don't talk very much.
No eye-contact.
Have no humor.
No job.
No self esteem.
I like to be alone.
I'm tall. 6"2.
No ambitions what so ever. Uhh...plans?

Got the 'sperg: no one will ever understand me.

I'm not very relateable. Along these lines, I far prefer my own company. I like people well enough, but their continued presence irritates me.