Slys dating site advice help thread.

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I don't believe guys should send unsolicited "dick pictures," either.

Especially to women.

Whoa wtf, everybody knows that Sly is into fat girls. Also has he really said anything homophobic?

By the way he means that it's unfair for a fat girl to turn down a guy because he's fat, that's what I think he means with "she should lower her standards", but he's wrong because dating is not charity and if a fat girl prefers fit guys and is actually able to get them, why'd she settle for a fat guy she likes less? Makes no sense.

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Thanks for clarifying.

Well it’s still unfair . Most stuff is .
However a lot of them can’t get thin guys. I just find it hypocritical or odd that they won’t put in the effort to be thin but demand a guy who does. Do they plan to eat lots of cake in front of him but him not to eat any as he’d get fat? Will they be like some guys and demandentheir bf only eat salads at steak places lol. They essentially the female version of the men feminist hate. They can do what they want, just for most of them it’ll mean remaining single. As most guys especially thin guys want thin women. There’s certainly more thin women then thin guys, meaning there’s no reason a thin guy has to accept a fat woman. Atleast where I live. There lots of thin gorgeous women. Very few thin men, a lot of men here are twice my size. I don’t get how people get so big. Anyways I just don’t get how fat women think they can get a thin guy vs say their thin friend will get. There’s certainly fat guys who think they can get thin women and thus refuse to consider fat women or any women who’s not super thin. Most are single. Similarly to the fat women who only want thin men. It’s numbers thing. Supply and demand. I don’t expect I’d ever get a thin woman. Chubby women are still attractive I call them average. However it seems I’m. It even good enough for them. So i dont know I can’t dste women 2-4 times my wieght. I’m not good enough for women bit bigger then me or my size and I’m definitely never going get a thin woman. So meh
Same with looks. I’ve been told I can’t date pretty women. So I’m supposed to date women I find ugly5% female population . But I can’t as I could never be romantic with someone I find ugly. So I’m just in a terrible position where there’s no women I can date. Most wont date me anyways cause my job so it doesn’t really matter.

But I see women told they deserve thin handsome men even if they themselves are fat and average or ugly. It blows my mind how women and men are treated so differently.
Men get told we aren’t entitled to a woman, women are told they deserve a good man. So women are entitled to a man? Certainly not right? No ones entitled to another person. And haleboop I know you’d disagree but I’m talking about non wp people. I often see women told elsewhere and in public they deserve a bf. Like why? What about women make them entitled to a bf thst men lack and so for aren’t entitled to a gf? However I’m far too submissive to ask them. I don’t talk much or post much outside wrong planet.
Why do you two think nt people feel women deserve a bf but men don’t?

Lol. It does kinda look like it. I had to shrink the image to use as a avatar.
Maybe I should use the one with a giant feather. It’s so cute thst fox kits are just like puppies or kittens. Being so naive and silly. Picking up things twice their size etc.

There was one of a kit carrying a dead bird, but I feel sad for the bird, so I couldn’t use it.

I know the answer to this. Nobody is entitled to another person but if you are male your friends are probably male too and they're going to tell you stuff like 'you're fat, you won't get a girlfriend unless you're rich' BUT if you are a girl, and your friends are NT females you will be told 'you're a wonderful person and you deserve the very best' to your face (you have no idea what they are saying behind your back ). Women are usually much more likely to say supportive things, which they may or may not mean, than men are. Obviously this is a generalisation.

Wouldn't it be worse if they were forced to date people they don't like? If they are unfair douches that's even another reason you have not to date them, you dodged a bullet.

Sly it seems sometimes that you live in some post-apocalyptic world were none gets with anyone and everybody just keeps whining about wanting to date Brad Pitt or something. In reality the vast majority of people gets in relationships all the time.
I don't know why it is so different for people like us.

That is a super-adorable fox kit.

No I live in the world were over 50% the population doesn’t get anyone. 50% is a lot of people. We talking about 50% of 320 million people. That’s what 160million people. Wouldn’t you consider thst a lot?
In my area there’s 3,000 more men and of the men and women there is a neough to match up with half of them are single. That’s a lot in just my area. It’s no wonder dating site are full of thsoauands of women who remain single year after year after year.

People are far far far too picky today and lazy. They won’t work to make relationships work they just break up at the slightest problem and try to find someone to else.
Mean something is wrong when half the nations population is unhappyly single.
And unlike what women in my area think it’s not cause there’s not enough men to date. There litterally 3,000 more men, 3,000 women could have two bfs if they wanted to, there’s no lack of men.

Isn’t it
This is another one I might use

Or


This fox is a blind orphan apparently


And some more cute kits

Hey Buddy....I'm sure quite a few people don't hate you for wanting hugs. I certainly don't.

And lots of the women here, too, like you. At least as a friend.

I hate that meme thing. It's really not true.

Sly... first, I liked your old avatar, he was a doll, but your new one is sooooo cute.

Looking at the fox pix you've put up... oh boy, this is an off the wall idea... I'm not sure how easy it is for you to get around, and I'm not sure where you are. So if this is just completely stupid, I apologize in advance.

You would like to meet someone to care about and be with. I'm putting it delicately, but that's because it will start a bit delicately if it's good for the long haul, usually.

Looking at the love you seem to have for these animals, I just had this crazy idea... are there any wildlife rehabilitation places near you, would you have any interest in volunteering with them, or maybe would you want to volunteer with a no kill animal shelter in the area?

You'd be able to help little fuzzy guys who really need it. You'd also hopefully be able to meet other people who care a LOT about them, and the odds are very very good that some of these people would be women, some would be your age range, some would be attractive to you. The odds are also good that some would find you attractive. Kind guy? Who loves animals? And works to care for them? Oh my. Animal loving eligible women should be lining up for blocks just to have lunch with you... and I would not be surprised if some of them were Aspie themselves.

Again, it may be a totally crazy off the wall idea, or depending on where you are and how easy it is for you to get around, it may be totally unworkable, but I just got this really strong feeling that it could work and I'd better say something.

Edit in: and what could really help - if this is something you could do and really love, then you would get into it and be really enthusiastic about it. Which would make conversations easy, with others doing the same thing. And would make it ... less about how to meet someone, and more about... you love and help these little guys, and hey look, this really sweet cute young woman does too... things could go more easily from there, there would already be shared interests and values. (Now I will shut up and stop editing this. Please do think about it, if it's at all a possibility, though.)

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I bet Sly would be good with animals.....

Let me tell you something, Sly: women and girls like guys who take care of animals. They really dig those sorts of guys.

Ohhh, that's true. Back before MisterChess and I met, his brother told me about how he'd been arrested for civil disobedience because he was protesting pet stores selling chicks dyed for Easter. I was smitten before I ever laid eyes on him.

That's the "cute" version of my avatar.