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09 May 2017, 10:48 am

Since when did I say it did?


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07 Feb 2018, 5:40 am

well 2017 I feel was kind of a breakthough for me in my dating life, although it wasn't a high quality relationship



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09 Feb 2018, 6:15 pm

I have been invited to a cafe once. It was boring.


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09 Feb 2018, 6:20 pm

^^^What would make it interesting?



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09 Feb 2018, 6:31 pm

IDK, I decided to give it a try ^^^


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09 Feb 2018, 7:14 pm

How did it go? Or is it still in the future?



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09 Feb 2018, 7:17 pm

You misunderstood. What am I trying to say is I had been on a date and it was boring.


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09 Feb 2018, 7:18 pm

Sorry about that.

What would make a date interesting for you?



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09 Feb 2018, 7:23 pm

It shouldn't be a date, but rather just 2 people getting to know each other. Date means too much pressure and expectations. I'd rather do sth of spontaneous nature which has no name or boundaries.


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09 Feb 2018, 7:34 pm

I agree with you on that one.

I've had more of what you enjoy than "dates" per se.



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09 Feb 2018, 7:42 pm

It woudn’t be boring if you like the guy.



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10 Feb 2018, 12:39 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It woudn’t be boring if you like the guy.

I know your approach :D


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10 Feb 2018, 1:54 pm

smudgedhorizon wrote:
It shouldn't be a date, but rather just 2 people getting to know each other. Date means too much pressure and expectations. I'd rather do sth of spontaneous nature which has no name or boundaries.

Why’s calling it a date put pressure on it?
I wouldn’t hang out with a lady if it’s not a date. If it’s a date I know where I stand she’s interested in me romantically, if it’s not I’m going be anxious whole time and worried about what I should be doing.
The dates i went on we’re just doing activities or talking and walkthrough a park.
I could see a grand fancy restaurant dinner date being pressure. Date can be anything it’s just a meeting of two people with romantic interests between them. If it was friend interest to be a meet up. Also it was never called a date but it what is was. I mean I didn’t ask them on a date. I’d ask them if they want to go meet at the park. Both knew it was a a date but never called. It’s just the situation that brings two people together that makes it a date or meet up. I’d meet them on dating sites so it was romantic interest.



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10 Feb 2018, 2:47 pm

^^^ I see that can confuse a lot. That's just the way I am. For me it's all terra incognita. I'm not sure what I want and how I feel when it comes to romantic relationships. I cannot instantly tell if I like sb. Hope you don't come across someone like me in your dating life. You need a girl who knows what she wants and is confident with her sexuality.


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10 Feb 2018, 7:43 pm

^ I guess you just need to experiment. You'll get a better idea of what, if anything you want as you get older.


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11 Feb 2018, 4:30 pm

I haven't, but I would like to. At 53, however, I feel my hopes of finding someone nice and understanding of me fading fast.