Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Hello!

My name is Joshua Guy. I'm 19 year old man who is looking for a relationship with a girl that'll last and last. I'm looking for any woman from my age to below 30 years old. I'm looking for a loving compassionate woman who would accept me as I truely am. I don't leave anything about my self a secret I'll tell all. I'm a loving sometimes overloving and protective person. My love for any one woman will never change because I'll keep my love strong. I'll never cheat and I will never look for another woman. I'm a Christian but that won't keep my love from being as strong as my love can be. I'm a novelist and I have four novels that I've already written. In my novels I can write really well. I do write great romatic relationships between the main characters. I don't really mind the physical just the woman has to be from thin to avarage weight. I put ahead of everything else the other person's personality, emotions, and behavior. My favorite things that I enjoy doing are listening to Final Fantasy series music, I find my self liking the Japanese culture even though I'm not Asian and I live in the states. I'm white by the way. My favorite movies are Gone in Sixty Seconds, Spirited Away, and Phone Booth. I'm just trying to find someone who will enjoy me for being me. Who'll won't think I'm trying to be pushy when I'm not trying to. My love for this one woman will never end.

Nice, slim, attractive woman.
Myers Briggs type = ISFJ.
Member of the Autsider community, the Dutch Internet Forum for Auti's.
Long, tall, slim 36 year old woman from Europe.

I am a cozy person. Stylish. I am not looking for that one partner, I just like to get to know more friends.
I can make a long list of things I want in a partner
I care for other people, but not always about their opinions about me.
I am vunerable. I can be hurt. I was hurt then and I will be hurt in the future
Make me laugh, make me smile,
I want to be a part of the sunshine in your life, if that's ok with you..
I have 1000 thoughts to share with you,
1001 dreams to tell you...
Mobbing in the past. Wounds to heal , I know I can do it, but it all needs time ...

This fire Bird is making recovery.... like Phoenix....

oh your are such a card thats funny!! !!

Yeah I do know what I have seen and read I think It can be improved to some degree. I just recently figured my sound sensitives are related to stress and when I try and calm down I love music.

It's funny because my sound sensitivities cause stress.

Damn this is what frusturates me everything so good even social skills yeat isolated from truama fuckn truama damn you Damn you mom see what you did.

Ok, I think it's about time I got into this dating game thing. Here goes:

Hi, I'm James! I'm 19 years old and live in Manteca, California (sadly, no where near anything of even remote interest). I am 5 ft. 9in. tall and have short, dark brown hair and blue eyes. I enjoy playing video games, Anime/Manga, hanging out with a few friends and other computer-related stuff, and caring for my rather large (to put it mildly) pet rabbit. I also am a large fan of the literary works of Tolkien. I am easy going and intelligent, and spend a lot of time teaching myself various stuff. I am also very compassionate, dedicated, and listen to peoples problems. I am also very artistic and like to draw a lot. I would say my appearance is average as well.

As for the qualities in the girl I'm looking for, I'd like to meet someone who is intelligent. caring, and funny. Someone who likes to spend quiet evenings cuddling next to a warm fire. (Wow! Didn't that sound cheesy?). I'd prefer someone between 18 and 20 years with (preferably) long hair. Interest in video games/anime is a plus!

I would like to add what I posted before about my self. I want all girls to know that including to my AS, I also have Obessive Compusive Disorder. So that means to all those including Fiz I want to say I'm sorry if I come across forceful. I think it takes a brave man to say that I'm sorry. If Fiz comes across this tell her or I can tell her my self that I'm sorry for coming across as forceful. I don't mean to be that way but sometimes I can't help it. I need to get control of it but it's hard when you got a lot of other things that are distracting to actually fix it. That's one big weakness of mine and I might be wrong about this but I think my compassion I have for all those who I've tried to help here is a weakness as well. I don't know what good my compassion has done to everyone. All it has is give me heart ache. I don't know if I can stand being heart broken any longer. I just need some girl to love. That's all. I now take a bow. Sorry all.

What's the use?

Judging by her pictures, I think the entire single male population would like to date Fiz.

TigerFire: When I read your posts and visualize how you would take care of a girl as you are so very keen to do, I imagine a hamster in a cage, cloistered in a house, a hamster that is loved to death... literally. It is creepy and unhealthy.

For example, you say, "Please give me a try and I'll be yours forever". Seriously, do not say things like that. Stop thinking such thoughts. Thoughts like that ruin your chance for a good relationship. Look, you are talking to NO-ONE in particular, you are saying to an as yet unknown girl, "I'll be yours forever". You have not even MET the girl and already you are promising eternal devotion!! ! Crazy talk!

The ONLY situation in which it MIGHT be appropriate to say "I'll be yours forever" is if you had been in a loving and successful relationship with someone for MANY YEARS, and you were at least middle age. Even then, it is still a dubious thing to say.

MAYBE you could say it in marriage vows, after having lived with someone for a number of years. MAYBE then. But to say it to no-one in particular? Or to say it to someone you have not yet met? Or to say it to someone you have known a short time? That is seriously very wrong.

With words and thoughts such as these, I find it very unsurprising that you are experiencing difficulty. You seem to be unheathily obsessed with finding someone to love, and it is making it extremely difficult for you to attract anyone. They quickly realize that you have the wrong attitude, and promptly run for the hills!

I think that if you work on your attitude regarding relationships, love, and dating, and change it to something more healthy, you will experience more success.