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09 Apr 2012, 7:33 pm

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Because no one is good enough for me.


Sounds like you are causing a problem if girls like you.


How so?


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09 Apr 2012, 9:06 pm

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Because no one is good enough for me.


Sounds like you are causing a problem if girls like you.


How so?


Am I allowed to Lawl now, or should I come back later?

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09 Apr 2012, 9:31 pm

Settling for someone I don't like would be far more problematic than trying to find the perfect mate. Never mind that such a relationship would not benefit anyone. I've focused on jumping through hoops for others for so long that I've lost sight of what I really deserve. Much better than living in a world where you try to list reasons why you're not good enough for someone.


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09 Apr 2012, 10:09 pm

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Body dysmorphia, plus I actually gained weight....5 pounds

and I'm so fricking screwed up because of that and so many other things


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10 Apr 2012, 2:31 pm

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How so?


As girls sometimes have to jump through hoops to get to you as well.

If girls won't give you a chance, you shouldn't give them the same in return, that'd be pointless.


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10 Apr 2012, 4:18 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:
Boxman108 wrote:
How so?


As girls sometimes have to jump through hoops to get to you as well.

If girls won't give you a chance, you shouldn't give them the same in return, that'd be pointless.


It's only fair. If others can afford to be picky, I have every right to be as well. Otherwise I'd only ever get into one sided relationships.


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11 Apr 2012, 5:21 am

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Don't know anyone in real life (and don't know anyone online that could afford to either come here, or fly me down there...)


Where's "here"?



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13 Apr 2012, 11:47 pm

Well, I have a number of female friends, some even in the spectrum, but I was told that it's hard to get out of the 'friend zone' therefore I just didn't go further.

Plus they all had boyfriend already



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14 Apr 2012, 1:09 am

Why am I still single?

1. I am a Christian and a Republican, and people assume I am a closed-minded hatemonger, despite that I am really not.

2. I have trouble understanding some of the unwritten NT social rules.

3. Shortage of female Aspies who are single, but aren't asexual or saving themselves until marriage.

4. I live in the freakin' Bible Belt.


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14 Apr 2012, 1:37 am

I choose to be.



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14 Apr 2012, 1:39 am

I'm single because I have more important things to work on before I'm ready for a relationship. I wouldn't want to inflict myself on anyone in my current state.



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16 Apr 2012, 11:57 pm

Girls don't reply on okcupid so I gave up for now. Well, a few did but the results were short lived.



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17 Apr 2012, 3:21 am

I only broke up a few months ago with my autistic bf (he lived too far away and rarely visited) but the reason I'm most likely to remain single for a LONG time is the fact I don't believe anyone is real.


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18 Apr 2012, 9:56 pm

I'm mistrustful of women.



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18 Apr 2012, 10:43 pm

I'm self-conscious, have low self-esteem/confidence, and social anxiety. People have said I'm good looking, but I'm just ret*d. I feel like I'm going to die an asexual.



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18 Apr 2012, 10:43 pm

There hasn't been anyone impressive.


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