do you find autistic girls attractive?

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I have only met one girl that I suspect could be on the spectrum and we got along quite well. Sadly she is half my age. As far as it goes, I think it would be easier for me to date an aspie girl than an NT, so long as her issues were similar to my own. It would cut through all of the bovine excrement that normally happens in this sort of relationship and let me know where I stood rather than having to guess.

No.
I'm straight.

autism is a DSM diagnosis that does not include anything about looks. Therefore, I also have no reason to believe that the attractive/non-attractive (to me) ratio among autistic people is any different to the attractive/non-attractive ratio among the general population.

Definitely, but you also have to take into account how certain asperger's traits contribute to how a girl portrays herself. Her style, her makeup her hairstyle, her attitude, her shyness can be attractive, creativity, liking guy stuff for some, so her interests and habits make her attractive as well. And all these things affected by AS.

This post kind of made me think about the way I present myself more, and made me wonder what I could do to help things out when it comes to myself. It made me stop and consider my dress/hygeine/hair style combination. I know exactly what to do and how to present/take care of myself in all of these categories but I'm starting to realize that I have a hard time focusing on all of these characteristics at once, and so might neglect one or another area of my life. For example, I might dress nice and be all showered and brushed and deodoranted, but my hair looks a mess and I forget to wear a belt so my pants are falling. If I get everything done and look decent then I usually end up compensating for it somewhere later on - such as being late to wherever I'm going, etc.

Of course I find autistic girls attractive. In fact, I'd like to date one, but only she's outside my race. And yes, I'd love to ask an autistic girl out on a date.

I'm an aspie girl and I don't think too many guys really care about it to be honest. I have a great boyfriend and have had other relationships in the past (one was AS, others were NT) but I don't really have too many social issues to be honest, not particularly open/noticable ones. I've had about the same number of relationships/people asking me out as my friends.

The only aspie girl I have contact with is quite attractive.

I went to an autism group the other day...there were two hot girls in the group..im like score. turn sout they were interns and the autistic girls were ugly lol. Thre were some weird people there..one guy was drawing pictures of us during group and asking us to sign it.

think ill go back though...what do i got to lose?

I think I'd find someone who can understand me very attractive.

Seconded.

I think I find them attractive, because the ones I've been with seem a lot more honest than normal people, and I think my first and only girlfriend has Autism or something like that. It seems like to me, that the "Normal" people don't talk to me, and don't want to even be my friend. My girlfriend thinks that I'm attractive and beautiful.

I have never met an autistic girl, at least not to my knowledge, so I cannot claim to have an opinion one way or the other.

I cán however say that the idea of a girl that also has AS just as me does sound very appealing.
AS tends to mostly be an issue in communication between an AS and NT person.. not so much AS to AS.
I imagine communication with a fellow AS person might be much more natural and less stressful/forced than with an NT woman.

Moreover: Regardless of whether she's ASD or NT I'd want a woman with whom I could communicate on the same level and someone that understands my view of the world and perhaps even share it with me.. that simply sounds like something that'd be impossible for an NT woman and thus I am inclined to think an AS woman has a higher chance of actually 'fitting'.

Hell yes I'm attracted to autistic women. I don't care how awkward you are, just so long as your intentions are good.

I absolutely adore a cute autistic girl, there is no one on the planet I want to be with more than her. It's very difficult to get her to talk to me, but when she does talk, she's very fun-loving indeed. I'm willing to wait as long as I have to for her because I think she's worth it.

It depends. There is a lot of variation in attractiveness in autistic women. There are some who are angelic and absolutely adorable and others who are a bit androgynous (which can be very attractive to me also; there's a certain tomboyish look that is very hard for me to control myself around ). Like the men, many are really not attractive, however, especially the ones who don't take care of themselves.

I will say, however, that the voice of spectrum women with prosody issues is typically lovely.